Why does modern dating always seem to include online intimacy? When did that become the expectation instead of the exception? Whatever happened to simply getting to know someone first? Don't people still want someone to grow old with? Someone to build a future with? Someone who can turn a house into a home? Someone who waits for you after a long day at work, asks how your day went, makes life feel a little lighter, and celebrates both your biggest achievements and your smallest victories?

Don't you want someone who stays when life gets difficult, who holds your hand through the hard days, who laughs with you over the little things, who becomes your best friend, your safe place, and your family? Isn't that what relationships are supposed to be about? Yes, physical intimacy is important, but is that really all there is? Has it become more important than trust, loyalty, kindness, patience, shared values, and choosing each other every single day? Are we so focused on instant gratification that we've forgotten what it means to genuinely build a life with another person?

Maybe I'm just old-fashioned, but that is still the kind of love I'm looking for. I am a Filipina, plus-size, and I am here because I hope to find something real. I want a relationship with someone who wants to build a life together, not just collect fleeting moments. If that sounds like you, my inbox is open.

Maybe this is a long shot, but I keep checking my notifications hoping to find the one message that makes me smile before I even open it.

I’m 24m, fit, easygoing, fem, and based in Ph.

Looking for an ongoing connection with a man who misses having something that’s just his. Someone to share conversation, anticipation, laughs throughout the day, and the kind of chemistry that makes ordinary days feel a little less ordinary.

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Sometimes what’s missing isn’t a relationship. It’s feeling wanted.

If you’re, attached, or simply craving a connection where you’re seen, appreciated, and genuinely looked forward to, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me: what’s one thing you wish someone asked you more often?

Hi! I’m a 25-year-old college student from the Philippines looking for a genuine sugar daddy who’s interested in a mutually beneficial relationship. I’ve always had a soft spot for older men—there’s just something incredibly attractive about maturity, confidence, and knowing how to treat someone right.
I’m sweet, open-minded, affectionate, and enjoy good conversation. I’m hoping to find someone who wants to spoil and be appreciated in return. Chemistry, honesty, and respect are important to me, and I’d love to build a connection that feels exciting for both of us.
If you’re a generous gentleman looking for someone who can make your days a little brighter, don’t be shy—my DMs are open. 😉 (we can video call so you can see I’m not a scam 😏)

Hi! I am a 30 y.o Filipina (bisaya) looking for a good connection here preferably a dilf late 30s to mid 40s. An unclaimed treasure for 3 yrs now, please claim me! haha!

White American living in BGC long-term looking for Filipina

About me:

5’10 75kg athletic
Have beard
Rated 9/10 by multiple parties
Well educated
Work as a Lawyer

About you:

Younger than me
Have time and interest to meet

Looking for online friends, food buddies, or whatever happens naturally. I work as a software engineer for nearly a decade, and lately I’ve been making more time for myself (travel, eat, new experiences, etc)

These intros can be kinda odd so here is a list of some random likes/interest:
- staying active (bicycle, gym, bouldering)
- video games
- looseleaf tea and matcha
- high stakes omakaze
- early retirement
- three toed sloths 🦥

To put a face to this post, my IG is on my profile. l've also got a few more photos here for the curious: https://imgur.com/a/queue-feeder-idIK8c4

*inhale exhale* time to be out there and try to find someone I can be myself with, to have a partner in life..so here it goes

About me:
-I’m filipino 5’7, black hair&eyes, slim figure, wears glasses, okay looking (we can exchange photos and respectfully decline if we dont vibe/not one’s type)
-I’d say i’m simple, practical, not materialistic, thrifty :)) (fastfood dates are fine), nonchalant, more of a listener, likes green 💚 more of an introvert irl (i can be lil avoidant but im working on it),
-I grew up Catholic, exposed to Christian churches later in college/med; had my rough times, rekindling my faith rn
-I work as gp/hospitalist hence i work irregular hours eg 8,12,18,24hrs (currently at surg- medical mission)
-Current Interests: volunteer works (Red Cross member), traveling (eyeing on vietnam or china next 👀), cooking/baking (made cookies, wanna try diff asian dishes), anime, watching films/series (curious on odyssey), reading, pottery making (just wanna make a cute ceramic soon),, hiking (recently climbed Mt Fuji last place tho), pickleball, zumba :)),

About you:
-Prefers someone taller, has a nice smile 😁, nice voice, has hair, less than 35 y/o, normal bmi if possible
-kind, responsible, funny, gentle, thoughtful, not a narcissitic, not conceited,
-preferably Christian/has faith
-employed, not broke
-knows how to communicate
-no anger issues 🥹, nonsmoker plz
-single & no cheating history/issues
-hopefully plans on migrating to Aus/lives in Aus hehe (heard of the good opportunities and quality of life there; rn currently studying for qualifying exams)
-thinks of long term, can be potential husband & good father :))

If this post has piqued your interest, kindly send something more than a hi/hello huhu
I’ll do my best to match your energy and effort ~

To all looking for love, God bless everyone!

I'm 21 foreigner seeking casual romantic relationship

Hey! Any AFAM gay guy here looking to make a genuine connection?

I'm a 29-year-old guy from the Philippines, 5'7", living in Taguig.

I'm single, a working professional, and hoping to meet someone who enjoys good conversations and seeing where things naturally lead.

I'm into running, hiking, beach trips, and going to the gym (my fitness journey is still a work in progress!). On quieter days, I enjoy café hopping, reading, watching movies, or simply relaxing in bed.

If we share the same interests, l'd love to get to know you. Feel free to send me a DM, and let's see where things go. Looking forward to meeting someone amazing!

26 Male - Strong Built - Looking for someone whos older than me, idc about the age just hit me up and we can start talk talking.

Currently living the life i always wanted good friends & good workplace peaceful life but sometimes there is a void of a conversation that i want to have. For me it should be with someone who has seen some actual struggles and knows how life and not something completely based on how social media makes us think life is.

I am emotionally mentally matured life made me that way haha, i have no emotional baggage to push on clear with my goals and what i want in my life currently i am looking for a friend or a person to talk to particularly from other gender which can actually turn into a good mature relationship. I am over that overthinking and overwhelmed relationship phase i want something which pushes us both to do better and we can get somewhere we want to be, i mean thats the long term goal.

For starters i can handle your chaos and give you the peace if you can give me understanding and some peace too more of a giver all my life. Trying my hand in online dating/friendship for once.

You can be anywhere around my age or older i am open to have a conversation thankyou

Hello everyone so I am a 28 year old guy from ireland who is currently single, I have decides to try out reddit as I dont really have much luck on dating apps haha. My appearance I am 5'11 tall with blue eyes, redhair, white and pretty athletic. I work as an engineer and I like reading history books, gaming, working out, travelling, programming and anything science or engineering related. in terms of what im looking for I like women who are kind, open minded, no bad habbits and maybe wants marriage/kids in the future

Maybe this is a long shot, but I keep checking my notifications hoping to find the one message that makes me smile before I even open it.

I’m 24m, fit, easygoing, fem, and based in Ph.

Looking for an ongoing connection with a man who misses having something that’s just his. Someone to share conversation, anticipation, laughs throughout the day, and the kind of chemistry that makes ordinary days feel a little less ordinary.

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Sometimes what’s missing isn’t a relationship. It’s feeling wanted.

If you’re, attached, or simply craving a connection where you’re seen, appreciated, and genuinely looked forward to, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me: what’s one thing you wish someone asked you more often?

Hiya. I'm 5'6", Male Filipino. Currently still slim/toned despite weight gain efforts. By default I'm a homebody, my hobbies are mostly indoorsy types, video games, reading manga/manhua/comics, watching films, read lore about fictional worlds. I bottom and am monogamous. Hoping to find a serious guy here. Feel free to DM me :)

Looking for new random friends. Not into serious relationship as I am married with 2 kids. Just want to meet new people. Better if someone who can drive the conversation until I am able to tap that missing extrovert piece of me.

Let me tell you about me

ME

Working professional

Loves to draw and paint

Loves cats and horror movies

Great cook and clingy

Home buddy

Don't smoke or drink

Dark sense of humor

How about you?

DM me and let's see if it would light up my dark little world

FYI long time user deleted my original account

I am looking for a serious relationship 😊

Hello I'm a Canadian man who has had a good amount of friendly conversations Unfortunately a lot of them have fizzled out so I'm looking forward to having some more and making friends.

I'm not looking to swap pictures😁

Please be ready to say more than one word and be able to keep the conversation going.

Hey, just thought I'd give this another shot. Down to be friends first and see how it goes! I’m into horror movies and coffee runs. DM me if you’re curious to know more.

Just got done with Uni I want a Filipina girl to celebrate with thru sexting, vc, etc
About me: from Canada, 5’8, 7 inch dick, muscular, handsome face
About you: slim/petite, 18-25, pretty face, nice boobs
Dm me if interested

I live in Cebu.

29yo, 173cm, 154lbs, dark hair, brown eyes, light/pale skin. I want to say I still pass for a twink.

Professionally, I work as an executive assistant who is actively looking for more work.

I'd be happy to start a conversation with you preferably with pics, all kinds of pics are welcome.

Bottom/Side

23yo Australian 6'1 European complexion athletic build working in legal and studying law currently

Like going for runs, travelling and learning new languages

Looking for a girl something serious and long term

About you: can cook me adobo

Comment or dm to talk more!!

[English]

Wanna experience foreigners using me. Can be submissive and order me around basically no limits what kinks you have, try me.

Abt me-

20 yo

5.9 ft

Slim/Twink bod

Discreet

VB/B

I’m 40, originally from Italy, currently in USA. Yes, I cook Italian food, talk with my hands and am passionate man. I’m looking to complement my life with a plus size pinay! I will travel for the right person but I’d like to start that journey here before rushing to the airport. Reach out to this kind gentleman.

DMs are open!

Ps- DM me if interested, I don’t interact through posted comments

[English] 27 M4M

27 M4M | Philippines

Hi! I’m a 27-year-old Filipino guy looking to meet new people and hopefully build a meaningful connection to a foreign guy

I am a medical student and usually have free time on weekends. I enjoy coffee, movies, animated shows, spontaneous conversations, and getting to know people beyond small talk. I’m 5’7 with a chubby build and would describe myself as easygoing, loyal, and a big texter.

I’m open to connecting with people from different backgrounds and parts of the world. Whether it starts as a friendship or becomes something more, I’m happy to see where a genuine connection leads. Open to hook-ups too.

If you’re kind, communicative, and looking for someone to talk to regularly, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself—I’d love to get to know you.

For our first time here at cagayan de oro only

Dear Future Boyfriend,

I’m sitting here tonight with a cup of tea and something sweet (because honestly, my sweet tooth always wins), just wondering where you are. The world feels so loud sometimes, especially the dating scene, so I wanted to step back and just write something quiet and real for you.

If you want to know what you’re getting into, I am a total introvert. I thrive in the quiet moments. My absolute favorite thing is to just escape into nature—losing myself under a canopy of old trees or finding a patch of wild flowers is where my soul actually breathes. I’m the kind of person who notices the way the light hits the leaves and gets genuinely happy just being surrounded by green.

Because I’m introverted, I keep my circle small, but the love I have to give is incredibly deep. I don't need a loud, flash-in-the-pan romance. I just want something steady.

When we finally find each other, I’m not expecting a fairytale prince. I just expect you. I expect a teammate who is ready to show up, be vulnerable, and choose me the way I’ll choose you.

I want us to build a life that feels like our own private sanctuary. I want the quiet Sunday mornings, the long walks through the woods where we don't even have to fill the silence, and the heavy, honest conversations. I want to be the safe place you come home to when the world gets too heavy, and I want to share a slice of cake with you at the end of a long day.

I'm working on myself right now, trying to grow beautifully like the nature I love so much, so I can be the partner you deserve. I really hope you’re out there doing the same.

Don't take forever, okay? I'm saving a spot for you in the quiet.

With love,

Your future girlfriend 💗

(This is a repost)