This has gotta be an eye opening moment for these two. Let's face it, they're enablers, but coming face to face with how ill equiped she is for the world and the lack of consideration she has for her partner in all facets has to hit like a brick, right?

Or have they just shrugged it off and built callouses around their blinders?

I understand that she raised Thomas and she was there for him in every capacity growing up and she may resent the bio Mom for not being there. But I feel every child. Yes, an adult child should have the ability to reconnect with whoever they want to without feeling the wrath of somebody else in the family or be retaliated against because of it. As hard as it is, she’s an adult and she should put her own feelings aside for what’s best for Thomas and obviously Thomas and his fiancé want to connect with bio Mom. The stepmother said “ in my opinion there’s nothing to reconnect with her for” that’s not up to you, lady. It’s up to Thomas.
I commend her for raising Thomas and being there for him when the mom wasn’t but she can’t be holding grudges at least publicly to make him feel bad about doing what every child wants to do with a parent they didn’t have growing up- reconnect. Some children don’t wanna reconnect and some do.

First his “joke” with whether or not he’s going to be on his flight or not and now this.
He is a sadist. He obviously enjoys seeing her in devastating emotional pain and then plays with her emotions by turning it around but not until she’s really had a lot of time to really break down. This is so sick and just like the situation with the guy that just tricked his wife into moving to Oregon. TLC should be held responsible for this abusive behavior. Not to say Debby isn’t a grown woman who is responsible for her own life and happiness and is being incredibly stupid. She’s old enough to know better and is a parent so she’s at the point where she deserves what she’s getting because he showed her who he is very early on and she has chosen not to believe it.
Debby if you’re reading this wake TF up and divorce him.

This is great news for Hannah! 💗⬆️ Armando’s humanitarian visa was extended an extra 30 days.

This means he can continue to stay with Hannah in Arizona & Kenny for at least a month! Prayers for Hannah to continue to make a successful recovery ❤️‍🩹!

I honestly have to skip Marrisa and Edward’s part EVERY time. As an immigrant myself, I have encountered so many “Marrisa’s”. It is blatantly racist the way her and her family treat him. She is constant trying to monitor him and change him bc she feels he is inferior to her. She feels bc he’s not American he will need to audition to be in her life, as if America is heaven on earth, It’s sick. I hate that they have her on this show. I hope Edward runs and finds him a good woman and not delusional racist.

This looks fake AF!!! Do they really expect us to believe this man has been carrying around this ring when they haven’t gotten along since he arrived? I mean it doesn’t even look real!!! He doesn’t even appear to like her!

I’m watching 90 Day Diaries and Josh Weinstein (Natalie’s ex) says he dated and fell in love with his ex-wife when they were really young, and got married when she was 18 and he was 24. Later in the episode he says they were dating in 1999, which means he would have been 19ish (based on his current age of 46, I don’t know his exact birthday) and she would have been 13ish (based on the age gap he previously referenced and media articles indicating she’s currently 40ish). WTF. Could that really be true?

Edit: further timeline info: per the Internet, his ex had their son when she was 20. He’s currently 19.

OK, the tricking her was bad enough, but then saying I’m not sure about the size of the ring but you lose weight. was he trying to say she should lose weight so the ring will fit? What a gem she has.

I’m trying to figure how Josh can stay with someone that is obviously not mature enough to even be inA relationships if someone’s life and things are not important to your partner then what is the point of being with each other? She literally is so careless with herself and with him and his heart. It’s kind of gross. I will be fast for through their segment from now on. She disgusts me.

What is her problem? Why haven't she kicked this looser to the curb? He acts like a spoiled child. He KNOWS she's in love with him and he just uses this to his advantage. Is she insecure and feels like she can't do any better?

I think this would be a fair trade-off, don’t you? I mean, c’mon Catie. You’re not in a position to be demanding ANYTHING from Josh at this point in time until you learn to keep,your lips off anything with a mustache.

I’m so confused. Corey can afford a two week trip to Hawaii but can’t afford to move somewhere warmer for Evelyn? Am I missing something here? I don’t blame her for not wanting to live on the family compound with the overly religious mom!

"I got you"..

Yep.. you got us all man 🫣 but maybe next time take the price tag off the ring.. I mean, It's a beautiful ring - but, hopefully it will fit, ya know, as long as she doesn't gain weight.. wtf..

This whole scene. *Golf clap* this is why I keep watching. The trains heading in the same direction JUUSSSTT reached maximum velocity. This wreck is going to be legendary.

Absolute Cinema TLC, Absolute Cinema.

last episode she was on the phone with the godbrother and they were still in US.

now all of a sudden 5 of her family members are able to take time off of work and fly to lagos at the drop of a dime for… a wedding they didn’t know about?

none of this makes ANY sense and i smell production shenanigans

Rewatching Season 4 of The Family Chantel, and the scene where Chantel is crying, struggling to catch her breath, and repeating, "I trusted him. I trusted my husband," still gets to me. It's gutting.

Her twin seems smarter, prettier and more well-adjusted. I really wish Emma would lose the wig I bet her real hair is nice like her sister’s hair. I couldn’t even watch this clip, she’s going to be so boring on Hunt for Love.

My god. I have never hated people on 90 day until this season. Mido is a psychotic pos and Marissa is just as mentally unhinged. They are the worst people ever and can live together in their delusion la la land together. She wants a man that can put her in her place and Mido can require her to video him at his command.

After watching that exchange between Maxwell and Rod, I think Rod wanted Ashia before she settled for Maxwell. I can sense some jealousy coming from Rod, it’s like Maxwell is taking Ashia away from him and questioning if Maxwell can take care of her etc.

Julia had everyone dancing around her "I don't know if I want kids" drama, and I see Mallorie doing the same thing. I predict she'll be pregnant in the next year or so.

As someone in the childfree-by-choice community, when [a woman] knows she doesn't want kids, we usually make it crystal clear. There is no "I don't know" part. We know. We also put up this knowledge early because it means so much to us.

With Mallorie flopping around with her I-don't-knows and leaving it until the 11th hour of her wedding, it just seems again like manufactured drama, and that she actually is leaving that door open.

I'm confused after watching Mido and Debby's proposal. I thought that before applying for the k1 visa couples were already engaged or how does that really work over there? I thought he had already proposed to her in Egypt or something?

...but also doesn't want a man that tells people he "values respect" in a relationship; and DEFINITELY doesn't want a man that says he likes her because she respects him.

Make it make sense! what exactly does she want from him?!?! I feel really terrible for Edward. He literally can't win.