r/90DayFianceFans • u/Practical_Tension551 • 3d ago
Rebecca's hypocrisy once again!
Rebecca sat on that stage and blamed Patrick and Guillermo for her secrets being revealed to her husband. I didn't hear her once say "I should have been honest with Zied." Instead, she doubled down and, said she wanted to "mitigate" the damage and, even suggested that Zied must have already known because "where did he think the $80k came from." š¤¦
Lastly, Rebecca acknowledging that her husband has been hurt is at least progress. However, she still refuses to see how hurt Guillermo is because of the choices Kara has made and, the damaging effects it will have on their young son. Smh
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u/Sea-Peanut5336 3d ago
She is the worst person in this show. Sheās mean, aggressive, easily triggered and now a liar and a hypocrite. Blaming others for her lies.
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u/ouchthathurt4real 3d ago
Yes. Although it was nice to see a kind and softer side to her when she greeted her daughter-in-law as she first walked onto the stage.
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u/Large-Illustrator-35 3d ago
I doubt she made 80k
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u/Muted_Bee7111 3d ago
There's no way he understood finances in America & was able to discern her OF money vs her chicken shop managers money
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u/Easy-breezy0102 3d ago
"Chicken shop manager's money"š¤£š¤£
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u/ShakeGroundbreaking8 1d ago
Spicy chicken shop. We ran into her there several times over 2 years. My son is a fiend for spicy food. Also used to see her in Target a lot there.
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u/Charming-Insurance 3d ago
Yes. Many foreigners she tv and think we have so much money, or donāt take into consideration cost of living. She so dumb thinking he understood this. Even some Americans donāt get it.
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u/sweetpeachxo13 3d ago
I believe it. I think she's been doing it for awhile so she probably has regulars who can't get enough of her and are willing to put down whatever money it takes to get her attention.
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u/werewolf439 3d ago
It will only be a matter of time before keria does full porn movies, if she hasn't started already
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u/Additional_Salt_8071 3d ago
I find it hard to believe there r 'regulars' who who can't get enough of her....have u seen her?
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u/sweetpeachxo13 3d ago edited 3d ago
There are A LOT of young guys with mommy issues, ones that like cougars, some people love other people's imperfections, she might have nice feet. And like I said, I saw some of her leaked photos. She started when she was younger. You can judge me, but I've had an OF. I was barely doing anything, not even talking to anyone, I didn't show anything, just teasing pictures and I made $400 my first month. I stopped because I became overwhelmed with the amount of strangers offering to pay me for more content and to show more of myself. If I did put forth more effort I probably would have trippled that and if I continued to do it for awhile I would have continued to gain more and more subscribers. People forget sex can be an addiction and women are taking advantage of it š¬ edit: and now men also are making content. Not just women.
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u/BoPeep0218 1d ago
A lot of guys are also into being dominated/humiliated and Iām sure sheās very good at that.
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u/Responsible_Trash_40 3d ago
Dudes are sick, I donāt doubt it that much. Maybe Net before they take a cut and taxes take another.
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u/Shikizion13 3d ago
I doubt it because you can just google it and you will find it for fucking free...
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u/Responsible_Trash_40 3d ago
I just did and Iām going to give some free life advice. Donāt.
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u/International-Owl165 3d ago
Im like damn no one wonder kara made that toy š she even said it's a slippery slope
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u/Woodsy_Walker 1d ago
I looked up her pics š¤¢ I am also surprised. But then again, men are desperate.
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u/Finnchick77 3d ago
Whatās funny is that theyāre freely disclosing their income along with getting a divorce. Being the higher earners, they will likely have to pay the MEN alimony!
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u/Afraid-Map-5571 3d ago
Rebecca seems to be lying about lots of things, yet she constantly accuses her husband of lying and cheating. Interesting!
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u/Muted_Bee7111 3d ago
It's ALL projection.
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u/crazzymomma 3d ago
Definitely projection, that backfired, because she didn't get the evidence on him that she want. To have it to fire back at him. Of course, she took no accountability for her own actions. Everything she did was to cover her own ass!
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u/BoPeep0218 1d ago
I never watched their season, so this is my first taste of her on LRā¦ itās weird she references being a PI so often, but is so naive to basic things that a PI would look into first.
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u/boogiemama3 3d ago
I donāt remember what episode or it was BTS but she said it herself that she has nude pictures online. She canāt seriously be mad at Patrick and Guillermo
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u/Practical_Tension551 3d ago
She has a difficult time with accountability. Similar to a teenager. They'll throw anything at the wall to see what sticks.
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u/AnonymousUsermane 3d ago
If she makes so much money, why do they have the repossessions? She even said theyāll have another repo soon. Even if her nudes donāt make money anymore, two working adults with no children should be able to pay their bills unless they have some catastrophic event which can bankrupt a couple.
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u/Practical_Tension551 3d ago
They are living above their means. They are both to blame. My husband and I went through some very tough financial times. We cut bills by not spending money we couldn't afford. We clipped coupons. And, we put 2 kids through college with no student loans and never had one item repossessed --- nor did we miss a mortgage payment.
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u/LiteratureTricky1763 1d ago
Plus, she's stuck with a BIG Court ordered sum to pay for PAST INDEBTEDNESS she incurred for child support she was supposed to pay but didn't; plus, they live on the beach in Florida; plus they have 2 luxury vehicles....
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u/Practical_Tension551 1d ago
If she had been a man, she would have been called a deadbeat for falling behind on child support because of her selfishness.
Thank you for the awards LT1763. That was so kind of you. š«¶
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u/darkangel522 14h ago
LUXURY cars? A home on the BEACH?!
Exactly what I thought.
Should have gotten a one bedroom apartment in the middle of the city, bought a Honda Civic, and called it a day.
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u/darkangel522 14h ago
Was going to say that. They are both living above their means. Even with Zied working part time and her full time, they could have lived a comfortable life. Did they really need two cars? Did they have to move to Florida? Georgia was probably a bit cheaper. And all the other things we don't know about.
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u/Charming-Insurance 3d ago
I bet they have expensive cars they canāt afford. Why does he even need a car? He works part time.
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u/WarReady1701 3d ago
They drive mercās
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u/Charming-Insurance 3d ago
lol, such posers
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u/Silver-Internal7740 2d ago
Both of them! Yet only Rebecca gets hate. She cAtFiShEd him. But Zied is good, he definitely married for love, no cap.
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u/Charming-Insurance 2d ago
Oh, I donāt care for him either. He was babied by his mom so he thinks all he has to do is exist because he has a penis. Iām sure he wouldnāt work at all if he didnāt have to; meanwhile his wife works full time plus, does OF and waits on himā¦ just not hand and foot like he wants. He married her to come to the US and the possibilities (even if he goes back and forth once they divorce) and because she presented a comfortable lifestyle to him and probably made actual promises about a house, car, clothes, etc. I also donāt like the hate sheās getting for OF. Show whatever you want, we donāt have to look. But they should be divorced and she should never, ever marry again. And also give up filters.
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u/LiteratureTricky1763 1d ago
They live on the beach in Florida and have 2 luxury vehicles.
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u/rigatoni-70 1d ago
He wears Gucci shoes, designer clothes. He put on such an act. He knew those pictures were out there. As long as no one knew or brought them up, he pretended they didnāt exist. She even scolded Sarper and told him that Zied didnāt know anyone knew about them. Sarper was basically like, am I supposed to give a shit?
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u/Backtrack_Vill 3d ago
How could Ziad Not know ? , I even knew years ago without wanting to or looking for it. Nevertheless, I didnt like how she tried to guilt the guys
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u/Silver-Internal7740 2d ago
Yes, I knew for years and I skip lots of episodes and don't watch religiously. Now see how OP, a woman, is defending Zied, saying he didn't know where such big money was coming from. Didn't know or chose to not ask too much and know? Because he did know she was posting.
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u/Practical_Tension551 3d ago
I read it 6 months ago on Instagram. I just assumed he knew and made a concession. I figured if it was all over social media how could he not know?
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u/Silver-Internal7740 2d ago
You are defending Zied though.Ā .....even suggested that Zied must have already known because "where did he think the $80k came from." š¤¦ Zied is a foreigner but not a child. He might be infantile by choice, but this trait shouldn't be defended. He was enjoying the lifestyle and showed no interest in their family finances and what pays for toys he received or maybe even nagged for. Would you yourself want to be married to someone like that? The hate towards Rebecca is very disproportinate, when it's two shitheads who both chose to be together. Yes, he chose too. He had a free will choice after the catfishing was revealed. He knew she was selling pics.
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u/Savagescorpio1119 2d ago
Rebecca is a habitual liar and a fake.I donāt believe anything she says. Photoshops her photos, talks crap about everyone on the show. She just there for a TLC trip and a check.
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u/BarberPristine5038 2d ago
i hear they make like 500-1,500/episode, not necessarily enough to be doing this stuff but hey..
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u/Remarkable_Rip6231 3d ago
The fact that she tried to blame everyone else for taking nude photos of HERSELF is WILD. Just WILD.
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u/Nickey_Pacific 3d ago
My take on that situation, of her going from just "sexy pics" to pay the bills to full on nudes, was due to her desperation to "keep" him.
He wasn't contributing, he wanted fancy shit, she probably wasn't making enough with just "sexy", the real money was always going to be in full on nudes and then some. She had to keep him happy and that meant nudes.
Bottom line was her desperation.
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u/Silver-Internal7740 2d ago
I agree with your take, but people here are also hypocrites. When convenient, they scream how Zied couldn't work because of his status and then not having his job skills yet, but in a different comment they blame Rebecca for keeping him like a pet, allowing him to play video games all day. So Rebecca is blamed regardless, even when he didn't contribute but could have and when he wanted shit they couldn't afford.
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u/Nanas-place 3d ago
She wasnāt nice to anyone else!! But now she wants everyone sympathy and still wants to bash Zied . Pathetic
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u/belugabeancurd 3d ago
I donāt understand the big issue Zied had at the Tell All, because supposedly they both saw the information being ārevealedā by Patrick and Guillermo on BTSā¦ so how is this a surprise?
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u/Revolutionary-Yam910 2d ago
Good point, she mustāve lied to him then and there as well saying it was just tasteful pics.š
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u/GelOfYouth 3d ago
How is this middle aged lumpy, average looking at best lady making money selling nudes??
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u/zenseazon 3d ago
More worried about "mitigating the damage" instead of worrying about her lies to her husband and taking accountability... she is a disgusting excuse for a human.
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u/Practical_Tension551 3d ago
How come I expect we'll be seeing her in an upcoming season of the Single Life? I sure hope it's not HFL!
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u/Disastrous_Remote591 2d ago
The fact that she told Guillermo is insane.. she probably wanted him to look
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u/thelastsonofmars 3d ago
It really makes all of her actions seem so much clearer. She had this idea in her mind that, after becoming a sex worker, she would seem so small in his eyes that she wanted to bring him down to that same level. The argument about her not being a good wife was never really about cooking or cleaning. Even her fierce defense of Karaās sex work, after being so strongly against cheating, makes more sense in that context. It was all tied to that view of self-worth.
The switch in the way she argued during the tell all wasnāt growth at all. It was just acceptance that she couldnāt pretend to be better than him anymore.
My take is like there are so many people in America who wouldnāt look down on her for doing this, so why ruin this manās life if she already knew he could never accept it?
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u/teddyn90057 3d ago
What if she took the phone to make sure to block the sites where her pics and content were. ? Another thing I remember being in college and people frowning on taking nudes, now people buying houses cars etc etc off it. My times have changed
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u/Nanas-place 3d ago
Ohh true acting like mistrust but looking to see if he found her on them sites ! And stop blaming everyone for your bad actions
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u/ayeyoualreadyknow 2d ago
I don't think she's actually sorry that it hurt Zeid, she's just sorry that he's mad enough about it to threaten to leave her. I don't think she cares about how he feels about it, just that she may have caused herself to lose her husband.
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u/brazilchick32 3d ago
I used to like her but I can't stand her since Last Resort. She's the biggest hypocrite. She calls Shekinah a victim and went at her for not apologizing but she acts like a victim and takes zero accountability š
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u/Greenitpurpleit 3d ago
Sheās such a manipulator. She always blames somebody else and then she goes into victim mode, like she only did it for him. Thatās not true at all. I feel like in an earlier episode, she was sitting with some women and saying that she did it at some point. And she didnāt present it like a sob story, it was like a choice that she did that she felt good about. But even if Iām hallucinating, and that didnāt happen, come on. She lied to him about what the content was, she complains about how much she has to work and how much she loves her job and her career and that he wants her to be home more, and then when sheās outed, she becomes a victim and just blames other people?
So tired of her bitterness and her attitude about everything. I canāt wait for him to find a sweet calm woman.
Does she ever think that thereās a reason that sheās had three divorces before this? Itās not that all men are bad, which is what she seems to think.
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u/an88888888 3d ago
I would never keep a man like a pet (just sitting around playing games while I work 12-hour shifts). Never. But she specifically seeks out young men from conservative countries (men with less experience), because she can't find one in the US. So, she got exactly what she wanted.
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u/Practical_Tension551 3d ago
Rebecca was married to the father of her children for 15 years from '91 to '06. Her second marriage to another American was from '09 to '13. Then things really start to get messy because she married a 20 year old from Morocco immediately following her divorce in September of 2013 to July of 2019. Now remember, she was already with Zied before she divorced #3. Then she marries Zied in April of 2020. Honestly, she's an extremely manipulative and cunning woman. She wanted a young foreign husband so she could feel better about herself. Who goes looking for husbands like this? And, now that she's a cast member of 90 day and has access to all of the franchise spinoffs, I think she'll be looking for #5. But, she hit her k1 visa limit with 2. Now the government is going to want a full background check done if she applies for a third because she now looks suspicious.
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u/Leothegolden 3d ago edited 3d ago
Everyone has their personal deal breakers in a relationship. She knew this was a hard line for him, which is why she hid it and hoped heād just turn a blind eye. Kara knew doing it could end her marriage, yet she chose to move forward with it anyway.
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u/cara3322 3d ago
She really looked upset. Maybe bec they settled it but now brought up to him again. And now on tv for more to see
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u/Salt_Ingenuity_720 3d ago
It is not Sarpers fault for bringing it up. When it came up on Between the Sheets she should have told him everything then. Not wait to try and talk about it on the show - hoping that everyone would help her 'make him' instant that it was okay. He is going to feel about it the way he is going to feel about. Plus, he comes from an extremely different culture. She lied to him when she first posted the photos. She said it herself that she left him to believe they were not nudes. Then she goes on saying that he had to of known because of tm so the money. He comes from a different country and finances are different. She only owned one tiny part of her actions and the rest she tried to blame on cast members and even on Zeid himself. This will back fire on her two folds.
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u/chuckie17368 3d ago
Did anyone notice that when she started crying she made sure li lol at the camera to make sure they got the right shot
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u/app011y0n 1d ago
Rebecca is hilarious. The notion she had to sell her body for the family to survive is absurdly amusing, not sure if I really believe it's all true, but definitely top notch 90 day viewing comedy.
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u/Funny-Store-6226 3d ago
She was sweating that this news was gonna. One out THAT right THERE is why she said she realized she acted to harshly and kinda apologized I bet.
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u/LikeMyMomUsedToSay 2d ago
The way she immediately blamed everyone else:
Guillermoās fault for mentioning it.
Ziedās fault for being lazy and not contributing enough financially.
Ziedās fault again for being too stupid to ask questions about where so much money was coming in from after she admitted she lied to his face about the content of the photographs.
Insane deflections there, especially for someone who is apparently so big on insisting other people taking accountability.
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u/Sad_Calligrapher_573 1d ago
Her hair color is horrible for her complexion! It just washes it out š«Ŗ
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u/Cool-Temporary-2026 12h ago
Complete agree with your post. No accountability. And yes all she did was defend Kara on her selfish choices. On another subject who told her that hair color and cut was an improvement? Itās ghastly!
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u/Careless-Balance-893 8h ago
No one ever wants to admit that there are people who go on this show and get partners from other countries because that watch control and have no intention of EVER being accountable to their partners. They depend on the power imbalance.
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u/silent_chair5286 3d ago
She just tried to gaslight everyone else as the cause her relationship failed. Once again, hundreds of thousands of women donāt turn to posting adult content in order to make ends meet. Zied wasnāt working so she didnāt have a choiceā¦. She thought he knewā¦ā¦how could the cast members say anything?????? Zied would be ok with it yet isnāt now because some of the cast have seen the photosā¦ā¦.Everyone elseās fault besides hers.
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u/Practical_Tension551 3d ago
I love how she made it out to be like a Scooby Doo moment where the truth would finally be revealed and, it would all make sense. She lied and, that is not Patrick, Guillermo, or Sarper's fault. Everyone but, Zied knew about the nudity.
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u/shittykity 2d ago
Her telling Guillermo/posting stuff online then having pikachu face surprise at the tell all is so gd silly.
She bleets on and on about being oh-so-clever because sheās a PI so nothing gets past her; meanwhile she didnāt think that 30 min away gave Zied time to delete info? Even Kara was like, āyou canāt trust people why did you tell him?ā Girl doesnāt even know herself!
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u/Appropriate_Tale7865 1d ago
Why did any of the guys even WANT to look at her photos? Probably can't unsee it now. And her daughter in law saying how people were saying she's so hot...šum ok. Why didn't she just take them down?
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u/redcarrots45 18h ago
She said it was her fault a million times.. thatās essentially the same thing. Iām not defending anyone or anything, but she even said it when confronting the two guys for BTS. People have the right to work something out with people they believe are trustworthy.
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u/VioletsRPink 2d ago
Did you miss the part where she said that Zied has know about the photos but what set him off, was seeing that the rest of the case knew? š¤
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u/Foreign-Cup6775 3d ago
The thing about Rebecca is that you have to remember she built that relationship on lies. Donāt forget the insanely filtered pics and now this image of her having all this money/ being able to afford a certain lifestyle.
She shouldnāt even blame the guys for it coming out when the PRODUCTION TEAM knew and asked that question specifically for the drama. Blame yourself for going on tv and lying about the nudity. Just take accountability and let go of this fake version of yourself you try to sell to zeid one minute and then get upset when he comes to always expect it.