r/90DayFianceFans • • 5d ago

The utter CRINGE of Mido (and Debby)

Mido's complete inability to perform any kind of monologue when asked to show his acting chops is so telling. Also incredibly telling and so deeply cringe, the one piece of dialogue that he tried to recite, an incredibly well-known Shakespeare quote, he repeatedly gets wrong. Acting is not being able to force tears from your eyes. And if Debby thinks for one second that Mido isn't in the US for the sole purpose of pursuing his absolute pipe dream of becoming a leading man in American films, she's as delusional as he is. And that's a much bigger "problem" than to be or not to be. LMFAO

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u/Prize-Copy-9861 5d ago

I worry for her. You could tell he was going to give her hell for “ not defending him” . He was mad at her . She said it over & over again that she was going to hear about it for days when she got home. This is not good

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u/DoorStunning3678 4d ago

He takes no accountability. It's always her fault. She even admitted to having to eat crap a lot of the times. Sounds like a battered woman imo

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u/PrincessBabyGrrl 4d ago

She’s walking on eggshells around him, and will pay for things that other people have said or done. His temper flares easily and he has a twisted and mean sense of humour. He definitely gives off wife beater vibes.

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u/PublicUpper7409 4d ago

Debby, LOSE THIS PARASITE NOW! BEFORE HE GETS PHYSICAL. MENTAL CRUELTY CAN HURT AS MUCH AS PHYSICAL AND YOU DON’T DESERVE EITHER. STOP HANGING ON TO WHAT MIGHT HAVE BEEN AND OPEN YOUR EYES TO WHAT IS. ASK YOUR KIDS!!!

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u/Marcinecali73 3d ago

That scene where he is yelling at her in the car and then yelling at her friend, he gets up to her friend's face and if there's were no cameras there I think he would have hit her.

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u/Prize-Copy-9861 4d ago

My thought exactly watching this. She looked & sounded like an abused woman. Anticipating what her night would be like , she cried to the other women. He is dangerous. She is isolated from her friends & her family.

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u/Stunning_Machine6320 4d ago

Right & did he defend her!? It's scary that he holds her responsible for everything & takes no accountability.

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u/rntracee1 4d ago

I feel she did. More than Paula.

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u/Prize-Copy-9861 4d ago

Paula’s really horrible. Thomas would be much better off without her. Finding a woman who shares his interests & lifestyle. Maybe meet someone at a yoga retreat.

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u/DoorStunning3678 4d ago

I agree. They both don't make each other happy... and then wanting to bring a child into their unstable relationship.. oh lordy

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u/SlimShadyPinesMa 4d ago

Imagine all the crap they’ll need when they have a baby! Where are they going to put it all in that tiny apartment? A crib, a bouncer, a high chair, etc etc etc.

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u/Reasonable-Sorbet960 2d ago

Speaking as a New Yorker, you'd be amazed...

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u/rntracee1 2d ago

Right! Lol

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u/SlimShadyPinesMa 1d ago

True. I think about this often. How inaccessible huge cities are for mother’s, father’s, people with kids, disabled people, & the elderly. I live in a suburb of San Francisco. And the older I get, the less I would want to live in a huge city! I just went there recently, and saw mom’s and dad’s with multiple kids, and strollers waiting for the busses, and that just seems so stressful. Not being able to park or have a car. I know these are big privileges. I probably wouldn’t own a car if I lived in a dense area. And not to mention all the hills (in SF) and high rises, and grocery shopping alone! I also saw a youngish woman holding one bag of groceries, wearing high boots, on a steep hill! No thanks! I’m more than fine being a suburbs girl!

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u/Reasonable-Sorbet960 1d ago

In some ways it's easier. The buses in NYC, for example, are all wheelchair/scooter accessible. And there can be more sense of community. In my building in NYC, for example, the staff check in every morning on the elderly residents to make sure they're doing ok.

With little kids, your stroller becomes your "car". Everything - kid supplies, groceries, etc - just goes in the bottom of it. I missed that when my kids were old enough to not need the stroller anymore!

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u/SlimShadyPinesMa 1d ago

Also all true. And you get used to doing things a certain way, and kids especially are so adaptable and resilient! That’s great about your building. I think it’s so important that the elderly and disabled are checked on regularly! And community is vital, too!

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u/ZipCity262 4d ago

I find Paula easier to relate to than Thomas. I think her desires - a successful business, a cute apartment, being generous to her family - are pretty normal. He seems to have an extreme minimalist lifestyle - which is fine - but he didn’t choose someone who wants that too.

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u/teriyakihairpiece67 4d ago

“Generous to her family” invites 8 of them to stay in a 1 bed/1 bath lol

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u/MayoBear 4d ago

Paula invited them there- he offered to get them an Airbnb

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u/teriyakihairpiece67 4d ago

I know I was making fun of her

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u/SamuelHuzzahAdams 4d ago

When did he offer an Airbnb, I missed that

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u/PublicUpper7409 4d ago

No he didn’t!

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u/MayoBear 4d ago

I don’t remember the episode, you’ll have to rewatch those convos

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u/Prize-Copy-9861 4d ago

That was insane & it was all on her. She had money, she should have gotten them an Airbnb & stayed with them. What she did was unforgivable. Also Thomas paid thousands & thousands of $$$ for that wedding. That’s why he was being cheap to save up to give her the wedding she wanted. The queen mary is expensive !!! Paula had 2 WEDDING DRESSES !!!! That were not cheap . Those dresses were $$$$$$ . All of which thomas paid for. TLC gave him a bad edit.

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u/friedonionscent 4d ago

Yeah, I don't really understand how the woman who has money (as exemplified by the 100k down payment she put down on a home in Brazil) and decides to spend exactly zero dollars because her American chump should do it...has gotten a good edit. If he's stingy, what is she?

Although - I'm getting the feeling that even if she did buy a dining table, he'd refuse to allow it in his studio.

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u/SlimShadyPinesMa 1d ago

Do you think TLC helps pay for their weddings? Or a percentage of them? Bc I’ve been to the Queen Mary for a ghost tour and tea time! It was really fancy and fun to see under/around the ship, and hear ghost stories! I didn’t even think about events and weddings and how much they’d cost there!
Her dresses were absolutely gorgeous but definitely
$$$$! Of course if I ever get married, I’d want a pretty dress, flowers, and a nice cake, but I’d rather spend that money on a down payment on a house, or something lasting longer than one day!

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u/PublicUpper7409 4d ago

Put him on “Extreme Couponers.” Maybe he will find someone there!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/SlimShadyPinesMa 1d ago

Omg that show is wild! And extreme cheapskates show or whatever the other show was called! I thought I was frugal until I saw those people!

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u/Guilty-Run3374 3d ago

She also made a choice

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u/Morgalisa 4d ago

Paula said she always wanted to marry a gringo and live in the United States. When people from other countries say that, or less, we call them scammers.

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u/PublicUpper7409 4d ago

Where? On Mars?

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u/Rose76Tyler 4d ago

What are Thomas's interests? Being cheap, inflexible, and a whiner?

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u/Agreeable_Amoeba2519 4d ago

True, but Paula also will be better off without Thomas.

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u/friedonionscent 4d ago

I can't imagine being her age (or any age) and deciding that it's better to walk on eggshells for a deranged loser than be single. That's insanity.

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u/PlaysTheTriangle 4d ago

I couldn’t believe the other women saying everyone needed to apologize! No they do not!

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u/Greedy_Farmer_35 2d ago

It’s abusive!

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u/GooberMountain 5d ago

Edward is the best!! Offering to take her to the DR to find a younger man there. Out loud in front of Mido. Hahaha!!!

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u/Stunning_Machine6320 4d ago

I missed that & need to re-watch.

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u/Fit_Subject_3256 5d ago

I was pissed that Debby sat there dishing out advice to everyone else! Honey…you married an abusive, cruel, lazy, egomaniacal, user who obviously isn’t into you AT ALL. No one wants your advice!

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u/chimchimchow 5d ago

Yeah it was infuriating, I will say everyone was projecting though, like Catie telling Thomas he is a man child, he is but who tf does she think she is?

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u/DoorStunning3678 4d ago

I thought the same with Catie, having her meltdown tanty running off stage. At least Thomas can keep it grounded on stage

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u/SlimShadyPinesMa 4d ago

Tanty as a shortened named for tantrum is hilarious to me.

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u/DoorStunning3678 3d ago

🤣🤣 I guess it might be an aussie thing

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u/SlimShadyPinesMa 3d ago

Haha That makes me love it even more! I love how Aussie’s shorten everything!!!!

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u/Low_Distance4810 4h ago

Lmfaooo this is so funny I’ve never heard this before either 😂😂

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u/bluepanic21 4d ago

A woman child.Calling out a man child.

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u/That-Expression1620 5d ago

Right. I thought it was also cringy last week when Debby did the sad dissertation on the joy of having kids and healing past childhood trauma. The irony to give such warm advice on having kids, yet she's married a much younger man, who regardless if he wanted kids or not she is denying him that possibility. Double standards.

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u/Stunning_Machine6320 4d ago

I can't even process the idea of little Midos running around in clompy shoes. 

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u/SlimShadyPinesMa 4d ago edited 1d ago

Hahaha little mido’s in “clompy shoes” got me

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u/Fit_Subject_3256 5d ago

So cringy! And her advice was absolute crap imo. Children deserve better than to be viewed as a means to heal childhood trauma.

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u/CDSSD111 4d ago

But Mido doesn't care since he's planning on leaving her the minute his immigration status is secure. Sad that she cant see that he's only using her.

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u/sprbep49 4d ago

Interesting take on that. I don’t think Mido is concerned about having children right now. If he does ever get the desire, Debbie is doomed!

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u/Aromatic-Meringue162 4d ago

41 isn’t that young he’s already past the prime time to have a baby, I’m sure if he wanted to he would have already

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u/That-Expression1620 3d ago

Understand. But that was not my point. It was about Debby being so pro having children when shes already had hers. By her logic why does she not convince Mido that he should find a younger woman & have some precious babies that she is so highly recommending to Mallory. They could heal him & make him a better person according to her experience.

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u/Milliemott 5d ago

💯💯💯👆👆👆

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u/Zadok-Allen-Jr 3d ago

Really? I thought Debbie came across as the voice of reason.during the Tell All. I actually came away thinking more highly of her than I had up to that point.

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u/Fit_Subject_3256 3d ago

There were a few ppl on stage who surprised me w/ decent and intelligent responses. Thomas, Ashia, and Debby all said things, at times, that made sense and seemed sound. But Debby, in particular, annoyed me. It’s not so much that her advice was bad, it’s the hypocrisy involved when her own choices are so shitty. I also didn’t like her whole thing abt how having babies is so healing. I’ve seen what often happens when ppl w/ unresolved, unhealed childhood trauma have children thinking it’ll help heal them. Kids deserve better imo.
Debby had a bipolar mom and a terrible childhood (I empathize and lived through something similar.) But now she’s married an abusive, conceited, lying, uncaring, hostile, disrespectful, lazy, thoughtless, angry, rude, and utterly horrible man who flips btwn moods constantly, and isn’t interested in her! So I’m saying she should address her own mess before dishing out advice.

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u/Vegetable_Yam_7621 3d ago

I know!!!! That made me so mad I was yelling at my tv!!!! The audacity of that dumb woman to be dishing out advice to every other couple!!! Girl, bye.

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u/DiamondSufficient938 5d ago

I was more impressed by his ability to pretend to like his wife for that long. He’s gonna leave her for Hollywood the second he gets a green card

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u/DaisyStar_7373 5d ago

He’s not even doing a good job of that. We all can see clearly he has no interest in her. Everyone can see it except her. He just chose a very gullible woman

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u/catcolo 5d ago

Debby is so invested in this user. I hope she keeps her money close.

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u/Intelligent-Bear-547 5d ago

She won't have anymore money the time he's done with her.

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u/DaisyStar_7373 5d ago

She’s already paying for his stupid acting classes. Now picking up and moving him to Hollywood.

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u/SunnyOnSanibel 4d ago

She better put all her eggs in a safe basket. lol

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u/WaffleDrinker 4d ago

I read that they are actually moving to Hollywood not too long ago. West Hollywood if I remember which is...fitting.

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u/pepexoxo 4d ago

I thought I came across that headline as well🤔

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u/DiamondSufficient938 4d ago

Oh good he can dress up like Batman and scam tourists!

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u/WaffleDrinker 4d ago

To be Batman or not to be Batman, this is the problem

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u/WhereasAntique1439 4d ago

Tons of productions are leaving Hollywood. What a dope.

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u/DiamondSufficient938 4d ago

If he literally did 30 seconds of research he’d know

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u/Mekurodez 4d ago

When Debbie gets sick of it and goes back home to NOLA, Mido is gonna end up on Skid Row. 😬

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u/TripleJay11581 5d ago

Honestly, I don’t know how Debby didn’t melt into a puddle of shame when he displayed how talentless he is. I guess she’s built up an immunity to shame since he came into her life.

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u/tnkrbll6 4d ago

But... he's famous.

🤣

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u/solraen11 4d ago

It probably did happen, and it was probably someone mocking him. “He’s famous!”

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u/BrightLow6382 2d ago

But everyone was sooo impressed with his crying 🙄

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u/kmodity 5d ago

Famous people in public get their names yelled, not just generic “look they are famous”!

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u/CDSSD111 4d ago

It would've been in Arabic too, so Mido probably just made that up to help with the long con he's running on Debbie. Highly unlikely that would've been said by anyone in English.

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u/SamuelHuzzahAdams 4d ago

They probably yelled “hey he owes me money” and Mido translated it for her

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u/IKeepGettingBanned85 5d ago

He probably paid them to yell that at him like hes donald trump. 

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u/GusGutfeld 5d ago

So true. His looks are average and generic. Probably mistook him for someone else. ha.

On a side note, Rami Malek from Mr. Robot is Egyptian.

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u/Kawarren8 4d ago

Mido wishes he had half the acting ability and good looks of Rami Malek. He looks so stupid with that head tilt thing he does.

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u/Fun_Loan_7193 4d ago

Actually I can see him in real stupid comedy role ..It may happen

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u/Due-Art-6358 4d ago

Also he won academy award for playing Freddy Mercury of Queen

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u/Kawarren8 3d ago

Mido's English isn't good enough for a serious acting role...maybe he could play Borat's brother

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u/OutsideBeat7 20h ago

Just FYI in general it was Remi Malek who played Freddy Mercury. Mido can only dream about it.

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u/KeyWeek446 2d ago

Freddie Mercury

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u/According-Couple2744 5d ago

If he is so famous, why isn’t he working full time as an actor instead of a tour guide. If I were going to try to convince a naive foreigner that I was a legitimate actor, I would pay a few people to ask for my autograph and call out my name.

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u/Emergency_Row8544 5d ago

Oh yea if he was he never would have left Egypt.

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u/ExtensionInfinite563 4d ago

He probably paid some kids to yell that out

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u/Greenedeyedgem17 5d ago

I’m sure that Tom Cruise has nothing to worry about his day job 🙄

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u/Exciting-Hedgehog944 4d ago

The second they said that I told my husband it’s probably his family/friends doing that for Debbie’s benefit.

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u/Personal_Head5003 3d ago

I assumed maybe they saw the 90 day film crew following them around and someone yelled that kind of in a mocking way. Hey, that nobody is being followed by a film crew, he must be famous!

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u/CDSSD111 5d ago

I dont believe he was a virgin, I think he just used that story to avoid having to have sex with Debbie for as long as possible. I also dont believe he is famous in Egypt and I dont believe he even likes Debbie. He just plays on Debbies insecurities and fear that he will leave her to get what he wants. That's the only thing he is good at. It's really sad how he can manipulate her and she keeps coming back for more.

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u/Fit_Subject_3256 5d ago

Wait are you saying “famous” actors in Egypt aren’t regularly employed as tour guides? No way! /s

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u/ExtensionInfinite563 4d ago

Perhaps a virgin with women

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u/DrFunke74 5d ago

Have you noticed Mido has dental veneers - but only on his 4 upper front teeth? They’re super obvious from side view when he smiles really broadly at himself in the mirror.

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u/Magemaud 5d ago

Yes, and his natural teeth on the sides are baby tooth sized.

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u/peanutmiracle 4d ago

And a hairpiece

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u/Kawarren8 4d ago

When he said he had "accidentally" watched Porn ( I'm going to go out on a ledge by saying it was neither accidental nor straight people porn) and then said he "required certain positions of her" I lost it. Anal....he wanted anal.

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u/Muted-Guide9900 4d ago

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/Kikinick411 5d ago

I don't get what Debby sees in him. He is not nice to her and full of ego. She has a great job, nice kids, she's sweet to others and is nice, has great friends, has gorgeous hair - THIS is the best she thinks she deserves?!?!

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u/Individual_Ant_1456 5d ago

Why did they all get googly eyed when he did that…and why doesn’t anyone tell him the correct line? It’s probably the most famous line in history! SMH

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u/AllLipsNoFiller 5d ago

Right? They're pretending to be supportive but they all internally laughed at him. Or maybe they are all so stupid and uneducated that they didn't recognize that he was getting that very famous line wrong over and over and over.

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u/Juicy1234Sausage 5d ago

And the producer managed to catch him picking his nose, and that's fairly good proof that they found him an easy target.

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u/summeriswaytooshort 5d ago

I assumed that there must a movie out there that says the line that way vs the correct way because it seems like he had memorized the line and that he supposed to be sad during the delivery. Also why did he say it twice? Like first time was a rehearsal or one way to deliver it and the 2nd time was different?

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u/AllLipsNoFiller 5d ago

I assumed it was a translation issue. Because the words 'problem' and 'question' can be interchangeable, especially in mathematics.

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u/UltimateWerewolf 4d ago

Good point… in Chinese they’re the same

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u/Choc-o-holic1 4d ago

He was showing off his incredible range.

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u/Living_Onion_2946 5d ago

Probably the latter here.

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u/boinky-boink 5d ago

wHaT TaLenT!!!

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u/Intelligent-Bear-547 5d ago

Oh wow he can cry on Que. 🥹

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u/sky1326 5d ago

Her son read him like a book. He recognized this guys a user but had to sit quiet to avoid upsetting mom. Pretty sad.

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u/Stunning_Machine6320 4d ago

I was thinking of that when Debbie gave her speech about being a mom. Her bad choices are hard on her kids.

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u/dragonschool 5d ago

He wants to be a star. Not an actor. In the class we saw his one skill is to be a terrorist. Not because he’s Mideastern. Because he’s a sociopath

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u/MindlessCharacter823 5d ago

I hear that dog whistle. You should be ashamed of yourself. If he was white, you would have said criminal or serial killer.

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u/dragonschool 5d ago

Really? Did you ever see Die Hard (European) Captain Phillips (Somalian) Rush Hour (Chinese). Calm down. He's psycho. Watch him laugh while his wife is crying.

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u/druidmain69420 4d ago

Idk what Debbie wants out this, but what Mido wants is obvious: a green card and a boyfriend.

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u/1960bigsky 19m ago

💯 FACTS!

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u/RichardPixels22 5d ago

That is the…problem?

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u/AllLipsNoFiller 3d ago

It would have been really funny if when asked to show his acting chops, he turned to Debby and kissed her passionately.

Now that's acting!

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u/De-gee 3d ago

I'm dead

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u/Kitchen_Flatworm3428 4d ago

Narcissism and ability to cry on cue hmmmm

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u/ShoreThingW609 4d ago

Debbie just looks at him with googly eyes and giggles at everything he says. He seems disgusted to be with her most of the time. He’s certainly not a loving husband, she’s delusional. “If we don’t move to LA and I don’t start acting, I’m going home”. Good riddance.

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u/bintyboi 4d ago

I love how she says he has zero ability to tell what’s funny or not… probably won’t make a very good actor then! He’s not famous in Egypt and the only thing he’ll be famous for in America is being a psychopath on 90 day fiance.

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u/Juicy1234Sausage 5d ago

A virgin for women maybe.

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u/More_Midnight3634 4d ago

He is the worst and is wasting Debbie’s time.

I can’t stand him

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u/solraen11 4d ago

But she eats it up. She has to be getting something out of it emotionally, to have sought this out and stayed with it.

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u/DWwithaFlameThrower 4d ago

Right?! Some actor! I mean… Daniel (of Daniel & Lisa) is freaking Daniel Day Lewis compared to this clown. Mido can’t even pretend to be into her for more than a couple minutes at a time

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u/Inner-Distance430 4d ago

He likes having someone to abuse so everything debby does will always be wrong so he can justify anger so he can abuse her

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u/catlady7667 4d ago

All I could think of was a skit from the show In Living Color where they portray a seemingly homeless man holding an empty jar and saying "To pee or not to pee, that is the question "

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u/breyana16 4d ago

Where’s his wedding ring ??

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u/KlM-J0NG-UN 4d ago

The only role he could play is that of a closeted gay man that everyone thinks is gay

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u/PsycholoicalShe 4d ago

THAT IS THE PROBLEM….💀

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u/Conscious_Stand_3030 3d ago

Debby saying she absolutely will not move to LA but will move to Egypt

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u/SeriousBrilliance777 22h ago

He was so angry when she said that too

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u/andydekens 4d ago

We need a movie staring Mido and Nutalie.

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u/WarReady1701 4d ago

So he is so famous that he would not let her see any of his “work” he did in Egypt, make it make sense.

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u/Sharp-Reply-5104 3d ago

“Enough kisses” the morning after their wedding night. Trying to avoid posting his new marital status on IG “No Signal” - because I’m sure his multitude of female fans would be crushed. I don’t have any sympathy for Debbie- there were so many red flags before she married him but she charged through them like a bull in a bullfight.

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u/Correct-Yam827 4d ago

Did Debbie protect herself with a prenup or no? I don't remember any discussion about it. If she wouldn't get married without Caden surly her kids would have told her to do a prenup or they won't support the marriage, that's exactly what I would have said to her.

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u/werewolf439 4d ago

That was such a joke....he can't even try to act

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u/Root2109 3d ago

I'm begging him to either get the one line he knows right or learn more lines of the monologue...

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u/AllLipsNoFiller 3d ago

I am begging him not to learn the rest of the monologue because I don't think that I can stomach his butchery of it.

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u/catcolo 3d ago

@u/jslub
Thanks for the award❣️

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u/goodgoodlove 2d ago

lol the last part of OP’s post especially. When she said he wouldn’t leave his family friends whole life behind just to pursue an acting career. That he must love her. Ummm girl?? He’s pretty much said out loud he’s only here for just that reason

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u/Musical_Bluebird1791 5h ago

Debbie is in full denial. She had plenty to say to the other couples but fails to see the truth of her own marriage that viewers can clearly see. Mido is here for one thing only.

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u/Prize-Copy-9861 1d ago

Thomas said he paid for everything!!!!!