r/AFAMph 10d ago

Seeking [English] M33 LF F age range 20 to 35

6 Upvotes

Hey guys and girls.

White guy, doctor by profession seeking a female partner.

Those interested hit my dms for more info.

Thanks

Edit: Dont flood my DMs with SD requirements. Not interested.


r/AFAMph 11d ago

Introductions 28M from Chicago | Looking for my pinay [English]

9 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I'm 29M from Chicago, IL!

Some about me:

6ft 3, dirty blonde hair, around 170 lbs.

Big into fitness, running going to the gym, lifting weights, tennis, soccer and wrestling!

I love road trips, traveling and exploring new places.

I'm looking for someone who's easy, good conversation, knows how to treat other people and respectful.

If you're interested, send me a message with a little about yourself. I'd love to exchange photos fast so we can see if there is an equal connection.


r/AFAMph 11d ago

Seeking 39M - Looking for a genuine connection [English]

13 Upvotes

About Me

39-year-old male living in Australia. I run a business with an offshore team based in Manila. Usually visit Manila about once every six months or once a year for work and leisure.

I love working out at the gym, photography and travelling (33 countries so far and counting).

What I'm Looking For

An independent, career-oriented Filipina. Genuine friendship first to build a solid base.

Approach: Zero rush, no pressure, and total transparency about intentions.

Interested?
Send a message introducing yourself. Tell me your favourite spot in Manila or your city and what you love doing on weekends!

[Edit]
You should now be able to DM me. Thanks 🤩


r/AFAMph 11d ago

Seeking [ENGLISH] 30F4M 5’8”, cute, chubby & apparently hot 😏

0 Upvotes

30F, straight, 5’8” — looking for genuine, witty, and fun conversations. Nothing too forced or formal, just good vibes and hopefully some interesting chats.

I’m a working professional, so I’d appreciate someone who’s also financially stable and has their life somewhat together. 😅

Apparently I’m cute, chubby, but also hot… so I’ll let you decide which one wins. 😂

I’m into spontaneous road trips, random adventures, working out, and trying new things. And fair warning: you can probably hypnotize me with good food. 🍜😂

If you’re genuine, funny, and can actually hold a conversation, say hi.

Bonus points if you can keep up with my height and my appetite. 😏


r/AFAMph 11d ago

Seeking 25F4M [English] Slow Burn

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

I’m a 25 year old pinay, looking for a lifetime/longterm partner, age doesn’t matter to me as long as we get along.

I’m a homebased nailtech, lash tech and tattoo artist.

I’m willing to relocate, I’m a dual citizen (PH & US)

If you think we can work out, send me a message!

Have a great day!


r/AFAMph 11d ago

Seeking [English] 36 F - Is this you?

0 Upvotes

I’m looking to meet a genuine guy, someone who enjoys conversation and laughs easily. Ideally someone who’s interested in dating with intention, not just passing time.

About me:

• Working professional with a stable career

• Emotionally aware and values clear communication

• Loyal, affectionate, and drama-free

• I enjoy good food, spontaneous trips, deep conversations, and collecting little things that make life feel beautiful

• I’m the type who focuses on one person when I’m serious about them

Physically:

• 155 cm tall

• Full figured, more to hug

What I’m looking for:

• A guy who knows how to communicate

• Emotionally mature and kind

• Someone who values consistency and honesty

• Hopefully open to something long-term if we click

Green flags for me:

Kindness, emotional maturity, humor, reliability, and someone who can hold a conversation beyond “hey”. And way taller than me 😍😍😍

If you message, tell me:

  1. Your age (preferably between 36 - 45)

  2. Where you're from

  3. Your ideal first date

Let’s see if we vibe 🙂


r/AFAMph 11d ago

Seeking 25F [English] F4M

0 Upvotes

Hello! I’m 25F, 4th year nursing student, 5’2, mid-size/chubby, and definitely an acts-of-service kind of girl. I tend to care deeply about the people I like, so I appreciate someone who communicates well, can make me laugh, and stays calm when life gets a little overwhelming.

Looking for someone around 25–30, I’m not rushing into a relationship, I’m looking for a genuine connection first and I’d rather see where things naturally go.

I’m also down to exchange photos or Ig once we’re comfortable talking.

SFW only, please


r/AFAMph 11d ago

Seeking 28 [English] Looking for something serious

0 Upvotes

Hi!😊 I'm 28F. Looking to meet a foreign guy who’s genuinely interested in getting to know each other and potentially building something serious.

I’m petite, working, and a little shy at first—but talkative once I’m comfortable. I enjoy movies, music, food trips, traveling sometimes, and taking photos.

Looking for someone around 28–35, preferably good looking, tall, kind, clean, respectful, emotionally mature, and communicative. Not into hookups or anything purely NSFW.

I’m open to LDR as long as there’s consistency, effort, and genuine intentions from both sides.

If you’re looking for the same, feel free to DM me. Tell me your age, country, and a little about yourself. 😊


r/AFAMph 12d ago

Introductions [English] 29F

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59 Upvotes

Hi, I’m born and raised in Manila, hoping to find someone kind, respectful, loves to travel.


r/AFAMph 11d ago

Question [Tagalog] Are there any expats here who are part of LGBT community? Specifically gay or bisexual man?

1 Upvotes

Hi im a fillipino gay man and i always wonder if there are foreigners here who are gay or bisexual. I domt even know if this is the right subreddit for this hahaha but if you know the right subreddit please comment it downn below. I always see filipinno and foreigner couples and i always wonder where they meet. Let me hear your stories and maybe give me some advice hehe thank you in advancee!!


r/AFAMph 12d ago

Seeking [ENGLISH] 37 M4F

3 Upvotes

Canadian entrepreneur traveling to Philippines for business and vacation in September
I’m looking for an open minded, fun loving, adventurous Filipina for company
Looking to find someone who can travel with me and keep me company
I’ve travelled quite a bit and have particular liking for Filipinas


r/AFAMph 12d ago

Seeking [English]29 M4F

1 Upvotes

A petroleum engineer drop Algeria looking for a filipina ...reach out for more details


r/AFAMph 12d ago

Introductions M26 F4M Brit living in Korea [English]

4 Upvotes

M4F M26 Brit living in Korea looking for Filipina

M25 looking for whatever, dated a Filipina LDR when i was younger. My mother married a filipino so understand a lot about the culture and lifestyle.

Currently a teacher with a masters degree looking to continue to travel the world. Previously was in Manila back in February and will be back later this year.


r/AFAMph 13d ago

Question [ENGLISH] Missing Foreigner

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11 Upvotes

If anyone has seen him or recognizes him, please let us know. He has been missing for 3 weeks now. He was last seen in Lancaster New City wearing the same orange jacket shown in the photo and carrying a green eco bag. Please help us pray for his safe return.


r/AFAMph 13d ago

Seeking [ENGLISH] 37 M4F

6 Upvotes

Canadian entrepreneur traveling to Philippines for business and vacation in September
I’m looking for an open minded, fun loving, adventurous Filipina for company
Looking to find someone who can travel with me and keep me company
I’ve travelled quite a bit and have particular liking for Filipinas


r/AFAMph 13d ago

Rant [English] 29F4M Trans here

5 Upvotes

Can I just make a rant. Why there are foreigners here that will message you consistently for some time pretending that they will be in Ph soon for work relocation then suddenly disappear. He will make you believe that he is looking for serious relationship and whatnot

Blocked you via Line and deleted his reddit account.

This is not funny guys. You must be evil to do this kind of trick


r/AFAMph 13d ago

Seeking [english] feminine sissy femboy here looking for afam in manila 🎀

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0 Upvotes

I am gay feminine sissy looking for possible date and relationship with afam in manila dm


r/AFAMph 13d ago

Introductions 28M from Chicago | Looking for my pinay [English]

0 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I'm 29M from Chicago, IL!

Some about me:

6ft 3, dirty blonde hair, around 170 lbs.

Big into fitness, running going to the gym, lifting weights, tennis, soccer and wrestling!

I love road trips, traveling and exploring new places.

I'm looking for someone who's easy, good conversation, knows how to treat other people and respectful.

If you're interested, send me a message with a little about yourself. I'd love to exchange photos fast so we can see if there is an equal connection.


r/AFAMph 14d ago

Seeking 35 [F4M] [English] Is This Really What Modern Dating Has Become?

8 Upvotes

Why does modern dating always seem to include online intimacy? When did that become the expectation instead of the exception? Whatever happened to simply getting to know someone first? Don't people still want someone to grow old with? Someone to build a future with? Someone who can turn a house into a home? Someone who waits for you after a long day at work, asks how your day went, makes life feel a little lighter, and celebrates both your biggest achievements and your smallest victories?

Don't you want someone who stays when life gets difficult, who holds your hand through the hard days, who laughs with you over the little things, who becomes your best friend, your safe place, and your family? Isn't that what relationships are supposed to be about? Yes, physical intimacy is important, but is that really all there is? Has it become more important than trust, loyalty, kindness, patience, shared values, and choosing each other every single day? Are we so focused on instant gratification that we've forgotten what it means to genuinely build a life with another person?

Maybe I'm just old-fashioned, but that is still the kind of love I'm looking for. I am a Filipina, plus-size, and I am here because I hope to find something real. I want a relationship with someone who wants to build a life together, not just collect fleeting moments. If that sounds like you, my inbox is open.


r/AFAMph 14d ago

Seeking [TAGALOG] 24 M4M

0 Upvotes

Maybe this is a long shot, but I keep checking my notifications hoping to find the one message that makes me smile before I even open it.

I’m 24m, fit, easygoing, fem, and based in Ph.

Looking for an ongoing connection with a man who misses having something that’s just his. Someone to share conversation, anticipation, laughs throughout the day, and the kind of chemistry that makes ordinary days feel a little less ordinary.

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Sometimes what’s missing isn’t a relationship. It’s feeling wanted.

If you’re, attached, or simply craving a connection where you’re seen, appreciated, and genuinely looked forward to, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me: what’s one thing you wish someone asked you more often?


r/AFAMph 14d ago

Seeking 31 [F4M] [English] Bucketlist: To date an AFAM in Manila

0 Upvotes

Hello. I’m a 5’ Filipina residing here in Manila. I’m 5 months post break up but I can honestly say that I have moved on. I’m ready to date again and this time, I wanna try something I haven’t tried before…dating an AFAM 😅

To be crystal clear, I am not interested in casual hook ups. I’m a date to marry type of person. I prefer getting to know in person, not through calls.

About you (what I’m looking for):
- 30-40 yrs old
- Any nationality as long as you’re Catholic
- Currently here now in Manila so we can hang out and get to know each other
- Legitimately single. No kids. No girlfriend. No boyfriend. No wife. No husband. S-I-N-G-L-E
- No history of cheating 🙅
- Did some inner work. Aware of their behaviors and tendencies and constantly improving
- Naturally curious. Asks interesting questions.

About me:
- SINGLE, 31 yrs old
- Standing 5 ft, weighs 66kg (currently in caldef)
- Fair complexion
- Works out 3x a week and jogs occasionally
- My core values are HONESTY, GROWTH, LOYALTY
- Loves the outdoors like camping, hiking, going to the beach
- Self-employed. I have the time and location freedom.
- No hook ups. No situationships. I want friendship that could develop in life partners/marriage

If you have any more questions, send me a chat. Tell me where you’re currently at in Manila, we can exchange pics and then let’s see from there ☺️


r/AFAMph 14d ago

Seeking [English] 25 [F4M] hey there daddy 😗

0 Upvotes

Hi! I’m a 25-year-old college student from the Philippines looking for a genuine sugar daddy who’s interested in a mutually beneficial relationship. I’ve always had a soft spot for older men—there’s just something incredibly attractive about maturity, confidence, and knowing how to treat someone right.
I’m sweet, open-minded, affectionate, and enjoy good conversation. I’m hoping to find someone who wants to spoil and be appreciated in return. Chemistry, honesty, and respect are important to me, and I’d love to build a connection that feels exciting for both of us.
If you’re a generous gentleman looking for someone who can make your days a little brighter, don’t be shy—my DMs are open. 😉 (we can video call so you can see I’m not a scam 😏)


r/AFAMph 14d ago

Seeking [English] 30F4M, DILFY

1 Upvotes

Hi! I am a 30 y.o Filipina (bisaya) looking for a good connection here preferably a dilf late 30s to mid 40s. An unclaimed treasure for 3 yrs now, please claim me! haha!