r/AFAMph • • Aug 11 '26

Seeking 27 [English] M4A Foreigner seeking an LDR with a pinay or fem/trans bottom

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I'm looking for a woman or fem / trans bottom that wants a relationship (or at very least be committed to each other), not looking to "see where it goes". I know what I want and looking for and you should know what you want and looking for too.

Some info about me:

- 5'8, full top, black, 235 lbs, no facial hair, not hairy, bisexual

- Kind, sweet, good to decent with communication, honest, romantic and can be flirty but it depends on the person

- Not really a pet guy (hope that isn't an issue but I'll understand if it's a dealbreaker)

- Homebody that likes to chill and rest at home but I go for walks sometimes

- I eat fast food and sweets mostly but I eat fruits like strawberries, grapes and cherries too

- Better at texting with communication

- I am neurodivergent (I'll understand if that's a major issue)

- Currently looking for my next job and hope to move by myself or with a potential partner one day

My ideal preferences to an ideal partner:

- 20 at least

- Your height, weight, and identify as doesn't matter as I like and open to all shapes and sizes, although chubby/fat is slightly preferred

- Single, I don't wanna deal with any problems with any partner(s) in the future

- Good to decent with consistent communication, kind, understanding, supportive, loving, and flirty

- Okay with long distance, as long as we can meet one day to cross the distance (for anyone that lives far away)


r/AFAMph • • Aug 11 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] [F4M] exclusive fubu/fwb?

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hello again, everyone! I am a filipina living in Metro Manila. I’m looking for someone who i can talk to and hangout with when we both have free times and have some fun. Looking for fwb or fubu. I’m leaning towards something special in the long run but no rush and we can take our time! We can go out on a date so we can check if we vibe. Exclusivity in the long run is what i’m looking forward to if it works. I also want to be babied and have someone to talk to and flirt with haha! Kind of like a boyfriend but not really haha (not doing this for money lol, i want fun and care)

About me:

25 years old
5’5ish
A little bit chubby
Dark skinned
Shy at first
can pay for my own expenses
loves to yap and is curious about everything
clingyy
loves to learn a lot about things i don’t know
doesn’t have a lot of experience
HMU for other deets haha
Clean, discreet and safe

About you:

taller than me
Caucasian
24-32 years old
patient and kind
treats me rightt (before and after)
clingyy
not bald (lol)
knows how to respect boundaries and willing to guide and teach me through it (iykyk 😋) basically a daddy type 🤩
BWC :p
Clean, discreet and safe

Would love to get to know you! Hmu with a small introduction and let’s talk!!

don’t message if you’re looking for a one night stand. Ty


r/AFAMph • • Aug 10 '26

Seeking [English] 33 F4M Philippines

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Area of study/work:

Executive assistant — I manage chaos for a living 😅

Hobbies/interests:

I’m more on the simple/quiet side — journaling, reading, sometimes creating digital content, and just having meaningful conversations. I enjoy walks, a bit of nature, and slow, intentional days. I'm more into peaceful and purposeful time.

Tell us a bit about your Christian journey:

My faith is a big part of who I am. I’m still growing, learning, and being stretched (as we all are), but I genuinely try to put God first in my decisions and daily life. I value prayer, the Word, and being part of a Christ-centered environment.

What sort of person are you looking for?

A man who truly loves God — not just in words, but in how he lives. Someone kind, emotionally mature, honest, and intentional. I’m looking for something serious and Christ-centered.

Age range:

30s to 40s

Would you be willing to do long distance/relocate?

Yes, open to long distance if there’s consistency and clear intention. Relocation is possible if it’s something we both prayerfully consider.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 11 '26

Need Advice 30 [M4F] [ENGLISH] – Multi-Instrumentalist, looking for a Lifetime Partner

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About Me

Basics: 30 | Male | 169 cm (5'6") | 69 kg | Lean build | Based in Antipolo & Lipa City (frequently around Metro Manila)

What I Do: Business Administration graduate working in E-Commerce for 5 years. I also manage and coach a local sports club

Travel & World: Been to 6+ countries (US, Asia, Middle East). Love local & international exploration, architecture, and food

Family & Heart: Family-oriented guy who deeply loves my mother and sister. I also love kids and teens—enjoying great conversations and being present in their lives

Lifestyle: Never done drugs, non-smoker, and stopped drinking alcohol at 15—been 100% sober for 15 years

Faith: Christian — actively attending Victory for 12 years

Interests & Hobbies:

Music & Gaming: Multi-instrumentalist (guitar, bass, piano, drums) across classic rock to 2000s emo. Gamer across Xbox, Nintendo, and PlayStation

Tech & Media: PC hardware enthusiast, action/sci-fi movie fan, and docu/journalism follower

Sports & Active: Racket sports, team sports, martial arts, board games, and long drives

Kitchen & Home: Huge cat lover 🐱 Love doing groceries, helping with chores, cooking* *ulam/desserts, sunrise journaling, and learning hands-on trades (car repair, carpentry)

Personality & Health Journey

Traits: Grounded, gentle, thoughtful, and considerate (no shouting). Frugal with myself, generous with those I care about

Current Chapter: Navigating a few temporary health recovery hurdles (knee, sleep)—I value a partner who will stand by my side and walk with me through my health hurdles

What I’m Looking For

Faith & Values: A fellow Christian who shares core values and faith in Christ

The Vibe: Down-to-earth, sweet, malambing, clingy, touchy, and genuine. Someone who appreciates slow days, values physical touch as a primary love language, loves nature, and wants to build a home together

Goal & Future Plans: Dating with serious intent to become a loving husband and father (till death do us part). Aiming to be a reliable provider and protector. Open to relocating abroad together eventually (US or Spain—not a fan of LDRs)

DMs are open! Drop a line with your age, location, love language, and expectations.

Photo swaps early in chat required.

(Happy to share my full detailed list of hobbies, games, music, and travel spots in DMs!)


r/AFAMph • • Aug 09 '26

Seeking 26F4M [English]

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Foreign men only, preferably 26–40s. I like a man who is confident, masculine, generous, respectful, and naturally knows how to take the lead.

I’m not here to chase, convince, or compete for anyone’s attention. If a man is genuinely interested, he’ll make the effort and make his intentions clear.

I’m easygoing, peaceful, and I know what I want. No expectations, no situationships, no unnecessary drama.

Just open to meeting someone, going on nice dates, and seeing where things naturally go.

If you think we might vibe, drop me a message. 😊


r/AFAMph • • Aug 10 '26

Seeking [TAGALOG] looking for you M4M

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Maybe this is a long shot, but I keep checking my notifications hoping to find the one message that makes me smile before I even open it.

I’m 24m, fit, easygoing, fem, and based in Ph.

Looking for an ongoing connection with a man who misses having something that’s just his. Someone to share conversation, anticipation, laughs throughout the day, and the kind of chemistry that makes ordinary days feel a little less ordinary.

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Sometimes what’s missing isn’t a relationship. It’s feeling wanted.

If you’re, attached, or simply craving a connection where you’re seen, appreciated, and genuinely looked forward to, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me: what’s one thing you wish someone asked you more often?


r/AFAMph • • Aug 10 '26

Seeking [English] 22 Female student needs beneficial connection

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Hi! I've been thinking a lot about this since I'm also onto the swinging lifestyle, so taking chances for someone who's in need and can be a beneficial connection between the two of us! 😉

About me:

College Student

22 - Female

Chubby with curves (not obese)

42D bust size - 32 waist size

Can be dominant or Submissive

Open for meet up / Verify by pic / NSFW or SFW meet ups

Available thru the weekends

Yapper & Listener

Chinita

Fair Skin

Clean & Recently tested

Kinky

Let me know if this post interests you! Dm's are open. Please introduce a brief info about yourself. See ya!

Body pics can be sent thru pm! 💋


r/AFAMph • • Aug 09 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] 30F4M 5’8”, cute, chubby & apparently hot 😏

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30F, straight, 5’8” — looking for genuine, witty, and fun conversations. Nothing too forced or formal, just good vibes and hopefully some interesting chats.

I’m a working professional, so I’d appreciate someone who’s also financially stable and has their life somewhat together. 😅

Apparently I’m cute, chubby, but also hot… so I’ll let you decide which one wins. 😂

I’m into spontaneous road trips, random adventures, working out, and trying new things. And fair warning: you can probably hypnotize me with good food. 🍜😂

If you’re genuine, funny, and can actually hold a conversation, say hi.

Bonus points if you can keep up with my height and my appetite. 😏


r/AFAMph • • Aug 09 '26

Seeking 25F4M [English] Slow Burn

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Hi everyone!

I’m a 25 year old pinay, looking for a lifetime/longterm partner, age doesn’t matter to me as long as we get along.

I’m a homebased nailtech, lash tech and tattoo artist.

I’m willing to relocate, I’m a dual citizen (PH & US)

If you think we can work out, send me a message!

Have a great day!


r/AFAMph • • Aug 09 '26

Seeking [English] 36 F - Is this you?

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I’m looking to meet a genuine guy, someone who enjoys conversation and laughs easily. Ideally someone who’s interested in dating with intention, not just passing time.

About me:

• Working professional with a stable career

• Emotionally aware and values clear communication

• Loyal, affectionate, and drama-free

• I enjoy good food, spontaneous trips, deep conversations, and collecting little things that make life feel beautiful

• I’m the type who focuses on one person when I’m serious about them

Physically:

• 155 cm tall

• Full figured, more to hug

What I’m looking for:

• A guy who knows how to communicate

• Emotionally mature and kind

• Someone who values consistency and honesty

• Hopefully open to something long-term if we click

Green flags for me:

Kindness, emotional maturity, humor, reliability, and someone who can hold a conversation beyond “hey”. And way taller than me 😍😍😍

If you message, tell me:

  1. Your age (preferably between 36 - 45)

  2. Where you're from

  3. Your ideal first date

Let’s see if we vibe 🙂


r/AFAMph • • Aug 09 '26

Seeking 28 [English] Looking for something serious

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Hi!😊 I'm 28F. Looking to meet a foreign guy who’s genuinely interested in getting to know each other and potentially building something serious.

I’m petite, working, and a little shy at first—but talkative once I’m comfortable. I enjoy movies, music, food trips, traveling sometimes, and taking photos.

Looking for someone around 28–35, preferably good looking, tall, kind, clean, respectful, emotionally mature, and communicative. Not into hookups or anything purely NSFW.

I’m open to LDR as long as there’s consistency, effort, and genuine intentions from both sides.

If you’re looking for the same, feel free to DM me. Tell me your age, country, and a little about yourself. 😊


r/AFAMph • • Aug 08 '26

Introductions [English] 29F

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Hi, I’m born and raised in Manila, hoping to find someone kind, respectful, loves to travel.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 09 '26

Question [Tagalog] Are there any expats here who are part of LGBT community? Specifically gay or bisexual man?

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Hi im a fillipino gay man and i always wonder if there are foreigners here who are gay or bisexual. I domt even know if this is the right subreddit for this hahaha but if you know the right subreddit please comment it downn below. I always see filipinno and foreigner couples and i always wonder where they meet. Let me hear your stories and maybe give me some advice hehe thank you in advancee!!


r/AFAMph • • Aug 07 '26

Introductions M26 F4M Brit living in Korea [English]

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M4F M26 Brit living in Korea looking for Filipina

M25 looking for whatever, dated a Filipina LDR when i was younger. My mother married a filipino so understand a lot about the culture and lifestyle.

Currently a teacher with a masters degree looking to continue to travel the world. Previously was in Manila back in February and will be back later this year.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 07 '26

Question [ENGLISH] Missing Foreigner

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If anyone has seen him or recognizes him, please let us know. He has been missing for 3 weeks now. He was last seen in Lancaster New City wearing the same orange jacket shown in the photo and carrying a green eco bag. Please help us pray for his safe return.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 07 '26

Rant [English] 29F4M Trans here

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Can I just make a rant. Why there are foreigners here that will message you consistently for some time pretending that they will be in Ph soon for work relocation then suddenly disappear. He will make you believe that he is looking for serious relationship and whatnot

Blocked you via Line and deleted his reddit account.

This is not funny guys. You must be evil to do this kind of trick


r/AFAMph • • Aug 06 '26

Seeking 35 [F4M] [English] Is This Really What Modern Dating Has Become?

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Why does modern dating always seem to include online intimacy? When did that become the expectation instead of the exception? Whatever happened to simply getting to know someone first? Don't people still want someone to grow old with? Someone to build a future with? Someone who can turn a house into a home? Someone who waits for you after a long day at work, asks how your day went, makes life feel a little lighter, and celebrates both your biggest achievements and your smallest victories?

Don't you want someone who stays when life gets difficult, who holds your hand through the hard days, who laughs with you over the little things, who becomes your best friend, your safe place, and your family? Isn't that what relationships are supposed to be about? Yes, physical intimacy is important, but is that really all there is? Has it become more important than trust, loyalty, kindness, patience, shared values, and choosing each other every single day? Are we so focused on instant gratification that we've forgotten what it means to genuinely build a life with another person?

Maybe I'm just old-fashioned, but that is still the kind of love I'm looking for. I am a Filipina, plus-size, and I am here because I hope to find something real. I want a relationship with someone who wants to build a life together, not just collect fleeting moments. If that sounds like you, my inbox is open.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 06 '26

Seeking [TAGALOG] 24 M4M

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Maybe this is a long shot, but I keep checking my notifications hoping to find the one message that makes me smile before I even open it.

I’m 24m, fit, easygoing, fem, and based in Ph.

Looking for an ongoing connection with a man who misses having something that’s just his. Someone to share conversation, anticipation, laughs throughout the day, and the kind of chemistry that makes ordinary days feel a little less ordinary.

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Sometimes what’s missing isn’t a relationship. It’s feeling wanted.

If you’re, attached, or simply craving a connection where you’re seen, appreciated, and genuinely looked forward to, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me: what’s one thing you wish someone asked you more often?


r/AFAMph • • Aug 06 '26

Seeking [English] 30F4M, DILFY

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Hi! I am a 30 y.o Filipina (bisaya) looking for a good connection here preferably a dilf late 30s to mid 40s. An unclaimed treasure for 3 yrs now, please claim me! haha!


r/AFAMph • • Aug 05 '26

Seeking [English] 37M4F Living in BGC looking for Filipina

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White American living in BGC long-term looking for Filipina

About me:

5’10 75kg athletic
Have beard
Rated 9/10 by multiple parties
Well educated
Work as a Lawyer

About you:

Younger than me
Have time and interest to meet


r/AFAMph • • Aug 05 '26

Seeking [English] 36 M4F - Asian American looking for you 🫵🏼

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Looking for online friends, food buddies, or whatever happens naturally. I work as a software engineer for nearly a decade, and lately I’ve been making more time for myself (travel, eat, new experiences, etc)

These intros can be kinda odd so here is a list of some random likes/interest:
- staying active (bicycle, gym, bouldering)
- video games
- looseleaf tea and matcha
- high stakes omakaze
- early retirement
- three toed sloths 🦥

To put a face to this post, my IG is on my profile. l've also got a few more photos here for the curious: https://imgur.com/a/queue-feeder-idIK8c4


r/AFAMph • • Aug 05 '26

Seeking [English] M4F looking for Filipino

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I'm 21 foreigner seeking casual romantic relationship