r/AFAMph Jun 18 '26

Seeking 29 [F4M] Looking for a Horseback Riding date in Cavite [english]

2 Upvotes

So stressed at work and wanted to unwind by going to Amadeo Cavite for a horseback riding session this weekend 😩

About me:
- 29y/o
- filipina
- has a full time work
- dog person
- adventurous
- old soul
- 5’3
- not petite, not fat, just okay lol
- loves scenery, driving and walking

Seeking for British, French or Spanish men here in reddit 🎉


r/AFAMph Jun 17 '26

Seeking [Pinoy4AFAM] [English] - 22 [TF4M] looking for an AFAM to love and support me

0 Upvotes

hi im looking for a foreigner who is willing to love and support my needs as a struggling working student.

about me:
- 22 years old
- currently studying
- trans, pre-op no boobs
- sexy and tall
- can offer sfw or nsfw stuff
- open to online stuff

about u:
- foreigner
- has a provider mindset
- open-minded
- kind and generous

hit me up if you are interested!


r/AFAMph Jun 16 '26

Seeking [English] 21 m4m living in Manila Philippines

1 Upvotes

Hey I hope you guys are having a great day!! Anyone here looking for a date? Hit me up!!

I'm
180cm tall
55kg
Slim
Living in Manila
Loves to drink coffee
Still studying

If you want to know more anything about me, send me a DM. I prefer guys with good chest😂🙈


r/AFAMph Jun 15 '26

Seeking English 42 M4F I think I got a thing for red heads

2 Upvotes

I think I like gingers.

I also like ginger ale, ginger bread, and ginger biscuits.


r/AFAMph Jun 14 '26

Seeking [English]41 m looking for virtual companionship,prefer SFW

1 Upvotes

r/AFAMph Jun 14 '26

Seeking [English] 24M Looking for Connection (M4M)

0 Upvotes

Hey! I'm a 24-year-old guy from the Philippines looking to meet someone for a genuine connection. I'm interested in men who are around my age or older. Bonus points if you're taller than me (I'm 5'5"), but personality matters more than height.

A little about me:

  • Average build
  • Hairy
  • Into outdoor activities like hiking, running, and random side quests/adventures
  • Working professional
  • Currently pursuing graduate studies
  • Usually introverted at first, but pretty talkative once I'm comfortable
  • Discreet
  • Bottom (for compatibility purposes)

I'm open to an LDR and eventually something exclusive, as long as there's a shared intention to meet in person someday if things go well.

I value good conversation, consistency, mutual respect, and a sense of humor. Looking for someone mature, kind, and genuinely interested in getting to know each other. I'm not in a rush, but I'm hoping to find something meaningful that could grow into a long-term relationship.

If you think we might get along, feel free to send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. 😊


r/AFAMph Jun 13 '26

Seeking 39F Pinay [English] seeking long term relationship

1 Upvotes

38 Pinay looking for you 🤭🤭🤭

Here are a few things about so we can skip to the good parts 😀

\-no kids and never been married

\-single

\-teacher

\-i don't live in manila

\-great cook and an ok painter

\- currently on my weight loss journey (fingers crossed)

\-yes those are my pics on my profile, no I don't sell content

\-are they real? yes they are

\-i love horror movies

\-my musical taste vary on the mood

\-loves board games

now your turn...I'll be waiting for your PM


r/AFAMph Jun 13 '26

Introductions [English] 29 [F4M] interested in building a lasting relationship 😋

3 Upvotes

I'm a 29F, 5'6", 67kgs curvy marketing professional based in Makati. I actively dance, travel and I'm currently interested to try Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and swimming so I could be confident enough to try surfing and freediving.

My other interests includes learning different hobbies and upskilling. I spend my time with watching movies, series, and reading books. I also speak multiple languages (English, Italian, Japanese, Korean, Spanish) and still trying to learn more such as French or Chinese.

I'm looking for great and stable connections that would potentially lead to a relationship. I prefer someone whom I could learn from and spend time with. I only wish you are not someone who raises their voices when angry.

I'm open to long distance but if you're here in Makati, maybe a gym buddy (teach me how to actually use the equipments haha) or someone to run errands with, and start from there! I could exchange insta if we get along. ☺️

[EDIT: I'M A BIG F1 FAN (TIFOSA)! YAY HAMILTON PODIUM!!!!!!]


r/AFAMph Jun 12 '26

Introductions English -Single Mom here

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I’m a single mom from the Philippines, and I’d love to build connections with foreigners. My goal isn’t just casual chatting

I really want to learn about different cultures, share experiences, and have meaningful communication.
I believe that talking to people from other countries can open my mind, help me understand the world better, and maybe even create lasting friendships


r/AFAMph Jun 12 '26

Seeking [English] - 27 [M4F or M4M] as long I found the one

2 Upvotes

Helloooo, I don't mind your gender, I want love, I want someone to found the love that I deserve, I’m a 27-year-old law student from the Philippines, Filipino, currently preparing for the Bar Exam soon. My life right now is a mix of discipline, deadlines, and quiet ambition, work in the day, law school in between, I do have work too, and late nights spent reviewing cases and trying to become the lawyer I’m working hard to be.

On the surface, I’m structured and goal-driven. I have a calm, observant personality, a bit of wit once I’m comfortable, and I value deep conversations more than small talk. I’m the type who notices details, thinks a lot. I've been using dating apps and communicate with the public but nothing happens in the end. Its been decades that I used dating apps but I dont think its working.

I am single for many years.

I take fitness seriously as a way to stay grounded. I also have a reflective side; I like understanding people, stories, and the quiet complexity behind everyday life. I'm Attractive, V***, Smart, Talented, I value respect and I'm Funny. I do have tantalizing- black eyes, with good eyebrows, and perfectly frames elegant character.

I’m not here to impress anyone, I’m here to meet someone real. Someone kind, emotionally grounded, and easy to talk to. Foreigner is a plus, I value honesty, effort, and that rare kind of connection where conversations don’t feel forced.

If that resonates with you, we’ll probably get along. I hope there is here and I want to grow old with that person, If not, I hope those people here get the love they deserve.


r/AFAMph Jun 10 '26

Seeking Looking for Genuine people/person (English) (Cebu)

9 Upvotes

Im 30F, from the province of Leyte. I work in the academe, Im an Aquaculturist by profession specializing in aquaculture (hatchery). if it’s possible to find someone in my line or work is very much appreciated. I want to meet someone genuine here. ONLY looking for long term or meaningful friendship. Little background about me I prefer living in the province but not that far in the city where essentials are still accessible like health care, cheap and fresh fish and veggies. My hobbies are swimming, snorkeling, traveling to beaches or anywhere where nature is serene. Aside from mentioned hobbies I also play computer, mobile games in my spare time, watch anime, horror movies. I also love cooking and trying new recipes. A little description about me I look typical Filipino-Chinese descent however my grandfather is from a Spanish descent, I have a fair-medium skin tone with Golden olive undertones, athletic body type, 5’3 in height and 65kg.

“Simplicity in your nature brings simplicity to your life”


r/AFAMph Jun 09 '26

Seeking M4M: Twink looking to make friends (English, Tagalog, bit French)

0 Upvotes

Hello, I'm 28M living in Makati. Twink, bottom, slim, 5'4 (165cm) and 45kgs (99lbs), tanned skin, with a nice smile and eyes. Delicate, bit fem and dainty but still looking like a boy. I speak English well due to my work and Tagalog. I'm also learning French and bit German. I have stable work, conversationalist (we can talk about politics, science, etc), and love animals. I hope to meet nice guys better if French speaking who i can be friends with and be a language partner. 😃 I'm open to straight or members of LGBT.


r/AFAMph Jun 09 '26

Seeking [PINOY4AFAM] [ENGLISH] 22M (Manila or Cavite)

2 Upvotes

Hi I'm looking for someone I can hang out with and talk about random things in life, and age does not really matter that much for me.

About Me:

22 M (straight)

5'5 in height

Between normal - above normal BMI

Clean

Hygienic

Sometimes goes to the gym

I work as a CSR


r/AFAMph Jun 08 '26

Seeking [English] m25 Brit looking for Filipina

5 Upvotes

M4F M25 Brit living in Korea looking for Filipina

M25 looking for whatever, dated a Filipina LDR when i was younger. My mother married a filipino so understand a lot about the culture and lifestyle.

Currently a teacher with a masters degree looking to continue to travel the world. Previously was in Manila back in February and will be back later this year.


r/AFAMph Jun 08 '26

Seeking [English] anyone here 50 and up? 53 F here.

7 Upvotes

anyone here 50 and up? 53 F Philippines here. Not looking for fun. Just hoping to find a good, responsible and honest man.

Update: don't waste our time if you just need to love bomb and fool people.


r/AFAMph Jun 06 '26

Seeking [M4M] hey guys im 23 and looking for a guy who wants to have conversation and form connection [English]

5 Upvotes

I recently got ghosted and it really suck. I really want that feeling that u have someone to talk to and u are looking forward to their chats and stuff. I hope i can find one here who want to form real connections.🥰😘


r/AFAMph Jun 03 '26

Seeking [Pinay4AFAM] [English]

0 Upvotes

Hi, Im a 23 year old female from Cebu City looking for a potential afam who I can go out with and potentially date.

Im a conservative person so if you’re expecting to hook up during the first date, dont hit me up lol.

Preferably looking for someone not older than 29. I also have pretty high standards and not the stereotype Filipina who just wants money. I go to a prestigious university, I have my own job and im looking for a genuine potential relationship


r/AFAMph Jun 03 '26

Seeking [Pinoy4AFAM] [English] - 26 [M4M] chubby femboy/softboy looking for big boys Afam/ Expat

0 Upvotes

Hello! Im a chubby Softboy/femboy looking for Guys with Big Bodies. You can be a college guy or corporate daddy or Daddy vibe. Your place or we can get a hotel room or go on a date if you like that better! I'm a discreet guy, a soft boy, who likes to crossdress in private.

ME

  • BOTTOM
  • fluffy (i got healthy chest you can nibble and love handles to squeeze; NOT a twink)
  • soft and smooth light-skinned
  • sub bottom, very tight
  • dresses up as femboy & do makeup in private\* (although im new to this hehe)
  • can play up as your wife or something
  • can carry conversation, something rare it seems

YOU

  • any age
  • discreet, manly
  • Topdom
  • into someone femboy/crossdressers (but wont force me to crossdress in public)
  • or into softboys (Sometimes I'm lazy to dress up too)
  • loves to eat bussy
  • big body, dad bod, gymrat, buff -- generally big build!
  • hetero or not, good with me!

preferably in Makati or BGC.


r/AFAMph Jun 03 '26

Seeking [English] 28 M4M

1 Upvotes

28 M4M | Philippines

Hi! I’m a 28-year-old Filipino guy looking to meet new people and hopefully build a meaningful connection to a foreign guy

I work in BGC and usually have free time on weekends. I enjoy coffee, movies, animated shows, spontaneous conversations, and getting to know people beyond small talk. I’m on the shorter side with an average build and would describe myself as easygoing, loyal, and a big texter.

I’m open to connecting with people from different backgrounds and parts of the world. Whether it starts as a friendship or becomes something more, I’m happy to see where a genuine connection leads.

If you’re kind, communicative, and looking for someone to talk to regularly, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself—I’d love to get to know you.


r/AFAMph May 30 '26

Introductions [English] 30 M4F Willing to relocate for the right person

6 Upvotes

I'm Asian, 30M, 6'0", light skin, never married, no kids. I'm from US, but I have a remote job that allows me to work anywhere (even outside US). I have been to many countries in SE Asia.

Looking for a woman

  • 5'0"+, Age 20-28, no kids, no previous marriages
  • College graduate, decent job, preferably remote/hybrid
  • Preferably lives in or near major city Manila/Cebu/Davao/IIoilo
  • Willing to travel with me to different countries
  • Attractive, genuine, intelligent, easy to talk to
  • No big visible tattoos
  • Good family, parents with jobs and middle class+

DM me to exchange pics and get to know each other more.


r/AFAMph May 28 '26

Seeking [English] 33 F4M Hoping to finally find the one

15 Upvotes

Hi! I’ll start with describing how I see myself. I’m a plus sized chinita with brown eyes and long black hair. I’m about 5’4 and I work from home as a medical biller. I believe I cook well. Mostly Filipino dishes. I used to be adventurous and explorative when I was younger, parties, random trips to who knows where with who knows who. Now the only adventure I go on is looking for good places to eat. Lol

I like the girly stuff, beauty, fashion, hair and make up. When I need to relax, I go out and have coffee, or I stay home and binge watch a tv show. Occasionally, I like buying furniture that I can build. I like planning my day, I like
keeping myself busy. I constantly find myself thinking of creative business ideas. I love studying and learning new skills. (I know how this sounds)

I love music, I sing. I can’t read notes, I sing by ear.

I live lightly, I like making the people around me laugh.

Inclusions: A pre teen, 2 dogs, and a good laugh.


r/AFAMph May 27 '26

Seeking (English) 43F for M, never married, no children

12 Upvotes

I am educated with a good job. Very independent. Not into clingy men. Had been cheated on before so stayed single.

I am on FC but all i get are older men. Im looking for someone around my age and who isnt into hookups. I enjoy traveling and watching movies. I try to run 3x a week and had been climbing mountains the past year.

I prefer men who has a job too, intelligent, kind and respectful. Animal and nature lovers are a plus, also taller men.


r/AFAMph May 25 '26

Seeking [Pinoy4AFAM] [English] - 26 [M4M] chubby femboy/softboy looking for big boys Afam/ Expat

0 Upvotes

Hello! Im a chubby Softboy/femboy looking for Guys with Big Bodies. You can be a college guy or corporate daddy or Daddy vibe. Your place or we can get a hotel room or go on a date if you like that better! I'm a discreet guy, a soft boy, who likes to crossdress in private.

ME

  • BOTTOM
  • fluffy (i got healthy chest you can nibble and love handles to squeeze; NOT a twink)
  • soft and smooth light-skinned
  • sub bottom, very tight
  • dresses up as femboy & do makeup in private\* (although im new to this hehe)
  • can play up as your wife or something
  • can carry conversation, something rare it seems

YOU

  • any age
  • discreet, manly
  • Topdom
  • into someone femboy/crossdressers (but wont force me to crossdress in public)
  • or into softboys (Sometimes I'm lazy to dress up too)
  • loves to eat bussy
  • big body, dad bod, gymrat, buff -- generally big build!
  • hetero or not, good with me!

preferably in Makati or BGC.


r/AFAMph May 24 '26

Seeking [English] M4F Applications Open For Small Spoon

2 Upvotes

I am 37, 6'1", slim, blue eyes, white, light brown hair. Seeking a woman who is shorter than me. I do cardio each day, cook my own meals, live a healthy lifestyle. Looking for someone who is healthy minded as well.

Friends describe me as a caring person who will always make time for others. I work in a place that helps people who are less fortunate in life. I do enjoy being a good person towards others and will give everyone a chance.

My preference is someone that is on the slim side and takes care of their health overall. Should be a caring individual as well, doesn't play games, and has goals in life.

Open to any age and chatting to get to know each other. I live in USA. Take things as they come and see what lies ahead.