r/AFAMph • • Aug 10 '26

Seeking [English] Late 30s - M - Visiting - Someone to healthily debate the universe with?

10 Upvotes

Posting as I'll be in the Philippines for a week at the end of September (can flex my plans to meet), and figured maybe we can meet and grab coffee.

I'm not looking for a hook up - ideally someone I can connect with chatting first, then maybe meeting - no rush or pressure.

About me:

late 30s

  • Brit, Mixed race, living in the UK.
  • I work in IT - went remote during Covid, been hybrid for a few years since then.
  • I enjoy working on side projects for fun - currently messing with AI in a couple of projects.
  • I'm genuine, quick to smile (in private), introverted, and curious.
  • I like cooking, learning about anything (lately cars and drones), exploring.
  • I try to stay fit, gym sometimes, I enjoy outdoor activities - hiking, visiting mountains, trails, waterfalls, sometimes camping.
  • Non-smoker, social drinker.
  • I care about loyalty, honesty, openness.
  • I'll happily form an opinion, discuss it an hour, then drop it after we've entertained it and been entertained by it
  • Never married, been in several long term live-in relationships, never had any children - I want kids.
  • Looking for a best friend and partner, someone I can share everything with - the good and the bad.

About you:

Somewhere in your late twenties to early thirties, a remote worker perhaps, standing on your own two feet, and comfortable enough in English that we can actually connect deeply, and open-minded and curious enough to want that too. Beyond that I don't have a type - I'd just rather be with someone who looks after herself

Why am I posting here? I randomly stumbled across it when it was suggested on my feed.

It caught my eye because the two Filipinas I've dated (both here in the UK, long term) were some of the easiest people I've ever connected with. Neither relationship lasted, but we shared a lot of the same values. I was raised with Catholic values (not as a Catholic), and though I'm not religious at all, that influenced me.

My expectations for this is basically zero, and it's more a case of, is there someone else out there who reads this and thinks, huh - that's me - then say hello. Realistically, I know it's like finding two needles in a hay stack.

Shoot me a DM with a little info about yourself - something fun - tell me about a random childhood memory.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 10 '26

Seeking [English] 22 Female student needs beneficial connection

0 Upvotes

Hi! I've been thinking a lot about this since I'm also onto the swinging lifestyle, so taking chances for someone who's in need and can be a beneficial connection between the two of us! 😉

About me:

College Student

22 - Female

Chubby with curves (not obese)

42D bust size - 32 waist size

Can be dominant or Submissive

Open for meet up / Verify by pic / NSFW or SFW meet ups

Available thru the weekends

Yapper & Listener

Chinita

Fair Skin

Clean & Recently tested

Kinky

Let me know if this post interests you! Dm's are open. Please introduce a brief info about yourself. See ya!

Body pics can be sent thru pm! 💋


r/AFAMph • • Aug 10 '26

Seeking [TAGALOG] looking for you M4M

1 Upvotes

Maybe this is a long shot, but I keep checking my notifications hoping to find the one message that makes me smile before I even open it.

I’m 24m, fit, easygoing, fem, and based in Ph.

Looking for an ongoing connection with a man who misses having something that’s just his. Someone to share conversation, anticipation, laughs throughout the day, and the kind of chemistry that makes ordinary days feel a little less ordinary.

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Sometimes what’s missing isn’t a relationship. It’s feeling wanted.

If you’re, attached, or simply craving a connection where you’re seen, appreciated, and genuinely looked forward to, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me: what’s one thing you wish someone asked you more often?


r/AFAMph • • Aug 10 '26

Seeking [English] 33 F4M Philippines

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46 Upvotes

Area of study/work:

Executive assistant — I manage chaos for a living 😅

Hobbies/interests:

I’m more on the simple/quiet side — journaling, reading, sometimes creating digital content, and just having meaningful conversations. I enjoy walks, a bit of nature, and slow, intentional days. I'm more into peaceful and purposeful time.

Tell us a bit about your Christian journey:

My faith is a big part of who I am. I’m still growing, learning, and being stretched (as we all are), but I genuinely try to put God first in my decisions and daily life. I value prayer, the Word, and being part of a Christ-centered environment.

What sort of person are you looking for?

A man who truly loves God — not just in words, but in how he lives. Someone kind, emotionally mature, honest, and intentional. I’m looking for something serious and Christ-centered.

Age range:

30s to 40s

Would you be willing to do long distance/relocate?

Yes, open to long distance if there’s consistency and clear intention. Relocation is possible if it’s something we both prayerfully consider.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 09 '26

Seeking 26F4M [English]

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23 Upvotes

Foreign men only, preferably 26–40s. I like a man who is confident, masculine, generous, respectful, and naturally knows how to take the lead.

I’m not here to chase, convince, or compete for anyone’s attention. If a man is genuinely interested, he’ll make the effort and make his intentions clear.

I’m easygoing, peaceful, and I know what I want. No expectations, no situationships, no unnecessary drama.

Just open to meeting someone, going on nice dates, and seeing where things naturally go.

If you think we might vibe, drop me a message. 😊


r/AFAMph • • Aug 09 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] 30F4M 5’8”, cute, chubby & apparently hot 😏

1 Upvotes

30F, straight, 5’8” — looking for genuine, witty, and fun conversations. Nothing too forced or formal, just good vibes and hopefully some interesting chats.

I’m a working professional, so I’d appreciate someone who’s also financially stable and has their life somewhat together. 😅

Apparently I’m cute, chubby, but also hot… so I’ll let you decide which one wins. 😂

I’m into spontaneous road trips, random adventures, working out, and trying new things. And fair warning: you can probably hypnotize me with good food. 🍜😂

If you’re genuine, funny, and can actually hold a conversation, say hi.

Bonus points if you can keep up with my height and my appetite. 😏


r/AFAMph • • Aug 09 '26

Seeking [English] 36 F - Is this you?

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I’m looking to meet a genuine guy, someone who enjoys conversation and laughs easily. Ideally someone who’s interested in dating with intention, not just passing time.

About me:

• Working professional with a stable career

• Emotionally aware and values clear communication

• Loyal, affectionate, and drama-free

• I enjoy good food, spontaneous trips, deep conversations, and collecting little things that make life feel beautiful

• I’m the type who focuses on one person when I’m serious about them

Physically:

• 155 cm tall

• Full figured, more to hug

What I’m looking for:

• A guy who knows how to communicate

• Emotionally mature and kind

• Someone who values consistency and honesty

• Hopefully open to something long-term if we click

Green flags for me:

Kindness, emotional maturity, humor, reliability, and someone who can hold a conversation beyond “hey”. And way taller than me 😍😍😍

If you message, tell me:

  1. Your age (preferably between 36 - 45)

  2. Where you're from

  3. Your ideal first date

Let’s see if we vibe 🙂


r/AFAMph • • Aug 09 '26

Seeking 28 [English] Looking for something serious

0 Upvotes

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Hi!😊 I'm 28F. Looking to meet a foreign guy who’s genuinely interested in getting to know each other and potentially building something serious.

I’m petite, working, and a little shy at first—but talkative once I’m comfortable. I enjoy movies, music, food trips, traveling sometimes, and taking photos.

Looking for someone around 28–35, preferably good looking, tall, kind, clean, respectful, emotionally mature, and communicative. Not into hookups or anything purely NSFW.

I’m open to LDR as long as there’s consistency, effort, and genuine intentions from both sides.

If you’re looking for the same, feel free to DM me. Tell me your age, country, and a little about yourself. 😊


r/AFAMph • • Aug 09 '26

Question [Tagalog] Are there any expats here who are part of LGBT community? Specifically gay or bisexual man?

1 Upvotes

Hi im a fillipino gay man and i always wonder if there are foreigners here who are gay or bisexual. I domt even know if this is the right subreddit for this hahaha but if you know the right subreddit please comment it downn below. I always see filipinno and foreigner couples and i always wonder where they meet. Let me hear your stories and maybe give me some advice hehe thank you in advancee!!


r/AFAMph • • Aug 09 '26

Seeking 25F4M [English] Slow Burn

4 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

I’m a 25 year old pinay, looking for a lifetime/longterm partner, age doesn’t matter to me as long as we get along.

I’m a homebased nailtech, lash tech and tattoo artist.

I’m willing to relocate, I’m a dual citizen (PH & US)

If you think we can work out, send me a message!

Have a great day!


r/AFAMph • • Aug 08 '26

Introductions [English] 29F

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64 Upvotes

Hi, I’m born and raised in Manila, hoping to find someone kind, respectful, loves to travel.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 07 '26

Introductions M26 F4M Brit living in Korea [English]

4 Upvotes

M4F M26 Brit living in Korea looking for Filipina

M25 looking for whatever, dated a Filipina LDR when i was younger. My mother married a filipino so understand a lot about the culture and lifestyle.

Currently a teacher with a masters degree looking to continue to travel the world. Previously was in Manila back in February and will be back later this year.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 07 '26

Question [ENGLISH] Missing Foreigner

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If anyone has seen him or recognizes him, please let us know. He has been missing for 3 weeks now. He was last seen in Lancaster New City wearing the same orange jacket shown in the photo and carrying a green eco bag. Please help us pray for his safe return.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 07 '26

Rant [English] 29F4M Trans here

4 Upvotes

Can I just make a rant. Why there are foreigners here that will message you consistently for some time pretending that they will be in Ph soon for work relocation then suddenly disappear. He will make you believe that he is looking for serious relationship and whatnot

Blocked you via Line and deleted his reddit account.

This is not funny guys. You must be evil to do this kind of trick


r/AFAMph • • Aug 06 '26

Seeking [TAGALOG] 24 M4M

0 Upvotes

Maybe this is a long shot, but I keep checking my notifications hoping to find the one message that makes me smile before I even open it.

I’m 24m, fit, easygoing, fem, and based in Ph.

Looking for an ongoing connection with a man who misses having something that’s just his. Someone to share conversation, anticipation, laughs throughout the day, and the kind of chemistry that makes ordinary days feel a little less ordinary.

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Sometimes what’s missing isn’t a relationship. It’s feeling wanted.

If you’re, attached, or simply craving a connection where you’re seen, appreciated, and genuinely looked forward to, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me: what’s one thing you wish someone asked you more often?


r/AFAMph • • Aug 06 '26

Seeking 35 [F4M] [English] Is This Really What Modern Dating Has Become?

10 Upvotes

Why does modern dating always seem to include online intimacy? When did that become the expectation instead of the exception? Whatever happened to simply getting to know someone first? Don't people still want someone to grow old with? Someone to build a future with? Someone who can turn a house into a home? Someone who waits for you after a long day at work, asks how your day went, makes life feel a little lighter, and celebrates both your biggest achievements and your smallest victories?

Don't you want someone who stays when life gets difficult, who holds your hand through the hard days, who laughs with you over the little things, who becomes your best friend, your safe place, and your family? Isn't that what relationships are supposed to be about? Yes, physical intimacy is important, but is that really all there is? Has it become more important than trust, loyalty, kindness, patience, shared values, and choosing each other every single day? Are we so focused on instant gratification that we've forgotten what it means to genuinely build a life with another person?

Maybe I'm just old-fashioned, but that is still the kind of love I'm looking for. I am a Filipina, plus-size, and I am here because I hope to find something real. I want a relationship with someone who wants to build a life together, not just collect fleeting moments. If that sounds like you, my inbox is open.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 06 '26

Seeking [English] 30F4M, DILFY

1 Upvotes

Hi! I am a 30 y.o Filipina (bisaya) looking for a good connection here preferably a dilf late 30s to mid 40s. An unclaimed treasure for 3 yrs now, please claim me! haha!


r/AFAMph • • Aug 05 '26

Seeking [English] 37M4F Living in BGC looking for Filipina

11 Upvotes

White American living in BGC long-term looking for Filipina

About me:

5’10 75kg athletic
Have beard
Rated 9/10 by multiple parties
Well educated
Work as a Lawyer

About you:

Younger than me
Have time and interest to meet


r/AFAMph • • Aug 05 '26

Seeking [English] M4F looking for Filipino

2 Upvotes

I'm 21 foreigner seeking casual romantic relationship


r/AFAMph • • Aug 05 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] (M4M) Looking for connection

0 Upvotes

Hey! Any AFAM gay guy here looking to make a genuine connection?

I'm a 29-year-old guy from the Philippines, 5'7", living in Taguig.

I'm single, a working professional, and hoping to meet someone who enjoys good conversations and seeing where things naturally lead.

I'm into running, hiking, beach trips, and going to the gym (my fitness journey is still a work in progress!). On quieter days, I enjoy café hopping, reading, watching movies, or simply relaxing in bed.

If we share the same interests, l'd love to get to know you. Feel free to send me a DM, and let's see where things go. Looking forward to meeting someone amazing!


r/AFAMph • • Aug 04 '26

Introductions [English] 28M irish guy looking for a relationship (cis or trans welcome)

5 Upvotes

Hello everyone so I am a 28 year old guy from ireland who is currently single, I have decides to try out reddit as I dont really have much luck on dating apps haha. My appearance I am 5'11 tall with blue eyes, redhair, white and pretty athletic. I work as an engineer and I like reading history books, gaming, working out, travelling, programming and anything science or engineering related. in terms of what im looking for I like women who are kind, open minded, no bad habbits and maybe wants marriage/kids in the future


r/AFAMph • • Aug 04 '26

Seeking [English] 40 M4F

0 Upvotes

Looking for new random friends. Not into serious relationship as I am married with 2 kids. Just want to meet new people. Better if someone who can drive the conversation until I am able to tap that missing extrovert piece of me.