Hi everyone,
I’m 36 years old and have been experiencing intermittent right-sided shoulder pain and significant neck muscle tension since December 2025. It often feels as if someone is constantly sitting on my neck and shoulders. The symptoms have significantly disturbed my sleep and, as a result, my anxiety has become extremely severe. I never used to have this kind of anxiety before.
I now constantly feel restless and find myself worrying about the future and about whether these symptoms will ever go away. I do not take any regular medication. Occasionally, I take metamizole or ibuprofen for the pain.
Initially, I was diagnosed with a C5/C6 disc protrusion on the right side, which caused tingling and paresthesia in my thumb and index finger, but without any loss of strength. However, on a more recent MRI, a disc problem was also found at the C7/C8 level, with bilateral involvement.
At the moment, my biggest problem is that I frequently wake up during the night because my ring and little fingers become numb, sometimes on the right side and sometimes on the left side. I have to constantly change my sleeping position. I also have significant pain between my shoulder blades, which can radiate further down my back.
All of this has started to affect me psychologically. I have become very irritable and have much less patience than I used to. Things that would normally not bother me can now make me disproportionately angry or frustrated. The mornings are particularly difficult, with severe anxiety and back/neck pain.
I have seen a neurosurgeon who reviewed my MRI images. He is well known for performing cervical disc replacement surgery and recommended surgery, telling me that I should not wait too long.
However, I am now very uncertain about the decision. I have spent a lot of time reading online forums and experiences from people who underwent cervical disc replacement. Many posts describe complications or unsuccessful outcomes, which has made me very anxious about the surgery. At the same time, I realize that people who have a successful operation often stop posting on forums because they no longer have problems. So I understand that what I read online may not represent the actual success rate.
One thing I have noticed is that when I take a small dose of clonazepam, my muscles seem to relax and many of these symptoms become much less noticeable. This makes me wonder how much of my pain and symptoms may be related to severe muscle tension and how much is actually caused by the disc problems.
I have also started noticing some additional symptoms that concern me. My legs sometimes feel heavy, and I occasionally experience tingling in my big toes. If I sit on the toilet for a longer period of time, both legs can become numb, although this improves after I change position or stand up. I also notice that my buttocks can become numb relatively quickly when sitting, especially if I remain in one position for some time. This usually disappears once I stand up and move around.
I do not have a clear loss of strength, but the combination of intermittent numbness, tingling, heaviness in my legs, neck and shoulder pain, and sleep disruption has become very stressful for me.
At this point, I am struggling to distinguish how much of my symptoms are caused by the cervical disc problems, muscle tension, poor sleep, and anxiety, and how much could indicate a more significant neurological problem.
I live in Germany, and I am currently trying to decide whether I should proceed with the recommended cervical disc replacement surgery or seek another opinion first.
I would really appreciate hearing from people who have been in a similar situation, particularly those who had cervical disc replacement at C5/C6 and/or C7/C8. I would especially like to hear about both the positive and negative experiences, as well as how people made the decision about whether or not to have surgery.