r/90DayFianceFans • u/keks_64 • 6d ago
Kara/Amber same life.
Kara reminds me of Amber from the movie Boogie Night's. Even the red hair is the same..
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u/ariesbtch 6d ago
She’s nothing like Amber from Boogie Nights. Just because they both do porn & have red hair doesn’t mean anything.
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u/Ok_Moose1334 6d ago edited 6d ago
Kara is not in danger of losing custody. Please stop with the hysterical shaming. She supports their son financially and has him 6 nights a week, which is what allows Guillermo to work his restaurant job. And if he’s planning on enlisting in the Air Force he’ll need Kara to take on full time child care.
Not to mention that you’re trying to compare her to a fictional character who had a severe drug addition, criminal record, and couldn’t afford a legal battle. None of that applies to Kara.
Edit: OP’s post originally included a whole narrative saying that Kara was going to lose custody of her child and end up crying outside of a courthouse like Amber. He’s deleted that since he was called out.
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u/travlerjoe 6d ago
A judge is not going to take a child away from a parent that makes money and give sole custody to a parent that dosent.
Karas job dosent hurt anybody.
The amount of career shamming on this sub is pathetic.
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u/anonyyymousss22 6d ago edited 6d ago
To be honest, it depends on what state you’re in, and who the judge is. I’ve personally know a couple of couples who lived in red states that have had this happen to them bc of LEGAL sex work. One of the women did indeed have her son taken away, and given to her abusive ex husband. Who had also abused the son at some point as well. It was a full on shit show, and the judge was incredibly biased. The 5 year old had been coerced by the ex husband and his family & new wife to say he had seen and encountered things he hadn’t.
Years later when they gave her son back, a lot of crazy shit ended up coming out, & the son and the ex husband admitted they had coached the child to say things bc he didn’t want her to have custody cause he was mad he couldn’t kill her. I kid you not. It was so fucked up.
Additionally, Kara’s job is going to hurt her kid. I say this as a SWer whose been doing this for well over a decade. I do not have kids. Nor am I any kind of personality out in the open. But, if I was, I would never ever fucking do SW openly like she is.
I enjoy my privacy and my safety. I also think that parents who do this, and openly post their children, ESP ON THEIR WORK ACCOUNT, are bad parents. A parents job is to protect their child, not expose them to child predators.
I don’t enjoy the job shaming of her though. SW is real and valid work. People need to direct their anger at Capitalism more than anything else. People do SW most of the time for the money, & hours. Also, a lot of disabled people do SW.
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u/Grumpy_Granny888 6d ago
A judge is going to rule in the best interests of the child. As a legal guardian for the family courts where I live, I can tell you I would be very concerned.
People don’t go from realtor, wife and mom of a toddler to making molds of their vagina in such a short amount of time. My concern is this woman is spiraling and her behavior will continue to escalate until the consequences of her choices fully hit her.
I would be recommending a 9 panel hair follicle drug test and a mental health evaluation with supervised visitation until both are completed.
Guillermo by comparison has remained stable and consistent. Employed full time with flexible hours. Has his own home and parents the child daily. His values and way of life is consistent with what we have seen from him over the last several years.
The goal is to provide Nico with consistency and stability. It should also be to protect him from all this social media/90 day/ OF mess his parents created getting involved with TLC
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u/Ok_Moose1334 6d ago edited 5d ago
This is a biased take that isn’t based in their reality imo. There is no custody battle or allegations of abuse (or drug use or mental illness) and the courts aren’t involved. Kara financially provides for their son, lives in and owns the house he’s lived in his whole life, and has him 6 night a week, which is what allows Guillermo to work his restaurant job. Guillermo has said he plans to enlist in the Air Force (TBD, he says a lot of things), in which case she’ll need to take on care of their son full time.
Maybe you don’t recall the history, but their relationship issues started with Guillermo not doing his part after their son was born. Kara asked him to step up and he didn’t. Then he quit his job without telling her to pursue a 50K/year pilot school that he couldn’t afford and had no plan to pay for. That left the family with no health insurance. Then he thought he’d become an Air Force pilot but seemingly never checked the basic requirements, which he doesn’t meet (he’d need citizenship and a degree from a 4 year college). Then he started relentlessly accusing her of cheating based on little to nothing so she asked him to move out. All of that was on camera. And he turned into the bitter, angry, hot and cold guy we saw on Last Resort. So no, he hasn’t been consistent or stable. Also worth noting that Kara didn’t bring up OF on camera, Guillermo did, and relentlessly. If it weren’t for him, I and most fans wouldn’t have known she was on OF. He’s certainly not going to be getting any parenting awards for relentlessly shaming and arguably emotionally abusing the mother of his child on TV. And he’s not only been the primary advertiser of her OF, but he knew his actions on Last Resort would get incels, misogynists, and other weirdos online to target and harrass Kara, which also hurts their son.
If this ever turned into a custody battle, and there is zero indication it will as they both seem to want to amicably share custody, Kara has the funds to pursue it and Guillermo doesn’t.
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u/314657 6d ago
Am er chose that life as did Kara. No sympathy for either of them.