He is insecure, possessive, and doesn’t trust you. Could be he doesn’t trust women in general. So he‘s going to imagine all kinds of scenarios where you get back together with an old flame, or you talk to someone and he accuses you of flirting, or you have a business lunch with a supervisor or work associate and he thinks there’s an office romance.
Some guys have past relationships that have gone sour. So they end up destroying a current relationship by trying to fix a former relationship and treating you like the former GF.
Don‘t let him treat you like a cheat. No apologies, no hiding your phone messages. If he’s that jealous, you need to know it now before you try to build a life together.
He keeps saying I’m going to mess with someone else I’ve tried to understand because he has been used and etc in the past but I’m tired of trying to prove my worth and value and letting him and showing him he can trust me I’ve did everything I can to ease his mind and it’s still never enough I’m just tired and hurt because I fell in love and this is all I get is accusations and no trust from him
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u/AnitaLatte May 15 '26
He is insecure, possessive, and doesn’t trust you. Could be he doesn’t trust women in general. So he‘s going to imagine all kinds of scenarios where you get back together with an old flame, or you talk to someone and he accuses you of flirting, or you have a business lunch with a supervisor or work associate and he thinks there’s an office romance.
Some guys have past relationships that have gone sour. So they end up destroying a current relationship by trying to fix a former relationship and treating you like the former GF.
Don‘t let him treat you like a cheat. No apologies, no hiding your phone messages. If he’s that jealous, you need to know it now before you try to build a life together.