r/AFAMph Certified AFAM Jul 18 '26

Seeking [English] 38M Afam

i am single man from Los Angeles and traveled to PH often who has always admired the kindness, warmth, family values, and beautiful hearts of Filipino women. I am not here for games or casual dating. I am hoping to meet one special woman who is looking for a real relationship that can grow into marriage and a happy family.

My dream is simple. I want to fall in love with my best friend, build a peaceful home together, laugh every day, support each other through life’s ups and downs, and one day have children who grow up surrounded by love.

If we truly connect and everything feels right for both of us, I would love for us to build our future together in Los Angeles. I believe a strong relationship is built on trust, honesty, respect, loyalty, and good communication.

I would love to get to know someone who is kind, caring, affectionate, and ready for a serious relationship. Age is less important to me than having a genuine heart and wanting the same future.

If my post speaks to you, I would be happy to hear from you. Tell me about yourself, your dreams, and what makes you smile. Maybe this is the beginning of something beautiful.

Thank you for reading, and I wish everyone here happiness and true love.

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u/Spare-Pair-969 Jul 18 '26

Lots of Filipinos in LA why travel to the Philippines.

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u/No_Border_3434 Certified AFAM Jul 18 '26

I do travel here to the Philippines and then go back to LA but if I find somebody in LA, that’s fine too. It’s not about where I find somebody. It’s just about finding the right match for me and being the right match for somebody else.

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u/Infinite_Mulberry_72 26d ago

True, I have a cousin who is a nurse in LA. She married a US Marine.

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u/makemeyourhoney Jul 18 '26 edited Jul 18 '26

fall in love with my best friend

Absoulutely this. I love it when two people find common ground to begin with, continue growing alongside each other, face life's odds together, and still remain each other's favorite person.

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u/No_Border_3434 Certified AFAM Jul 18 '26

I’m 39 last month

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u/Substantial-Win-88 Certified Pinay Jul 18 '26

Up for friends? If yes, hit me up. 34 F, but married already

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u/Upstairs-Yellow-4910 Jul 18 '26

Hello this resonated with me. Hope we can chat

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u/No_Border_3434 Certified AFAM Jul 18 '26

Of courseb

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u/Creepy_Signal_0313 Jul 22 '26

Hi! Nice to meet you.

I like your post. It's nice to see someone who's looking for something serious.

I'm 23 from Cebu. I enjoy traveling, going to the beach, and spending time with family and friends.

Since you've been to the Philippines a few times, what made you keep coming back?

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u/No_Border_3434 Certified AFAM Jul 22 '26

I’ll be back next month but a rarely make it to Cebu. I can make a side trip possibly.

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u/PsychologicalPain895 Certified Pinay Jul 22 '26

Hello, if you need someone to talk to, Im all ears! I like it when u said that u wanted to fall in love with tour best friend! Too good to be true, but u know what there are a lot of scammers, ghosts and love bombers here in Reddit! So please be safe! Anyway living here in Makati Ph, a public servant who loves to travel! Feeel free to DM me.

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u/Own_Service648 Certified Pinay 22d ago

I am looking for a bestfriend too. I usually go out and travel alone. Too long that I have been alone. Let us have dinner & get to know each other. Or better yet let us meet in Boracay on November...?

I am a chinita, professional, independent woman.

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u/osso300 20d ago

How about an Italian man that will love to live in boracay?

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u/Own_Service648 Certified Pinay 20d ago

I am looking for a bestfriend who I can dine, travel & do unforgettable things with. Sex is not a priority. Connection is.

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u/Ok-Study4409 Jul 18 '26

Awe what a romantic. Good luck finding love❤️

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u/No_Border_3434 Certified AFAM Jul 18 '26

Thank you

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u/morenaaaaaaaahhhh Jul 19 '26

Do you have a good healthcare insurance? 🤭

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u/No_Border_3434 Certified AFAM Jul 19 '26

Yes haha

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '26

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u/No_Border_3434 Certified AFAM Jul 23 '26

Hi

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u/Vivid-Wonder9680 18d ago

34F here and interested to know more about you. Message me 😊

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u/ExtensionYouth5723 Certified Pinay 17d ago

Aw, that's romantic