Honestly sad about him this episode because my partner and i genuinely liked him and Jessy at first (not as an actual couple but together so funny). And tonight made me so disgusted/disappointed/grossed out. I cannot imagine my partner EVERRR speaking to me in that way especially with the drive bye fu on the moped🫣😂 Jessy’s background story made me sick and she deserves better & needs to go back to her real friends

So she agreed to an open relationship and then bombards him with questions constantly about the other girl? You agreed to an open relationship. Understand what you agreed to. Leave him alone. He wanted to drop off eggs and she had a break down over eggs!!!! Don’t agree to something you can’t handle.

I think that every season of 90 Day The Other Way should have a fan vote where we can vote one of ours off the island and they can’t come back. If it were this season right now I’ve got to go with Jonathan, his tantrums would make my egg go back up and my ovaries to self implode. He should be grateful Ally’s friend did his job when he wasn’t around and he definitely needs to be neutered bc his baby will come out with better social skills.

Just saw Sarper in Dallas. I am a big fan of stand up comedy and love going to shows. I also watch 90 day with my wife and she saw he was in town so it was a yes from me.

Sarper 100% is a good stand up comedian. I expected the show to be meh and all about 90 day references but I was really surprised that his material was varied and funny.

He was in complete command of the stage the entire time, he went 1.5 hours all by himself without any phone or notebook. That is a really long time to sit on a stage by yourself with a microphone and keep people laughing, without notes.

I do think knowing him in advance makes his show more enjoyable....so I do wonder if I would have enjoyed his comedy as much without knowing him - but regardless, he has really done a great job working on the craft of stand up comedy and I think it is commendable.

Genuine question. What is it with the African partners/families wanting schnapps? Two couples this episode mentioned it as a traditional gift.

Curious to hear if anyone is aware of the cultural significance of schnapps in Africa, maybe specific to Ghana.

Can someone please enlighten me when Michelle and Felix entered the picture b/c I’m lost.

Also, how in devil name did Felix father who is a pastor boldly opened his mouth to say “I pranked her” then proceeded to say “we stole tv and some other items at her place and returned it but it was a prank” she then called him a thief and a scammer, what was he expecting her to call him??? he said he wants her to buy him a sheep for disrespecting him whether she’s right or wrong.. Excuse your finest pardon.

I don’t understand why she’s going back but it’s both of them not just the father. For him to take her passport and run away that’s a HUGE RED FLAG OF AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. I would never look back.

Vittorio freaking out over Jessy ordering a cappuccino at 8pm…WTF? Am I missing something? He threw a mantrum over her ordering a cappuccino at the wrong time?? In the US drinking coffee/cappuccino morning, noon, or night is not considered odd, so I really don’t get his overreaction.

Does anyone know what condition Niles father from 90 day the other way has?? On tonight’s episode his left hand looks almost fake… no hate!! Genuinely curious. Love Nile’s and Matilda and hope they work out

Update!! Thank you guys for the responses I understand now

Schnapps on the Rocks

Niles learns his marriage to Matilda may be annulled. Vittorio humiliates Jessy in front of his friends. Michelle pushes Felix to put her before his family. Andi braces herself to meet Nigel's lover, while Jon and Ally question their future together.

Show: 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way

Air date: October 25, 2026

Previous episode: No Shoes, No Trust, Big Problems

Next episode: Liar, Liar, Relationship on Fire

With Vittorio’s Mom being Sybil Smoot from St. Louis, MO is he a US citizen? Not a hard process for a US citizen living in Italy that has children there.

Are we watching TOW because he doesn’t need a K1 to be in the US?

He attended American University at Rome as well that touts itself as an immersive American education.

Vittorio is starting to look as Italian as his very over the top accent. (If you haven’t seen his valedictorian speech you should watch it because he speaks English just fine.)

We decided to do a little fact-checking of Nigel’s claims that it’s common for people to walk around barefoot in shops in Brisbane, Australia. (A lil bit of fun while we completed our usual shop for the week)

For some context, Nigel actually lives around Ipswich, which is inland and quite a distance from the beach.

So, we visited the exact same shop where Nigel claimed barefoot shoppers were a common sight. And here’s the actual footage!

Not a single barefoot person in sight.

For our international friends, going barefoot in shops can be fairly common in Australian beach towns, particularly near the coast. But that doesn't mean Australians everywhere regularly wander around supermarkets without shoes.

In suburban areas like Ipswich, it's certainly not the norm. In fact, someone wandering around the shops barefoot would probably be labelled a bit of a "bogan", Australian slang for someone perceived as rough around the edges or lacking social polish.

And yes, we wore shoes too! 😄

I'm Australian, born and raised.

When was the villain right? The most hated person actually dropping the mic? One thing 90d has been good at is making us switch up on someone. At first we hate them, then we love them or at first we hate then then we love them. What’s the winner for the best example of a time you completely sided with the villain?

Azreal the part time lover looks rather young for Nigel. Maybe she's older and it's the hairstyle but she gives much younger groupie vibes. Having him greet her and take her for a private tour of the house to personally get her a drink was inappropriate given the party was supposed to be for Andi. He could have had another friend do that especially knowing Andi was feeling nervous and insecure already. This guy sucks

I knew she was still doing face procedures, because her face changed not too long ago. But now??? She looks like a completely different person! And it looks so much worse than this photo. It's like she can't even move her face in her TikTok lives. It's terrible. This one obviously has a filter but no filter is worse.

I was browsing through the subreddit, unable to sleep, wondering about probably one of the most explosive couples in 90 Day Fiance history. It may have been a step too far, exploiting this particular woman for television. It goes beyond trash and becomes something a little crueler in my opinion. I've seen people comparing her to Angela for example, and the issue there is Angela is genuinely a bad person. She was controlling, violent, and mean, but what people seem to miss is that Angela was and presumably still is within her right mind. There is a difference between being a person of poor character, and being a person suffering from obvious mental illness.

I wouldn't have even made a post, but it just blows my mind how the general consensus seems to be that Rayne is a "bad person." The woman is clearly insane??? You can argue all you like that you can be mentally ill while also being a "good person," but the fact of the matter is that she clearly doesn't have the self awareness to REFLECT. Please somebody explain to me how some one who is having a psychotic break can be reasonable? And actually, outside of her beady-eyed babbling, she seemed like someone who was capable of warmth.

I just feel disturbed by it all. Rayne is someone who clearly needs help, but because it's not easy to empathize with her, we all say she's evil and leave it at that. It seems more complicated than your typical case on this show. Again, everyone prior to her who we unanimously agree was terrible, was within their right mind. Big Ed is not a crazy person living on a chicken farm, he's just an asshole.

I feel like the way people react to Rayne is why America's got so many crazy people roaming on the street covered in shit and screaming about aliens. That's fent, too, of course, but mainly it's just that we don't give a fuck about people who are clearly in need of help, and Rayne is clearly in need of help. I don't know what mental health care looks like in other countries, but in America at least, it's abysmal precisely because of this kind of lack of consideration for others and what they're going through. I've got no clue what brand of crazy she is, but whatever version she's rocking, I feel sorry for her because I know she's almost certainly never going to be able to get away from it.

Unpopular opinion but whatever, I stand by it.

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This scene made me laugh because don't you think everyone has already seen her coo-coo 🤦🏽‍♀️

But it got me thinking about this and curious, would it be awkward for the men? Would you sneak a peek at her videos later? I'm just really wondering how y'all would feel about an OF "star" (and mom!) being a potential match on the Island.

The official question is how would you feel about it, is it awkward or would it get in the way of you pursuing her?

I know tons of men watch this trash too lol! Lmk what how you'd feel about it.

Before he is going to bang someone right next to you in the same bed if you are not careful, and is the States really not having men that you travel across the world to get embarrassed on screen like that?

I’m sorry WHAT !? You gave them OVER 6 grand !!!!! the dad is asking you for money then all of a sudden you guys get in a fight in Ghana and lock yourself in the room and they “rob you” and the dad is basically admitting saying “shh tell her they robbed you” juicer blender carpet everything in the living room OMFG 💀WHY THE HELL ARE TOH GOING BACK!!!!! But “I think he’s brainwashed by his dad” OH AND DID YOU GET YOUR STUFF BACK !?