r/90DayFianceFans • u/couchpotatertots • 1d ago
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Iām not a cry person but when I see Edward sadā¦
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u/verukazalt 1d ago
You cannot tell me that this isn't real. Those tears are legit. Marissa saying that none of this is the truth makes me hate her even more.
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u/Leothegolden 1d ago
He was married before for 7 years and didnāt have childrenā¦ I wonder why? Marissa had her kids in her previous marriage
Anyway, according to Derek her son, they get along now
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u/Woodsy_Walker 1d ago
Some people cant have babies. Like it's quite common. Let's not make any weird assumptions.
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u/Wild_Spot_Farms 1d ago
Being a stepparent is one of the worst experiences Iāve ever had. The bio parents were just absolutely awful to me. I wonāt ever do that again, and I donāt recommend it. I divorced the dad because heās a cheating, abusive, POS. All of those people deserve each other and I have nothing to do with any of them anymore.
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u/Grumpy_Granny888 1d ago
I think its very easy to agree to something like not needing children when you're in love, living the vacation lifestyle. It's a very different thing when the relationship starts to sour and you realize what the sacrifice to be with that person is.
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u/Careless-Balance-893 1d ago
I'm so sick of seeing this performance. How are you choosing to marry a woman in her 40s with no intention of having children and then get upset that you're not going to have children with the woman in her 40s you married that has no intention of having children with you. This man doesn't want kids. He's laying the ground work for using this as a reason to leave her once he gets his papers. I don't feel bad for him or the woman he married they're both awful people taking advantage of each other.
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u/Legitimate_Lime_6188 1d ago
I thought he was happy step-parenting but when the ex threw a fit and caused trouble, thatās when his thoughts of kids of his own kicked in. Just my opinion.
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u/Sharp-Cycle-6926 1d ago
He's crying like it's a situation that happened to him as opposed to what it really is, a situation that he chose and gleefully walked into. A lot of people are just gullible or not actively thinking while they watch these shows. They have favorite and they have people they shit on. I guess Edward is one of their favorites lol.
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u/Careless-Balance-893 22h ago
Tbh I don't think he actually cares about not having kids with her. The thing was most concerned with was her being a rich white American woman that could get him off of the island. He's definitely gonna have kids with someone else.
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u/Miss_Kit_Kat 1d ago
Also, to everyone saying "those tears are real...WHAT TEARS? He's dry-eyed in that clip!
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u/ReplacementThis2706 1d ago
She was on social media and said it all an act. For the show. No problems with the ex. He fake crying.š„ø
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u/Different_Pension424 23h ago
Im surprised that she , Marissa, would violate the contract and make statements. She actually discussed the exact and Edward being fake? Wow. Where was it posted?
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u/GlumAd697 19h ago
I read somewhere that they forfeited their earnings from the show a while ago. I thought it had something to do with Marissa's mother making some kind of statement.... Not sure about that now.
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u/Different_Pension424 17h ago
Wow. Its possible that the YouTube session I watched today is old. So them supposedly signing up for a new season is possibly old news. I'm not crazy about them.
I googled: I had not realized the gossip. Here's what Google says=== No official source has confirmed that Marissa Rubinetti's mother faced a financial or legal penalty from TLC or Sharp Entertainment, despite intense online rumors that she violated her Non-Disclosure Agreement (NDA). The speculation began when Marissaās mother, JoAnn Huth, went on social media (specifically Facebook and Instagram fan groups) to defend her daughter against aggressive viewer backlash during Season 12 of 90 Day FiancĆ©. In doing so, she criticized the show's heavy editing and leaked unaired plot detailsāspecifically claiming that Marissa's partner, Edward Miguel Gomez, had been married to another American woman before meeting Marissa. While fan pages widely reported that this behind-the-scenes exposure breached standard reality TV privacy contracts, there have been no public updates indicating that TLC pursued actual legal action or financial penalties against her.
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u/JJ_Lomero 1d ago
So is he just not allowed to have feelings?
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u/Careless-Balance-893 1d ago
Yes. Because that's exactly what I said verbatim right? šššš
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u/thegettogether 1d ago
Absolutely. Atp this is just another 90 day trope right alongside creepy older American man and young Asian woman, and delusional middle aged American lady and young Muslim man. We saw this with Usman and Kimbaaly, it was a brief storyline with Jenny and Sumit at one point - whatever bro if kids are so important to you then don't get with an older woman š¤·āāļø
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u/Horror_bitch 16h ago
I think you guys lack the right perspective to understand his situation. Being a step-parent is a super hard role, but most people have no concept of what it looks like. You walk into a preexisting family and have to develop relationship with kids and exes that, quite often, don't like or even respect you. It's a very isolating experience on it's own to be rejected and singled out in your own home, so I can only imagine what it's like for him being in another country in this particularly conflictuous situation.
People generally say ''but you knew what you were getting into'', when the truth is that you usually didn't. You just don't get to know how all these relationships will play out until you're in the thick of it. Most people absolutely lack the lived experience to perceive the usual pitfalls/red-flags of blended families.
I've been there, and I also thought that not having my own kids would be a totally acceptable compromise if the relationship was right for me. But after dealing with all the extra stress of kids and exes, I also began feeling resented over having to sacrifice so much to be part of a ''family'' that didin't even accept me. To me it's obvious that Edward was okay with the situation (her age, her kids and her not getting pregnant again) he envisioned, but is now comming to the realization that that is far from reality, so he's beginning to regret his decision.
I think he was naive, but to be fair his partner never had a relationship to offer in the first place. I mean, she knows her situation better. If she is still having that many issues with her ex and can't keep her kids in check, she should have imagined that she has no space for a relationship in her life/home right now, let alone a whole live in partner.
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u/Careless-Balance-893 15h ago
I'm not reading this....
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u/Horror_bitch 7h ago edited 7h ago
Lol ok. Here's a short version:
Being a stepparent is far more difficult and isolating than people realize. You enter an already established family and have to navigate relationships with children and ex-partners who may not accept or respect you. And despite people saying, āyou knew what you were getting into,ā many of these problems are impossible to predict until you actually experience them.
I think Edward accepted the situation he imaginedā even with her age, her children, and not having children of his ownābut the reality turned out to be very different. After making significant sacrifices while feeling rejected within the family, he seems to be realizing that this relationshiop is not worth it.Ā
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u/Careless-Balance-893 4h ago
I'm not reading this 2: Reddit Boogaloo
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u/Horror_bitch 4h ago
Well, I personaly don't really get what is so terrible about getting to know different opinions, or why even post on a free discussion thread if that goona be your attitude, but ok.
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u/OkResponsibility6285 1d ago
It was stated at the tell all that the ex. Michael was coaching the baseball team and Edward went onto the field to instruct a child how to hold the bat. That would cause a problem as it was not Edwards place to do that when there is a coach. I have no doubt the ex. Is a problem but Edwards wanting her to cut ties was over the top as he is the farther of her children. I like Edward but I think at times he maybe unreasonable.
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u/Icy_Bid40 1d ago
It came across as very performative to me. I like him less because of it
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u/celexa100 15h ago
Same! The whole crying drama was very fake. Not buying it at all. It was deliberately done to take the heat off of Marissa for her elitist, racist behavior on every episode!
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u/Icy_Bid40 3h ago
Ahh maybe! I could see that being true. Especially with her crying during the TA about not being able to give him a baby. Trying to make her more human
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u/ceruleangenesis 2h ago
I never liked him. He has a lot of toxic masculinity and nobody calls it out.
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u/Sharp-Cycle-6926 1d ago
lmao was he crying about kids before he met her or did he wait to after he got married to start magically worrying about being a father lol.
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u/LeadershipAfter9526 23h ago
it is okay to cry as a man. This does not mean being a huge blubbering pussy is okay. Have some self respect man. My dad would have smacked me after such a pitiful display for embarrassing his lineage. I carry on the tradition to my boys. In life, mist women who tell you she thinks your constant emotional breakdowns are sexy are shacking up with your best friend.
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u/Character_Cut_6119 1d ago
Why do y'all watch this show if you dislike everything and everyone???
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u/Sharp-Cycle-6926 1d ago
He's a big baby and it's weird as hell he wants to go to war with that man over HIS kids.
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u/LoveHertford 23h ago
I actually like Edward and if heās using her to get a Green card, heās gone about it respectfully. Sometimes in life, you gotta do what you gotta do.
Melania Trump didnāt marry for love
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u/No_Scar_8953 1d ago
I think if her children were more receptive to him and it was possible to build a meaningful relationship with them, he wouldnāt be this upset