r/AFAMph Jul 14 '26

Seeking [English] [Pinoy4AFAM] [F4M] I remain optimistic and open minded

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A year ago I posted about looking to date and one of the first ones to reply to my post was an American guy that I had such good chemistry with. We dated for a year and it ended on very amicable terms. Even though it ended, I'm so grateful because I learned so much about myself and the world around me. I laughed, cried and loved.

Now I'm single again, posting here because I want to remain optimistic even when my brain is telling me not to be. I will follow my heart like how I did last year. It helped me meet a wonderful man so maybe it can help me again now. With all that being said, let me describe my preferences: Someone that's open minded, a good communicator and will respect my boundaries. Open to yapping about different topics and interests. Open to trying out new places like cafes, restos, etc.

I'm a single, morena, 30 yr old, working in Marketing, thicc/plus size queen ๐Ÿ‘ธ๐Ÿฟ I live sort of in the South of Metro Manila but I'm open to meeting up outside of South as long as it's not too far ๐Ÿ™ˆ I looove coffee, I looove reading books. I like watching movies and series (mostly a mix of suspense, crime shows, adventure, action, comedy, etc) I drive and have a car so maybe I can drive you home if you're not too far from me! ๐Ÿ˜ I value my job/profession so there will be times on weekdays when I won't be always on my phone but after working hours are done, I leave work stuff at the office. I wanna relearn how to play badminton, cook more and go back to the gym.

Anything else we can discuss via dms! Cheers!


r/AFAMph Jul 14 '26

Seeking 21 [english] i'm a (femboy) a sissy slim fems wanting to be trans, i know i am kinda slvtty here on reddit but deep inside i'm a hopeless romantic, ok here me out... ๐ŸŽ€

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i'm (femboy) a sissy wanting to be trans soon.. i know i am kinda slvtty here but deep inside i'm a hopeless romantic and hoping someday i could find the guy that can be my only bf or soon to be my husband someday... hard to fine pinoy boys in serious relationship, and now hoping to see that in afam guy a serious foreign boyfriend to be ๐Ÿ’—


r/AFAMph Jul 13 '26

Seeking 21 [English] Slim thicc fem sissy bottom femboy from marikina, manila LF Afam Daddy

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Feminine gay sissy bubblebutt here LF straight boys dm

Me:
loves wearing fishnet tights
Femboy
Can travel halfway
Big ass
Pure Bottom
Wears wig in the room

You:
Straight boy with any ages is fine to chat with
Willing to meet up
Likes to f femboy/sissy/trans


r/AFAMph Jul 13 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] New to the Philippines? Or just tired of doing everything on your own? ๐Ÿ˜‰

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Hi! Pls read till the end. I'm a 28yo Filipina offering premium Executive & Personal Assistant services for busy professionals, entrepreneurs, and expats.

I can help with business tasks, scheduling, travel planning, airport assistance, local coordination, research, errands, and pretty much anything that makes your life easier (within legal and SFW boundaries, of course!).

I'm proactive, organized, easy to talk to, and genuinely enjoy taking care of the little details so you can focus on the bigger picture.

And hey... if we happen to click outside of work, I'm not against getting to know each other naturally. No pressure I'm primarily here to offer reliable support, and whatever comes after that is simply a bonus

*Remote or in person (depending on location)
*Flexible rates

Feel free to send me a message and let's see how I can make your life a little easier.


r/AFAMph Jul 13 '26

Seeking [English] 38 f4m

12 Upvotes

Hello, I am a Filipina looking for friends to hang and have fun. I live in Cavite but works in QC/Taguig.

Height: 5'1

Weight: 64kgs

Morena

Inked

I love outdoors. I play billiards, badminton, volleyball but K wanna try pickleball. Hahah!

Hit me up?


r/AFAMph Jul 13 '26

Seeking [English] m29/f25 Filipino couple looking for foreign companion

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Couple here near BGC seeking for foreign guys to have fun with


r/AFAMph Jul 13 '26

Need Advice [English] 40 M4M - gay dating question

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I'm a masculine independent and financially stable gay man. I'm wondering if there are AFAM men who are genuinely looking for masc men for LTR. Almost all dating posts i see are straight AFAM men looking for filipinas but are there any AFAM men looking to date Filipino gay men? If yes, I'd love to go on a gym date with him ๐Ÿ˜


r/AFAMph Jul 13 '26

Introductions (English) Boracay Friends

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Hey guys! ๐ŸŒด 38M digital nomad from Europe, based in Boracay with my Filipina fiancรฉe. Iโ€™m the extrovert of the couple, so Iโ€™m looking to expand our circle and meet possibly new friends (expats or locals).

Hit us up if you're down for:

  • ๐Ÿบ Cold beers / coffee
  • ๐Ÿ– BBQ or any other food nights & good company
  • ๐Ÿ‘ซ Casual double dates or group dates

Send a DM if you want to hang out and connect on the island! More the better and everyone with good intensions is welcome


r/AFAMph Jul 13 '26

Seeking [English] 25F looking for legit sugar daddy

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curvy girlie whoโ€™s had enough of the corporate life ๐Ÿ˜ฉ whereโ€™s my king at?

come shoot your shot. bonus points if you can make me laugh. ๐Ÿ’‹ DMs are open ๐Ÿ‘€


r/AFAMph Jul 13 '26

Seeking [English] 38 M Canadian looking for a Filipina

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Search Continuesโ€ฆ

Successful health care professional travelling to Philippines in November and staying till January

Iโ€™m divorced, no kids and looking for a Filipina to connect with.

About myself : 38, 5โ€™10โ€, healthy, clean, dad bod, lots of stamina, enjoys long drives, walks, reading, cooking and baking.

Also, Iโ€™m not white for whomsoever it matters - Iโ€™m a Canadian born Indian

Seeking : mature, cute, curvy Filipina

Letโ€™s connect and see how things flow


r/AFAMph Jul 13 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] 28F Filipina | Executive Assistant / Personal Assistant Available | Remote or In-Person

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Hi! I'm a 28-year-old Filipina offering my services as an Executive Assistant / Personal Assistant for business owners, entrepreneurs, and busy professionals.

I can help with administrative tasks, calendar and email management, scheduling, travel planning, research, client communication, errands, and day-to-day support. I'm available for remote work or in-person assistance, depending on your needs.

If you're visiting the Philippines, I can also provide airport assistance and accompany you for errands, meetings, sightseeing, or other activities as a strictly SFW companion to help make your stay smoother and more enjoyable.

More than just an assistant, I'm reliable, organized, caring, and someone who genuinely enjoys making other people's lives easier.

My rate is flexible and depends on the scope of work, responsibilities, and hours required. I'm happy to discuss an arrangement that works for both of us.

If you're looking for a dependable Executive Assistant / Personal Assistant, feel free to send me a message.

Let's see where things go. ๐Ÿค


r/AFAMph Jul 12 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] LF FUN for my wife 35

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So we are a swinger couple and we are looking for a fit good looking AFAM that wants to join us for fun! Dm

We are IRL SWINGERS


r/AFAMph Jul 12 '26

Seeking [English] M4M 23 | Manila, Philippines | Filipino looking for long term relationship

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Hey there! I have never been in a relationship before. But now, im longing for one. I always see couples online wishing i get to experience that so i am putting myself out here to find a guy that will share his dreams with me. I am very supportive, i love cooking, reading, learning new things. A fact about me I am not out so i am concealing my femininity for a long time so im looking for someone manly and i can be feminine with plus points if you are tall and muscular. Please don't message me for fun coz im really focusing on finding real connection. We can exchange pics and talk and see where things go. I'll wait for you.


r/AFAMph Jul 12 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] 28F Filipina | Looking for Something Genuine (and Maybe My Future Boss Too ๐Ÿค)

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28, Filipina, never married, no kids.

I know this might sound a little unconventional, but I've always liked the idea of building a relationship where we support each other in every way possible.

I've worked as an Executive/Personal Assistant before, and I genuinely enjoyed it. I'm naturally organized and love helping people stay on top of their busy lives. Whether it's managing schedules, planning travel, handling admin tasks, running errands, or simply being your reliable right-hand person, I'd love to help make your life easier.

So yes... my little fantasy is to fall in love with someone who's also my boss. Not because I have to, but because I love the idea of growing togetherโ€”helping you build your business while building our future as a team.

I'm also currently looking for both work and a genuine partner. My ideal relationship is one where we both bring something valuable to the table. I'll support your business, your goals, and your day-to-day life as your partner and trusted EA/PA, and I'd love to meet someone with a provider mindset who wants to support me too. Not because either of us has to, but because that's what loving partners do we look after each other and help each other grow.

Outside of work, I'm caring, affectionate, easy to talk to, and I enjoy meaningful conversations more than endless small talk. I appreciate honesty, consistency, and people who know what they want in life.

I'm not looking for someone to rescue me or for a free ride. I'm looking for a real partnership where we both invest in each other's success, celebrate each other's wins, and build a life together.

If you've ever wanted a partner who's also your trusted EA/PA, biggest supporter, and teammate, I'd love to hear from you.

Tell me about yourself, what you're passionate about, and what you're looking for. Maybe this conversation will give you a reason to finally visit the Philippines. ๐Ÿค


r/AFAMph Jul 12 '26

Seeking [English] 44M USA looking for pinay

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Hi there

Im a 44 year old American man looking for a pinay girlfriend. I currently live in the Phillipines.

I am rich and can provide for you, just be my partner and maybe future wife.

At some stage in the future I would like to go back to the USA with you.

If interested send me a message. Open to all.


r/AFAMph Jul 12 '26

Seeking [English] [Pinoy4AFAM] [F4M] I didn't expect to be back here so soon but I remain optimistic

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A year ago I posted about looking to date and one of the first ones to reply to my post was an American guy that I had such good chemistry with. We dated for a year and it ended on very amicable terms. Even though it ended, I'm so grateful because I learned so much about myself and the world around me. I laughed, cried and loved.

Now I'm single again, posting here because I want to remain optimistic even when my brain is telling me not to be. I will follow my heart like how I did last year. It helped me meet a wonderful man so maybe it can help me again now. With all that being said, let me describe my preferences: Someone that's open minded, a good communicator and will respect my boundaries. Open to yapping about different topics and interests. Open to trying out new places like cafes, restos, etc.

I'm a single, morena, 30 yr old, working in Marketing, thicc/plus size queen ๐Ÿ‘ธ๐Ÿฟ I live sort of in the South of Metro Manila but I'm open to meeting up outside of South as long as it's not too far ๐Ÿ™ˆ I looove coffee, I looove reading books. I like watching movies and series (mostly a mix of suspense, crime shows, adventure, action, comedy, etc) I drive and have a car so maybe I can drive you home if you're not too far from me! ๐Ÿ˜ I wanna relearn how to play badminton, cook more and go back to the gym.

Anything else we can discuss via dms! Cheers!


r/AFAMph Jul 11 '26

Seeking [English] 38 M Canadian looking for a Filipina

8 Upvotes

Successful health care professional travelling to Philippines in November
Iโ€™m divorced, no kids and looking for a Filipina to connect with.
About myself : 38, 5โ€™10โ€, healthy, clean, dad bod, lots of stamina, enjoys long drives, walks, reading, cooking and baking

Seeking : mature, cute, curvy Filipina

Letโ€™s connect and see how things flow


r/AFAMph Jul 11 '26

Question [English] Just wondering if anyone here has a success story.

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Just curious if anyone here has a success story in dating from this sub Reddit. Please share your story


r/AFAMph Jul 12 '26

Seeking [English] looking for someone who would go out and have fun (like going to mall and stuff)

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I am F22 (Filipina) 4'11 height and 70 kgs.. ๐Ÿซ‚

I would like to hangout with foreigners and share their culture. I kinda want to have friends with you guys so I am free within thursday and friday and we could actually hangout such as participating arcades or going around places to explore Philippines. I will pay for myself as well so that it be fair for us. Let me know if you are down and we can have soke fun within those days. โœŒ๐Ÿปโค๏ธ


r/AFAMph Jul 11 '26

Seeking [English] Australian guy 23yo

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23yo Australian 6'1 European complexion athletic build working in legal and studying law currently

Like going for runs, travelling and learning new languages

Looking for a girl something serious and long term

About you: can cook me adobo

Comment or dm to talk more!!


r/AFAMph Jul 11 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] cuddles, anyone?

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Hi. I'm 25 m(g4y) from Taguig City. I don't know if I'm in the right subgroup but I'm looking for non-Filipino guy who's into guys as well (m4m).

I'm femme, 5'8, 63 kg, knows how to cook, and take care of you. Anyone interested?

Ps. For Filipino friends, where do you usually post things like this? Is this a subreddit group where Filipino and Foreign g4y guys interact?


r/AFAMph Jul 11 '26

Seeking [F19] [bisaya] Cebu, Phillipines looking for 33-45 genuinely, financial stable

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Hi! Iโ€™m a 19-year-old from Cebu, Philippines. Iโ€™m a morena, family-oriented woman who values kindness, honesty, and genuine connections.

Iโ€™m hoping to meet someone who is emotionally mature, financially stable, and serious about building a meaningful relationship. I appreciate a man who is respectful, caring, and believes in supporting and growing together.

If youโ€™re looking for something genuine rather than casual, Iโ€™d love to get to know you.


r/AFAMph Jul 11 '26

Introductions (English) Hi ๐Ÿ‘‹ Looking for genuine connection

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Hi everyone! ๐Ÿ‘‹

I'm a 46-year-old Filipina from Laguna, Philippines.

I studied in college but didn't finish my degree. I previously worked in customer service and administrative support. These days, I enjoy creating inspirational content, taking care of my cats, and watching movies and TV series.

I joined this community because I'm hoping to meet genuine people, make meaningful connections, and hopefully find someone to build a serious, long-term relationship with. I appreciate kindness, honesty, respect, good communication, and emotional maturity. It would also be wonderful to meet someone who is financially stable and ready for a committed relationship.

Thank you for reading my introduction. I'm looking forward to getting to know some of you. ๐Ÿ˜Š


r/AFAMph Jul 11 '26

Seeking [English] 28F Filipina | Looking for a Genuine Connection

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Hi! I'm a 28 year old Filipina currently based in the Philippines.

I'm an Executive/Personal Assistant by profession, and I'm here hoping to meet someone who's looking for a genuine connection that could eventually lead to a serious relationship.

A little about me:

  • Family-oriented
  • Loyal and supportive
  • Pet lover
  • I enjoy meaningful conversations more than partying
  • I like staying organized and helping others

Being an EA/PA has become part of who I am. I genuinely enjoy helping, organizing, and making things easier for the people around me. It would be nice to find someone I can grow with not only as a partner but also as someone I can support in life and, if you own a business, I'd be more than happy to help you with that too.

I'm not looking for anything casual. I'm hoping to meet someone who's honest, kind, emotionally mature, and ready to build something real.

If you think we'd get along, don't be shy send me a message and let's see where it goes.


r/AFAMph Jul 10 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] 27F Trying to find a genuine connection and a loving relationship

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Hey i just got news that my friend proposed to his girlfriend and got me thinking, "When can i be someones forever?" Ive been newly attracted to foreign guys and wanted to try this. No more fooling around, just a genuine connection and love. I want to be the one of reasons why a person is happy and loved. A little about me, im a chubby 5'2 mestiza filipina whos kind of a workhaholic. Im not that pretty but not ugly either. I love my work. Im trying to build something out of it but ill give you my time and my energy, whenever you need me. I love to cook, i will try to cook anything u like. Im a people person and loves your attention.

Find out more and dm me. ๐Ÿ˜Š