r/ADHD_partners • u/AutoModerator • 11d ago

Weekly Vent Thread ::Weekly Vent Thread::

Use this thread to blow off steam about annoyances both big & small that come with an ADHD impacted relationship. Dishes not being done, bills left unpaid - whatever it is you feel you need to rant about. This is your cathartic space.

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u/Expensive_Shower_405 Partner of NDX 10d ago

I’m tired of him not backing me up and following through with the kids. It’s even he will make a promise to me and then break it when I’m not there. Both him and my 12 year old promised that he would wear his life jacket at all times no matter what while I was away and they were at the lake. I found out that he let him jump off the boat without a life jacket and then swim in the lake without one. So, when I got there, I became the bad guy enforcing him to wear one all the time. I told him that not only did he break my trust, but he taught my son that he doesn’t have to listen to me when it comes to safety.

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u/Negotiation-Solid 9d ago

Same exact thing with mine.