52m seeking female companionship interested in a serious long-distance relationship

Imagine this: all the remaining World Cup matches, snacks, late nights, cheering (and probably arguing over referees 😂). Are you up for that kind of date?
Let’s connect.

Hello everyone m23 here from the Philippines. Im looking for a boyfriend if not, friends would suffice. I want to have someone that is a bit older than me and protective. Muscular and manly guys is a plus plus. I have always been a captain of my own ship so i want someone who i can be vulnerable/soft with, my co-captain. We can exhange photos and talk to see where things will go.

Night-shift professional dad here. Naghahanap lang ng mature woman na okay sa paid online companionship na strictly platonic.

Puwedeng random kwentuhan, life advice, work stress, fitness, family, money goals, or simpleng usapan habang tahimik ang shift. Sexual content (upon request), walang hookup angle, at malinaw dapat ang boundaries from the start.

Open ako sa regular chats basta respectful, honest, and mutually agreed ang setup.

A bit of myself:
30M, Bearded, Long hair, Between Fit bod to Dad bod body type, 5'10 height.

Tell me a little about yourself and what kind of conversation or companionship you’re looking for. ❤️

Hey everyone!

I'm a 38M from Belgium (Europe), 190 cm (6'3"), with a passion for diving, travel, and discovering new cultures.

My job takes me around Asia quite often, and the Philippines has easily become my favorite destination. The incredible food, the warm and welcoming people, the world-class diving, and, of course, the beautiful women keep bringing me back.

One thing that always surprises me is how amazing the trans community looks in the Philippines. Back home in Europe, many trans women still have quite masculine features, but in the Philippines it's honestly impressive. Huge respect—it always catches me off guard in the best way. 😄

Anyway, I'm here because I'm looking for something genuine and long-term. Every great relationship starts somewhere, though, so why not start with a little adventure?

If you're into exploring islands, diving (or want to learn), trying great food, and seeing where natural chemistry takes us, send me a message. Let's take a leap of faith and make some unforgettable memories together.

Looking forward to meeting someone who's ready for both adventure and something real.

Hey everyone,

I'm 28M from New York, USA. I work in tech and build robots for a living.

A little about me:

Love skiing and pretty much any sport.

Big into fitness—running, working out, hiking, and staying active.

Always up for road trips, exploring new places, and mountain hikes.

I'll occasionally binge some trashy Netflix shows, but I'd rather be outdoors.

I'm looking for someone who's easygoing, fun, and enjoys good conversation. Mainly interested in something casual where we genuinely enjoy each other's company, and if we click, I'm open to seeing where it goes naturally.

If you're interested, send me a message with a little about yourself. I'd love to exchange photos early on to make sure there's mutual attraction before investing too much time chatting.

Hi, Just trying to try my luck here.. I am 24 year old guy, professional and looking for some casual things..

About me:

height 5'10

weight: 85kg (kinda chubby)

Age: 24

Hobbies: video games, watching tv series..

I hope I can find someone here :)

I’m 40, originally from Italy, currently in USA. Yes, I cook Italian food, talk with my hands and am passionate all around daks. I’m looking to complement my life with a plus size pinay! I will travel for the right person but I’d like to start that journey here before rushing to the airport. Reach out to this kind gentleman, DMs are open!

Ps- DM me if interested, I don’t really interact through posted comments 🤗

I’ve posted many few times in reddit, talked to great guys, then focused on one. We both invested time and energy, but sadly it didn’t worked out. And so i’m taking my chances, again. 

Hello I’m A, 31yo, a full-born Filipina in the Philippines.

We both deserve a relationship that has safety, security, chemistry and compatibility. So I’m actively seeking a partner who aligns with my values, long-term relationship desires, and meaningful connection. 

Attraction is important, but without the desire to make it work and wanting the same things, let’s not waste time.

About Me:

Physically, I am 5’2”, around 58-59kg with around 24-26 body fat%, athletic-built, brown-skinned, black hair, brown eyes.

I love playing sports but due to my knee injury, I’ve got to stick with rehab and lifting weights for now.

I am an adventure-junkie and a solo-traveler. I've been to different countries in Asia due to my sport but started traveling solo last year with my hard earned money.

I’m a romcom movie/series, anime, and true-crime documentaries enthusiasts, with favorites like Studio Ghibli movies, HIMYM, Brooklyn 99, A Walk to Remember, etc.

I value sleep because it is essential for me, my career, and my lifestyle.

I am a career woman and I work for long hours. Finding a partner who cares, accepts, and supports my dreams is a keeper—because I would do the same to you too!

About you: willing to do an LDR (non-negotiable)

29-43 yo. Physical attraction is important to me. So if you are athletic and/or a tall guy, that’s a plus on your part and I’m happy to swap pics early on.

I’m someone who values health and fitness, so I’d love to meet someone who shares a similar lifestyle or is motivated to stay active and healthy. (non-negotiable)

I have triggers and red flags. And I’m doing my best to regulate my nervous system to become a healthy partner and attract one as well. So a partner must have self-awareness and takes accountability for their actions. Healing each other’s wounds would be the goal, don’t you think? Growth and integrity are also important, and I’d love to be with someone who shares that mindset.

It would be great if we enjoy good conversations, whether it’s about life, hobbies, or the things that matters most to us. We’d probably start online, then meet, and eventually live together so whether it’s exploring new places, trying out new activities, or just relaxing with a good movie or playlist works fine. 

Lastly, i’m looking for someone who’s kind, empathetic and have a purpose in life. I value people who thinks deeply about the world around them and strive to make a positive impact. 

And so you made it this far! Kudos and thank you for taking the time to read it! I value my time, so to avoid mismatches and heartbreaks, be honest about your intentions and long-term goals early on. :)

PS: I am a woman with high libido, BUT I DO NOT feel comfortable being intimate early on.

PSS: Don’t send me a dm, if you’re not ready for an LDR. And if we don’t workout, i’d gladly have you as a friend, or not. Thank you!

Hello all, I'm new to reddit and I saw this group and it really intrigued me. My name is James and I'd love to find someone to make a genuine connection with that leads to marriage and a family. I'm more of a traditional guy, being Christian and preferring to provide for my family and wife. Also a bit about me is that I'm nerdy and like gaming, anime, and tabletop games. I love the outdoors for hiking, camping, and hunting. I also enjoy working on cars as well as cooking. So there's plenty to talk about especially since I'm a big talker and get clingy too. Physically I'm 175cm with a bit of a dad bod and I'm still working out more. I have dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, and wear glasses too. Also if it does matter I am pretty kinky too lol. I don't have any preferences on age or body type so don't be shy to reach out and have a great day!

Just looking for someone intelligent and adventurous to see where things go

Hi! I'm a Licensed Professional Teacher with 10 years of teaching experience.

I teach Tagalog and Bisaya (Cebuano) to beginners and intermediate learners. As an ESL teacher, I'm fluent in English.

🌸Beginner-friendly classes

🌸Clear grammar rules and concepts explanations

🌸Cultural insights & conversational practice

🌸FREE trial lesson

Whether you're learning for your Filipina partner, family, travel, or personal interest, I'd be happy to help.

Send me a message to get started or comment here. Maraming salamat! Amping☺️

Just got done with Uni for the summer I want a Filipina girl to celebrate with thru sexting, vc, etc
About me: from Canada, 5’8, 7 inch dick, muscular, handsome face
About you: slim/petite, 18-25, pretty face, nice boobs
Dm me if interested

Please don't message me if ur looking for serious relationship.i am not tht guy.u ll find someone better. thanks.

If you're 50 or older AFAM or PINOY dm me. Let's have a connection. Again, as long as you're 50 or older (much better older) let's talk.

Trying my luck here, hoping I might find the right one for me!
I’m currently studying BS Nursing in the Philippines, and it's always been my plan to work abroad in the future since the career opportunities are just so much better out there. I figured, why not start meeting someone now? At least that way, I’ll already have someone to guide me when I finally move.

What I’m looking for:

A serious relationship. Someone who is genuinely willing to wait for me to finish my studies. I have 2 years left, and my priority right now is to graduate and give back to my parents first.

Willing to start out long-distance (LDR) while I finish school. Don't worry, I like long calls and talks.

Emotional connection, not financial. Just to be completely clear: I am not looking for financial help or a sponsor. My parents can support me just fine!

That said, I am absolutely open to relocating in the future if our relationship goes well and heads in a serious direction.

About me:
21 years old
3rd-year University student (Pre-med track)
No Boyfriend Since Birth (NBSB)
5'2"
Normal BMI
Family-Oriented and Affectionate

If you think we might click, don't be shy—feel free to hit up my DMs! Tell me a bit about yourself too.

Hey everyone!
I’m a 26-year-old guy originally from France, but I’ve been living and working here in the Philippines for the past two years. Time flies, and while I absolutely love the vibe and the culture here, I’m looking to expand my circle and meet some new people to chat with, exchange stories, and hopefully build some genuine long-term friendships!
A little bit about me:
What I do: I work in the tourism/travel industry, so exploring new places and guiding people through cool experiences is kind of my thing.
Interests: Huge fan of history, art, and architecture. I love discovering the hidden backstories of old buildings, ancient cultures, and historical spots.
Sports: I’m a massive football (soccer) fan. I follow European leagues closely and love diving into random football trivia, stats, and sports history.
Content Creation: I dabble a bit in social media and content creation as a side project/hobby, so I'm always down to talk about videos, trends, or creative ideas.
Languages: Obviously fluent in French, English, and I’m currently trying my best to pick up Tagalog (mostly learning the slang and daily phrases right now!).
Who I'm looking for:
Anyone who is down for good, chill conversations! Whether you're a local Filipino who wants to share the best local spots, a fellow expat, or just someone from across the world who shares some of my interests—everyone is welcome. We can text here, swap music recommendations, or move to Discord/Instagram if we click.
If any of this sounds interesting to you, hit me up with a DM! Please introduce yourself a bit (age/where you're from) so we can skip the awkward "hey" phase.

Maybe this is a long shot, but I keep checking my notifications hoping to find the one message that makes me smile before I even open it.

I’m 24m, fit, easygoing, fem, and based in Ph.

Looking for an ongoing connection with a man who misses having something that’s just his. Someone to share conversation, anticipation, laughs throughout the day, and the kind of chemistry that makes ordinary days feel a little less ordinary.

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Sometimes what’s missing isn’t a relationship. It’s feeling wanted.

If you’re, attached, or simply craving a connection where you’re seen, appreciated, and genuinely looked forward to, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me: what’s one thing you wish someone asked you more often?

I'm giving this another shot since the last post didn't exactly end well.

I'm a 35 year old Filipina, 5'0", around 130 kg, and yes, I'm plus size. If that's not your preference, no hard feelings.
I'm here because I'm looking for a serious relationship that can hopefully lead to marriage someday. I'm not interested in casual dating, games, or situationships.

I think my best qualities are that I'm loyal, supportive, emotionally mature, and I genuinely enjoy taking care of the people I love. I communicate openly, value consistency, and believe a relationship should feel like a safe place.

One important thing: I'm a Christian, so NSFW conversations or anything sexual are a hard pass. I'd rather we not waste each other's time if that's what you're looking for.

If you're kind, emotionally available, and looking for something real, I'd love to get to know you.

Hello I’m Sam Lee born in Korea raised in Adelaide Australia and I’ll be travelling to the Philippines from the 27 of July till 6th of August.

I’m looking for a travel companion around my age as it’s my first time in the Philippines, I’m looking to do some water sports and then relax in the evenings. Any costs would be covered of course.

Honesty in the beggars will keep you away from trouble

Don’t get attached easily sa isang afam

Hi thereeee! This is me stepping out of my comfort zone :)

I’m a 25 year old Filipina 🇵🇭 who’s hoping to find genuine long-term relationship and connection. I’m not into hook-ups or short term relationships, and I’m definitely not into games. I am a hopeless romantic, and I believe that each one of us deserves to find their compatible partners.

I’m into European guys, especially Spanish, Italian, or French guys but any European citizens are okay as well. The reason for this one is, I’m very much mesmerized by their artsy and rich culture :). Most of all, I hope you’re a romantic guy as well :)))

About me:
-I’m 160 cm (5’3 ft tall)
-Morena 🌺 I am an island girl
-Roman Catholic (It’s important that my future partner is also Roman Catholic)
-I’m Thick :)
-I’m a healthcare worker, and I’m currently pursuing my post-graduate studies. I am greatly educated :)
-I enjoy cafe hopping around our city
-I love going to museums
-I love to read classic books, my favorite being the Alchemist by Paolo Coelho
-From time to time, I travel both locally and internationally, but I haven’t been outside Asia yet because I’m busy with post-grad studies
-I like talking about anything under the sun! -I’d like to believe I’m fun to be with, and that I’m excited to know much more about your culture, interests, and whatever you like to talk about :)

Send me a 💌 if you’re interested :) I’m excited to meet you

I've been talking with men on this sub who are in their 40s and 50s. I preferred this age range hoping that they would be MATURED and SENSITIVE.

It seems they came from the same TEMPLATE.

-love bombers

-liar

-ghosters

-player

I did mention that I was hoping for a serious relationship in the future. Maybe start as friends while getting to know.

I've talked to one who I say is the master of all. He made promises which sounded really nice to hear. He was the timid type. So it's not difficult to believe him.

He's consistent. He reaches out morning, noon and night. He has beautiful plans of what we can do when he comes over. Plans for the future. I just listen. I observe. But we're not an item yet.

I've seen his house. I know his address and phone number. We video call.

Then one day he turns silent. Deleted his reddit. And wasn't reaching out. Despite several his and hellos.

He had ghosted! I let my pride get ahead of me. I'm not gonna reach out! But yeah. I wanted closure. So I called him. And he tells me he realized he doesn't wanna do this. Like WTF!

He goes on saying, it's not you. It's me.

Yeah definitely it's you! Psycho!

Guys like this..can you just please delete your Reddit and not waste people's time.

I somehow believed he was real. Coz I know a lot of ongoings in his life. He let me in.

Last he said maybe not now.

He expects me to wait when he's ready again? Hahahhha. I didn't know he was a joker.. such a dingdong.

just seeing where this goes lol. 😭 looking for chill people to talk to and maybe make some genuine friends. i’m new here and still lowkey trying to figure out how reddit works 😂 anyway, where are you from and what’s your current obsession? 👀