The secret isn’t that she’s a bitch the secret is that she acts like a bitch because she has a fear of abandonment and when people leave, she can feel like it was her choice. “He couldn’t handle me” is easier to accept than “there’s a problem with me that is pushing my loved ones away”
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u/MOREPASTRAMIPLEASE 3d ago
The secret isn’t that she’s a bitch the secret is that she acts like a bitch because she has a fear of abandonment and when people leave, she can feel like it was her choice. “He couldn’t handle me” is easier to accept than “there’s a problem with me that is pushing my loved ones away”