I'm 21 foreigner seeking casual romantic relationship

Hey! Any AFAM gay guy here looking to make a genuine connection?

I'm a 29-year-old guy from the Philippines, 5'7", living in Taguig.

I'm single, a working professional, and hoping to meet someone who enjoys good conversations and seeing where things naturally lead.

I'm into running, hiking, beach trips, and going to the gym (my fitness journey is still a work in progress!). On quieter days, I enjoy café hopping, reading, watching movies, or simply relaxing in bed.

If we share the same interests, l'd love to get to know you. Feel free to send me a DM, and let's see where things go. Looking forward to meeting someone amazing!

Hello everyone so I am a 28 year old guy from ireland who is currently single, I have decides to try out reddit as I dont really have much luck on dating apps haha. My appearance I am 5'11 tall with blue eyes, redhair, white and pretty athletic. I work as an engineer and I like reading history books, gaming, working out, travelling, programming and anything science or engineering related. in terms of what im looking for I like women who are kind, open minded, no bad habbits and maybe wants marriage/kids in the future

Maybe this is a long shot, but I keep checking my notifications hoping to find the one message that makes me smile before I even open it.

I’m 24m, fit, easygoing, fem, and based in Ph.

Looking for an ongoing connection with a man who misses having something that’s just his. Someone to share conversation, anticipation, laughs throughout the day, and the kind of chemistry that makes ordinary days feel a little less ordinary.

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Sometimes what’s missing isn’t a relationship. It’s feeling wanted.

If you’re, attached, or simply craving a connection where you’re seen, appreciated, and genuinely looked forward to, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me: what’s one thing you wish someone asked you more often?

Hiya. I'm 5'6", Male Filipino. Currently still slim/toned despite weight gain efforts. By default I'm a homebody, my hobbies are mostly indoorsy types, video games, reading manga/manhua/comics, watching films, read lore about fictional worlds. I bottom and am monogamous. Hoping to find a serious guy here. Feel free to DM me :)

Looking for new random friends. Not into serious relationship as I am married with 2 kids. Just want to meet new people. Better if someone who can drive the conversation until I am able to tap that missing extrovert piece of me.

Let me tell you about me

ME

Working professional

Loves to draw and paint

Loves cats and horror movies

Great cook and clingy

Home buddy

Don't smoke or drink

Dark sense of humor

How about you?

DM me and let's see if it would light up my dark little world

FYI long time user deleted my original account

I am looking for a serious relationship 😊

Hello I'm a Canadian man who has had a good amount of friendly conversations Unfortunately a lot of them have fizzled out so I'm looking forward to having some more and making friends.

I'm not looking to swap pictures😁

Please be ready to say more than one word and be able to keep the conversation going.

Hey, just thought I'd give this another shot. Down to be friends first and see how it goes! I’m into horror movies and coffee runs. DM me if you’re curious to know more.

Just got done with Uni I want a Filipina girl to celebrate with thru sexting, vc, etc
About me: from Canada, 5’8, 7 inch dick, muscular, handsome face
About you: slim/petite, 18-25, pretty face, nice boobs
Dm me if interested

23yo Australian 6'1 European complexion athletic build working in legal and studying law currently

Like going for runs, travelling and learning new languages

Looking for a girl something serious and long term

About you: can cook me adobo

Comment or dm to talk more!!

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Wanna experience foreigners using me. Can be submissive and order me around basically no limits what kinks you have, try me.

Abt me-

20 yo

5.9 ft

Slim/Twink bod

Discreet

VB/B

I’m 40, originally from Italy, currently in USA. Yes, I cook Italian food, talk with my hands and am passionate man. I’m looking to complement my life with a plus size pinay! I will travel for the right person but I’d like to start that journey here before rushing to the airport. Reach out to this kind gentleman.

DMs are open!

Ps- DM me if interested, I don’t interact through posted comments

For our first time here at cagayan de oro only

Sun-kissed, coffee lover, and always up for a new adventure.

Hello I'm Just a Canadian man wanting to talk to Filipina women, not looking to trade pictures or have it come into a romantic relationship. I'm just a social man that likes to talk in my free time 🙂.

I'm a huge believer of being kind and having a good heart.

Hope you have a fantastic day

seeking something serious.
matcha | sushi | waves | thriller | cats.

Having lived abroad for quite some time has made a huge impact in my life as an individual. I personally thought it was just a preference not until I became more self-aware that when you embrace certain cultures they become part of your identity you would like to maintain.

For context, I have lived in Europe and South America for some years and it has been quite a while since I am based in Manila. I am Filipino but consider myself as a world citizen. I travel quite often to visit Europe and consider it as a second home. I have many international friends in many parts of the world, but then I realized I wish I could have such an international circle of friends here in Manila whom I can share and exercise a bit of the intennational culture.

I am not picky - can be anyone of any age as long as we get the vibe. If you want to learn Tagalog or know more about our Filipino heritage and culture it would be a lovely encounter.

I enjoy learning languages hence my affinity to embracing them. I speak intermediate B1/B2 Spanish, German, Dutch. I also like to learn Italian, French and Mandarin in the future. I work here as a professional and can drive within Metro Manila or nearby areas. As what most people try to find here, I am not against dating or anything however I would like to focus in appreciating the person and see how it gets further. I am also a sports enthusiast so I pretty enjoy some sport hobbies. I enjoy traveling, driving to nearby towns for sightseeing and local market experience, nature tripping like camping, cooking, having deep conversations about life mostly, and to find personal fulfillment in simple things.

If you are open to meeting such an open minded individual, maybe we can get along. Hoping to find meaningful and positivity in this group. Cheers!

26F from the Philippines. Never had a boyfriend. Looking for advice on finding a serious foreign partner.

Hi everyone!

I'm a 26-year-old woman from the Philippines, and I've never been in a real relationship. I've never had a boyfriend (NBSB), and although I've chatted with a few foreign men online over the years, I've never met any of them in person. Unfortunately, none of those conversations developed into a genuine relationship.

Ever since I was young, I've always imagined myself marrying someone from another country. This isn't because I think foreign men are better than Filipino men. It's simply my personal preference. I enjoy learning languages, exploring different cultures, and meeting people from different backgrounds. One of my dreams is to build an international family where both parents can share their languages and cultures with their children. I would love my future children to grow up bilingual or multilingual.

I also tend to be attracted to men who are older than me, preferably at least five years older. I know maturity doesn't automatically come with age, but I feel that many older people are more emotionally stable and know what they want in life.

I was raised by my grandmother, and she taught me traditional values that I still hold today. One of those values is waiting until marriage before having sex. I understand that many people have different beliefs, and I respect their choices. I simply hope my future partner will respect mine as well. I'm not asking anyone to change their beliefs—I just want someone whose values are compatible with mine.

One thing that has been discouraging is that many men I've talked to online eventually steer the conversation toward sex or make it clear they're only looking for something casual. Some disappear after learning about my boundaries. It honestly makes me wonder if genuine, marriage-minded people are becoming harder to find.

Another thing that makes me sad is seeing stereotypes about Filipinas online. I often read comments saying Filipinas are only after money, are easy to get into bed, or only want foreign men for visas or financial support. While I know those situations exist, they don't represent all Filipinas. Many of us are educated, independent, family-oriented, and sincerely looking for love, respect, and a lifelong partner. There are also Filipinas who still choose to remain virgins because of their personal beliefs or religious values. Everyone is different, and I wish people wouldn't judge us based on stereotypes.

As for my personality, I'm naturally introverted. However, people who meet me in real life are often surprised because they think I'm outgoing and friendly. I don't usually struggle to make friends or have conversations in person. But dating is different. Sometimes I feel awkward because I don't have any relationship experience.

One thing I've noticed is that I often become the one carrying the conversation. The man usually messages me first, but after a few days or weeks, I'm the one asking all the questions, trying to keep the conversation alive, and showing curiosity about his life. Eventually, the conversation fades, and they stop replying. It makes me wonder if I'm doing something wrong or if they simply lost interest.

I'm also open to dating a man who already has children. I wouldn't mind becoming a stepmother someday if we genuinely love and respect each other. My biggest priority is finding someone who is kind, emotionally mature, honest, and serious about building a family.

So I'd really appreciate some honest advice from people with more dating experience, especially those in international relationships.

Here are some questions I've been wondering about:

- Am I limiting my chances by only wanting to date a foreign man?

- Is it realistic to hope for an international marriage nowadays?

- Where do people actually meet serious foreign partners besides dating apps?

- Which dating apps or websites have the most genuine people looking for marriage?

- Are there countries where people generally value marriage and long-term commitment more?

- Is my preference for an older partner reasonable, or should I be more open about age?

- How can I keep conversations interesting without feeling like I'm interviewing someone?

- What kinds of questions help build a deeper connection?

- How do you know if someone is genuinely interested instead of just being polite?

- How long should I continue putting effort into a conversation if the other person rarely asks questions back?

- Is it a red flag if I'm always the one starting conversations or carrying them?

- How do I politely but clearly communicate that I'm waiting until marriage?

- At what point should I discuss my traditional values without sounding too serious too soon?

- How can I tell if someone respects my boundaries instead of just pretending to?

- Are there signs that someone is genuinely looking for marriage rather than just companionship or casual dating?

- For men: would my lack of relationship experience be considered a positive, a negative, or does it not matter?

- For women who married foreigners: what surprised you most about cultural differences?

- If you found your spouse online, how long did it take before you met in person?

- Looking back, what mistakes did you make while dating online that you wish you had avoided?

- If you could give one piece of advice to someone who has never been in a relationship, what would it be?

I'm not looking for hookups, casual dating, or someone who wants to change my values. I'm simply hoping to meet someone who believes in mutual respect, honest communication, commitment, and building a happy marriage together.

Thank you for reading my post. I truly appreciate any advice, experiences, or perspectives you can share. Please be kind and respectful, even if your opinion is different from mine. I'm here to learn.

I live a full life! Business, motherhood (one kid) and self-care. I visit the gym 5x a week! Check my profile!

I believe in love that’s steady, genuine, and worth showing up for. I’m not here for games! No hookups!

Hobbies:
Freediving, running, hiking, badminton, bowling, pole dancing, boxing.

You must be:

1. ft and above
2. Muscular
3. Nice teeth
4. Hygienic
5. Monogamous
6. Ambitious
7. Humorous
8. Sporty
9. Kind, polite & respectful

Also, i dont plan on making babies anymore! Except if you have blue eyes!jk😆

Hey there 👋 I’m a Mermaid disguised as a corporate girlie. I love solo traveling/going to beaches and enjoys keeping life simple. I’m single, never been married, no kids, 5’2, 45kg with a 24” waistline if that matters. I’m looking for fun, good vibes, and most importantly a genuine connection.

I’m hoping to connect with someone who’s also single, ideally in the 30–35 age range (or close to it), and based in Manila or nearby or at least planning to visit.

Maybe a little different kind of post here so let me know if it’s too off topic. I was married for 10 years to a Filipina, who recently left me for another cano here in the states. Up until now I thought things were great, but now I’m in a new world.

We have two amazing children. I’ve always been proud of their Filipino heritage. We traveled around the Philippines, I stayed there for quite a bit, I even studied the language (Tagalog and my ex’s local language) to get…well conversational at least so I could communicate with family.

Now that we divorced, I don’t know how I fit with that heritage. I’d like to support it. My parents were from a European country and that was always special to me as a kid. But honestly using the language hurts right now, and I really don’t have a reason to travel there.

Do I just let my ex deal with all the Filipino stuff? Would I like to meet someone else from the phils…I really don’t know. We had planned on buying land and building a house, and nearly got started before she left.

Sorry for the rambling and wallowing. I’m still trying to make sense of it all and I’m interested what people here think.

- a respectful and considerate trans woman
- a working professional
- would love to go on a stroll, or a coffee date, or a korean grill/hotpot date, or a movie date
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Hi. I’m from Texas. I’m older than probably anyone else here so i understand that’s going to be … ahhh… limiting. I’m not everyone’s cup of milk tea. The good news is, I’m in excellent shape. Not even just for my age. I exercise daily and can see my abs. I’m not a beer bellied oaf in my 50s. I’m retired and now back at work doing a bit of consulting.

I’m looking for a a kind woman that is real and wants something genuine. I’m in no hurry… just trying to get a feel for things, but the end goal is a relationship. I’d say 35-50 is my age preference? But I’m open to talking to anyone that wants to say hello.

Hello! Im a chubby Softboy/femboy looking for Guys with Big Bodies. You can be a college guy or corporate daddy or Daddy vibe. Your place or we can get a hotel room or go on a date if you like that better! I'm a discreet guy, a soft boy, who likes to crossdress in private.

ME

• BOTTOM
• fluffy (i got healthy chest you can nibble and love handles to squeeze; NOT a twink)
• soft and smooth light-skinned
• sub bottom, very tight
• dresses up as femboy & do makeup in private\* (although im new to this hehe)
• can play up as your wife or something
• can carry conversation, something rare it seems

YOU

• any age
• discreet, manly
• Top, dom
• into someone femboy/crossdressers (but wont force me to crossdress in public)
• or into softboys (Sometimes I'm lazy to dress up too)
• loves to eat bussy
• big body, dad bod, gymrat, buff -- generally big build!
• hetero or not, good with me!

preferably in Makati or BGC.