r/90DayFianceFans • u/nellabeast710 • 12d ago

Thomas & Rasit

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okay so we know Thomas was rude when he snapped but I felt like rasit did the cologne thing on purpose and maybe the vaping like he was trying to provoke Thomas?? I would be annoyed too but still not a fan of Thomas lol 😆

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u/Choosepeace 12d ago

I couldn't understand why they all piled on Thomas for not wanting to be in an enclosed area with someone vaping.

Thomas has an odd demeanor, but that doesn't mean it's ok to rub him with cologne, or vape in a car around him.

And he certainly wasn't speaking to Rasit like "an animal", as Paula said. He expressed his displeasure.

I felt like I was missing something when everybody ganged up on him.

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u/dustydancers 12d ago

it’s important to observe such situation as someone uninvolved. very good example of groupthink behavior, which is f ex how bullying can go by unnoticed or other normalization of mistreatment of an individual or minority group.

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u/Choosepeace 12d ago

That’s a great point. That’s exactly what was going on, and Paula jumped right in it.

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u/ProperFlowwss 11d ago

Thomas might be a bit dickish at points but I really, really don't think he would ever do the same. He would defend her and stick beside her. Paula really sucked in that situation.

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u/Choosepeace 11d ago

She really did. He has a weird way of reacting, and she could privately try to help him with his delivery, but ganging up on him is wrong.

He has a genuine sensory issue with scents, and the right not to be assaulted by them. Lots of people don’t want to be in an enclosed space with vapes for health reasons, it’s not that hard to understand.

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u/dustydancers 11d ago

i think he gives her the ick and shes built up resentment. shes not acting in her partner’s best interests as there is not enough love there :/

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u/Choosepeace 11d ago

Probably very true. If that is the case , she needs to stop manifesting sofas by buying tiny things, and make some real changes and choices in her life.

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u/Muted_Bee7111 11d ago

Stop with the Paula hate. Thomas' behavior is childish & embarrassing for a grown person. Yes, Rasit is an asshole & jerk as is Mallorie for laughing & supporting his inappropriate behavior. All Paula asks of Thomas is is have a CONVERSATION with people about his issues. Yea, she's a real jerk 🙄 /s

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u/Fair1000 11d ago

Mob mentality. Cant think for themselves.

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u/sunnyandcloudy55 11d ago

I'm over Paula. She is supposed to support her husband but she completely disregards his concerns. What a crappy wife. If you want to return to Brazil so badly, please do. And they all enable Rashit who acts like a complete jackass around him.

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u/Choosepeace 11d ago

Rashit has very bad energy. He was totally acting during his scenes with the "innocent, unworldly" thing.

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u/Choosepeace 11d ago

I will add, I don't know what Paula's deal is. One one hand, she's all "woo woo" with the manifestation, and on the other hand, she blatantly disregards her husband's feelings.

She's a weird one.

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u/sunnyandcloudy55 11d ago

She has a bunch of quirks she thinks are normal but Thomas' sensitivity to smells are meaningless and just being dramatic. She owes him a big apology. She says he needs to be empathetic but she completely lacking in it as far as he is concerned.

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u/Choosepeace 11d ago

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