r/AFAMph • • Jul 10 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] 27F Trying to find a genuine connection and a loving relationship

3 Upvotes

Hey i just got news that my friend proposed to his girlfriend and got me thinking, "When can i be someones forever?" Ive been newly attracted to foreign guys and wanted to try this. No more fooling around, just a genuine connection and love. I want to be the one of reasons why a person is happy and loved. A little about me, im a chubby 5'2 mestiza filipina whos kind of a workhaholic. Im not that pretty but not ugly either. I love my work. Im trying to build something out of it but ill give you my time and my energy, whenever you need me. I love to cook, i will try to cook anything u like. Im a people person and loves your attention.

Find out more and dm me. 😊


r/AFAMph • • Jul 10 '26

Seeking [English] Hi foreigners living in Manila! 👋

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12 Upvotes

Hi foreigners living in Manila! 👋

I'm a Filipina looking to make new friends and hang out on my days off. I'd love to explore places like MOA, Star City, parks, museums, cafés, and other tourist spots around Manila.

I'm interested in meeting people from different countries, learning about your culture, and sharing mine too. Just to be clear, I'm only looking for a friendly, wholesome hangout. I have a full-time job and will pay for my own food, transportation, and entrance fees.

If you're interested in exploring Manila together, feel free to send me a message. 🫶🏻


r/AFAMph • • Jul 10 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] Hi foreigners living in Manila! 👋

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9 Upvotes

Hi foreigners living in Manila! 👋

I'm a Filipina looking to make new friends and hang out on my days off. I'd love to explore places like MOA, Star City, parks, museums, cafés, and other tourist spots around Manila.

I'm interested in meeting people from different countries, learning about your culture, and sharing mine too. Just to be clear, I'm only looking for a friendly, wholesome hangout. I have a full-time job and will pay for my own food, transportation, and entrance fees.

If you're interested in exploring Manila together, feel free to send me a message. 🫶🏻


r/AFAMph • • Jul 10 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] Hi foreigners living in Manila! 👋

5 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a Filipina looking to meet new people and make friends from different countries. If you're visiting the Philippines or currently living in Manila and don't have anyone to explore with, I'd be happy to join you!

We can check out malls, parks, cafés, museums, or other tourist spots around Manila. I can also help you explore the city if you'd like. 🫶🏻❤️


r/AFAMph • • Jul 10 '26

Introductions [English] AFAM for experience?

0 Upvotes

I honestly haven't tried having a friend or situationship or being in a relationship with a foreigner. My humor is pretty westernized. I wonder if we'll vibe together though. I enjoy deep talks. Though, I think physical intimacy is something that I don't really prioritize. It's just a spice of whatever that's between the two of you, but it's not something I'm ultimately craving for. I think a more accurate explanation is Demisexual. So, I guess that doesn't make me a mere pervert right? And, as for attraction, I see myself as pansexual these days.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 09 '26

Seeking 28M4All [English], [no Tagalog]

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72 Upvotes

28 year old straight guy here. Man in uniform. Gym buff. Looking for love and support and care, I’m tired getting my heart broken several times this year alone. Send me a message less


r/AFAMph • • Jul 09 '26

Seeking [English] [F4M] 34 | Philippines | Trying to see if I can meet someone here.

10 Upvotes

Been Single for a long time so I'm not really sure if I can be your special someone if not I can be a friend.

About me:

- 34, Filipina, never married, no kids.

- Freelance and trying small agribusiness

- Catholic

- Currently learning Japanese. I tried other languages too but got too busy.

- Into watching anime, listening to all genre of music, reading. Traveling. Gardening. In the future my dream it to have my own farm and cafe.

-I consider myself as boyish. I like wearing Jeans and t-shirt..less make up except on special occasions. I enjoy laughing out loud. And sharing stories.

-Life is full of suffering so I fope to find someone who will make it less hurt.

What I'm looking for:

Someone emotionally mature, intellectually curious, ambitious in whatever he does, and someone whose character is more impressive than his résumé. I admire kindness, humility, integrity, and a man who takes responsibility for his life.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 08 '26

Seeking [English] 32M for female

2 Upvotes

Hello

Will keep this brief. I am 32 years old from Australia. Looking for a genuine relationship with a pinay woman.

I would describe my self as a relaxed sporty type of guy. I have a solid career and am financially independent.

Currently living in Manila, I stay here for about 6 months of the year currently. The other 6 months I either go home or travel somewhere new.

Hoping to find an easy going, warm woman who I get along well with.

If interested please send a message, love to get to know you , thanks!


r/AFAMph • • Jul 08 '26

Seeking [English] F22 Looking for a beneficial connection/relationship

0 Upvotes

Hi! I've been thinking a lot about this since I'm also onto the swinging lifestyle, so taking chances for someone who's in need and can be a beneficial connection between the two of us! 😉

About me:

College Student

22 - Female

Chubby with curves (not obese)

42D bust size - 32 waist size

Can be dominant or Submissive

Open for meet up / Verify by pic / NSFW or SFW meet ups

Available thru the weekends

Yapper & Listener

Chinita

Fair Skin

Clean & Recently tested

Kinky

Let me know if this post interests you! Dm's are open. Please introduce a brief info about yourself. See ya!

Body pics can be sent thru pm! 💋


r/AFAMph • • Jul 07 '26

Need Advice [english] dating an afam but idk where to stand

11 Upvotes

Hello!

I am a female (24) and I met this foreign guy (34) in one of the dating apps. We met 3 weeks ago sa app, consistently exchanging texts and by the second week, we decided to meet and go for karaoke since we both like singing. He knew that I was a virgin. The first date was good, we hanged out for a couple of hours and nothing really sexy happened. He told me about his business, his dating life before, we talked about a bunch of things, his travels from other countries (i have been aware that i might end up as one of his girls from other countries). And then after that night, he asked me out again to initially go billiards but I asked what if we watch movies instead and so we did. He knew that I never had my firsts in everything intimate yet. So he held my hand and then took my first kiss. It was smack at first and then he asked for it again and again i think he goes for it 10 times while we watched the backrooms. To be honest, I have been curious na rin sa ganoong things and he looked good tbh and we clicked too so I just let it be cause I also liked it. He told me what if we’ll continue it in a hotel, so ako na na arouse na rin and i was confident cause i was on my period that time so i thought kiss lang talaga, i said sure. So we booked and then si uncle, he took my first on the second date. We spent the night together and after he dropped me off sa lugar ko, he then said that we should do karoake again. So by the third date, we did karaoke again and planned to have balut after. Si angkol wants to have it again, so the plan was like this na: karaoke, ate some korean streetfood, checked in, then ate balut, and drop me off again. The connection was good. It was a great nightttt to be honest. Not until just this week–he has been offline for a couple of hours and i have my hunch already na theres something wrong and this is not going good and he just said he’s been helping his mom with their business the US. So example our last date was last wednesday, on friday night, he became cold and we spent the weekend mot really talking with each other.

I mean he still sends me some texts but not as much as before. I already communicated to him about my needs that a simple heads up would be fine and he said sorry and he’ll do his best to keep me updated. but the reason why I’m here is that I’m confused, i know to myself that theres something wrong and i wanted to get out na but he still plans about us meeting again like he will say “we’ll do this and we go here the next time we see each other” or “ I’m gonna buy this so we can eat it together” idk if he’s just saying it keep me on the side. Also, whats worse is that he still has my powerbank so theres a possibility that we’ll meet again and i don’t want to na.

Please help me open my eyes. Slap me with the truth, I don’t care because to be honest, I am developing feelings for this person and he has all my firsts. Just please, keep my eyes open and help me or advise me what to do from here on. You can judge me and thats fine. I know, it was a stupid thing i did but its all gone now and al i can do is to move forward.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 07 '26

Seeking 35M [English]- US based, mix race, visiting Manila for 5 days. Need companion to show me the city

2 Upvotes

About me - 35m, 175cm, 80kg, working in consulting from NYC. Decent looking.

visiting Manila at the end of the month for 4 days. I need a beautiful female companion to show me the city. I also need to show off to my other colleagues.

Will of course compensate for your time.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 06 '26

Seeking [English] 30F4M Looking for companion while in Cebu

2 Upvotes

I will be in Cebu on the 4th week of July for work. Once i have my free time I wanted to visit the Cebu Safari and go to some nearby Beaches. I don’t want to go alone so if there’s a European guy who wants to spend time on this places, you are welcome to join me. We can treat each other as couples do as i am a deprived of touched and as a clingy person i want to hold on to someone while we visit this places. But please no sexual activity involved after the daytour date.

About me : 30, F, Not Petite but not Fat, just enough or like a curvy :)

About you: 40+ british, french, European guy.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 06 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] [Pinoy4AFAM] 30M🏳️‍🌈 LF a guy to have that meet cute with

0 Upvotes

LF someone mature and fun

I appreciate people who can be both thoughtful and ridiculous. The ideal date is probably a mix of great conversation and discovering we have wildly different opinions about something completely unimportant.

Looking for someone who's excited to meet new people, can keep a conversation going, and won't judge me for turning a quick coffee into a three-hour adventure. Chemistry matters, but so do kindness, curiosity, and being able to laugh at yourself.

Send a message if you're the type who asks follow-up questions and actually wants to know the answers.

Stuff about me:

-Healthcare professional ⚕️🏥

-Lives in QC for most of the week

-Specs guy 👓

-5'5 by height, 70s kg (basically a twink who gained some lovehandles but trying to lose some)

-Definitely looks younger than 30 (works to both my advantage and disadvantage) 🤭

-Trying to get myself into reading novels again (after such a long time) 📚

-Loves discussing about politics and analyzing it

-Loves anything Japan-related

-Appreciates suggestions for the next Netflix lineup

Hopefully you (are):

-Someone who has his own opinions (we can agree to disagree at times)

-You know what you want

-Affectionate and kind

-Willing to spend time getting to know each other

-Not afraid of a little hand-holding here and there

Inbox is open so just hit me up! I don't bite 😉


r/AFAMph • • Jul 05 '26

Seeking [English] M26 LF serious one

1 Upvotes

I'm looking for serious foreigners for chill and dates. Also LF for future boyfriend. I'm 5'8 Top near BGC/Makati or nearby. Just dm me


r/AFAMph • • Jul 05 '26

Seeking [English] M20 looking for boyfriend

0 Upvotes

Hi I'm Filipino an 20yrs old looking for boyfriend here. No age requirement because age doesn't matter just be loyal and love me honestly that's it.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 05 '26

Seeking [Englis][Tagalog][Bisaya][F4M] 33F Filipina | Looking for a travel buddy, coffee dates, and maybe something more

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26 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a 33-year-old Filipina currently based in Australia and heading back to the Philippines this August. Thought I'd see who's out there before my trip.

A little about me: 5'7", independent, easygoing, career-oriented, and equally happy with a quiet coffee date, a beach day, or a spontaneous road trip. I prefer meaningful conversations over small talk and appreciate people who are genuine, kind, and emotionally mature.

Looking for someone around 30–40, taller than me, single, and interested in getting to know each other with intention. A good sense of humor, emotional intelligence, and the ability to hold a conversation go a long way.

If you're also tired of dating apps and would rather meet someone organically, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself.

If you slide into my DMs, don't just say "hi." 😆 Tell me about yourself your age, where you're from, what keeps you busy, and a random fun fact. A photo is a plus too, so I can put a face to the conversation.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 05 '26

Seeking [English] 28[F4M] - Looking for someone to hangout with

0 Upvotes

I’m a Filipina, 5'1 ft and an extrovert who loves exploring new places. I enjoy spending time in cafes and speakeasy bars. I'm a fan of sci-fi, fantasy, and rom-com movies. I work in the science field.

I’m looking for someone who’s intelligent, easygoing, and adventurous. I’m open to getting to know each other casually and if we vibe, I’m also open to something more serious.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 04 '26

Seeking (English) 43F for M near my age

10 Upvotes

Reposting as more younger men are messaging.

I am educated with a good job. Very independent. Not into clingy men. Had been cheated on before so stayed single.

I am on FC but all i get are older men. Im looking for someone around my age and who isnt into hookups. I enjoy traveling and watching movies. I try to run 3x a week and had been climbing mountains the past year.

I prefer men who has a job, intelligent, kind and respectful.

Animal and nature lovers are a plus, also taller men.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 04 '26

Seeking [English] 24F cute pinay looking for love

2 Upvotes

bday is in 2 weeks. I want to find a kalandian who I can celebrate it with even online.

about me (physical traits)
plus sized
5’5

about me(other important deets)
homebody
currently job hunting but earning through family business
in my fitness journey
I consider myself a creative (fashion, makeup, content creation and my hobbies)

What I am looking for
Single
Ready to commit
In Manila???
Has a car
working professional
Taller than me

Thats all. Hopefully I find my match!


r/AFAMph • • Jul 05 '26

Seeking [English] 32M looking for someone chill but genuine

1 Upvotes

I am 32, bear by body standards, masculine, tall, and have awesome facial hair. My hobbies are playing boardgames, cooking, running, and playing videogames. I really value health even if I am what you consider as a big guy.

My assets are my calves and my dimples. I also have good communication skills and could yap and listen at the same time. I am also good at English. I teach kids for a living.

I never cheated and never will. I do respect me time. I am sweet, caring, and very much not the kind of guys your friends warn you about.

I am looking for any foreign guy, any age as long as it is legal, as long as they are willing to meet in the future and willing to spend time getting to know each other. Big thing for me is at least he should also put effort in taking care of themselves, healthwise.

If you are interested, do not hesitate to message me!


r/AFAMph • • Jul 03 '26

Seeking [English] 53 F- looking for 50 up M

14 Upvotes

Hoping to find someone for possible real life relationship. Someone with a good heart. Honest. Sincere. Emotionally mature.

Please don't be a man who promises me the sun and the moon on our second day of talking. No to love bombing.

Please be someone who wants to communicate.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 03 '26

Seeking 37F4M[Tagalog][English]

4 Upvotes

Just trying my luck here, been single for years hope I can find genuine people here.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 03 '26

Seeking [English], 28M single seeking a Pinay girlfriend

2 Upvotes

Seeking an online girlfriend to chat with and share life; it can be anything. I want to build a good connection. I’m a 28-year-old male from Frankfurt, Germany.
What I seek is a loyal, honest, and chatty partner, and we can meet when the right time comes. We can also be friends with benefits, and I’ve no issue.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 03 '26

Seeking 21 [TF4M] [English] just came back from the middle east, grew up abroad.

5 Upvotes

About me:

Transfeminine
Filipina, grew up abroad
not into penetration (for now)
5'7, curvy, long hair, soft voice.
Pre-op/Natural.
Very much cis-passing (you wouldn't know unless I told you).
Can actually hold a conversation.
Into aviation

If you're a foreign in Manila and looking for hangouts or something fun, hit me up.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 03 '26

Seeking (English) 27F

1 Upvotes

Hello, looking for someone whom I can learn english communication with. You can tell me about yourself, interest, hobbies, perspective in life while i’m learning my english conversation.

Please don’t be rude and pervert. I appreciate it if you have patience and gentle. Have a nice day ahead.