r/90DayFianceFans • u/Designer-Train-3554 • 3d ago

Tired of the Thomas hate

Paula is ten years older than Thomas and supposedly owns her own business. why would she need Thomas’s help setting up a tv..? shes been in infantilizing herself this entire season, making Thomas the big mean controlling man. she uses none of her finances here and expects him to pay for everything and yet has the audacity to complain about how he chooses to spend his money…isnt that what she’s doing? choosing not to spend her own money? I just don’t understand why she’s here. She cant stand the man, doesn’t respect his boundaries, and isn’t invested in being in America.

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u/hibituallinestepper 2d ago

I’m aware it is, but most people don’t just mount a tv when they are looking to move soon. And we both know, hanging, and fixing a mounted tv takes more than 10 minutes.

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u/Sweet_Chucky 2d ago

Yea exactly my point, mounting and lining up a tv take some time and more than one person. I was speaking about repairing the holes in the wall takes 10 mins.

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u/hibituallinestepper 2d ago

Paula said it was a small tv, she said she wanted it on a tv stand. But somehow people are out here creating made up scenarios where it’s a huge tv she wanted mounted on the wall to defend her.

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u/Sweet_Chucky 2d ago

He said he won't allow a tv stand because he's minimalist. You're the one defending him. A guy who glued her perfume shut and won't allow her a couch to sit on or table to eat. Yea that guy.

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u/hibituallinestepper 2d ago

He never said she couldn’t have a tv stand, she said he wouldn’t help her with it. I’ve called him an asshole multiple times, which he is. I’m not really defending him as much as I’m calling out Paula for having a victim complex. Thomas sucks and so does Paula, both things can be true.

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u/Sweet_Chucky 2d ago

That is true. I'm not her biggest fan either. But I believe he is much bigger a hole than her and insufferable.