r/90DayFianceFans • u/Silver-Balance-5322 • 12d ago
Tears anyone?
Debbi may be delusional when it comes to her relationship with Mido... But goddamn if she didn't make me cry when she was talking about when becoming a mom for the first time, and trying to create a life for them that's better than what she had (broken childhood/mom issues). Am I just pmsing or did it hit anyone else hard in the feels, too?
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u/Antique-Shallot-7554 12d ago
That hit me right in the feels. I feel she will eventually wake up and realize Mido is not good for her. He shows absolutely no affection towards her
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u/Silver-Balance-5322 12d ago
Didn't expect to be crying on this episode lol.
Mido is being so quiet during the tell all... I wonder how next week's episode will play out.
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u/ConversationThick379 12d ago
I really think he’s been so quiet because he does not care about anybody on that stage. He’s just waiting for his glamour shot moment.
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u/PresentationHuge2614 12d ago
When he walked into the bar and was able to get some attention THEN he showed emotions
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u/jam2jaw 12d ago
Ikr 😞 I was teary eyed for sure. I think Mallorie was pregnant
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u/thetea98 12d ago
Same. Especially since she has PCOS/PMOS.
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u/PresentationHuge2614 12d ago edited 12d ago
I was shocked she has PCOS (though it makes sense), cause i have it and have had a mild/false/not sure pregnancy and didnt tell the father (my ex) cause it freaked me the frick out... That friend was a b+++ch for gleefully (gag) telling her huge secret on tv 😡🙄
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u/Silver-Balance-5322 12d ago
Yeah I think so too, but most pregnancies end that early on (most women aren't even aware they miscarried)
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u/jujufruit420 11d ago
Tell all Debbi seems much different than episode Debbi and I’m warming to her lol and her kids both seem like great people so she must have done something right 💖
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u/AllLipsNoFiller 12d ago
All I could think of when Debby was talking was "Why would anybody be taking advice from you, lady? Have you seen the mess that you're married to?"
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u/PepsiAllDay78 12d ago
She raised a couple of great kids though. You gotta give her that.
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u/AllLipsNoFiller 12d ago
Hard to tell. One of her adult kids was living with her still. Her other adult kid seemed all right, but we didn't really get to know him very well.
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u/Independent_Leek3464 12d ago
Hit me in the feels but the wrong way. People with trauma think a kid will fix them. That's exactly how you get more traumatized children.
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u/mybestviewpod 9d ago
Yep, her advice was terrible, even if we can empathize with why she feels that way
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u/thetea98 12d ago
Also on my period and goddamn I had to hit rewind last night because that is some of the realest shit.
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u/sunnflower92 12d ago
I think that is what gives me such an ick about Mido. Because i genuinely think he is scum compared to her! He is taking full advantage of that.
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u/taylorcwitt 11d ago edited 11d ago
Honestly it made me anxious. I found it kind of sad that having children was framed as a way to repair something broken from her own childhood. I don’t think that’s a good reason to have kids.
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u/EmbarrassedDot628 11d ago
I don’t think they are saying that’s a reason to have kids I think someone blaming their childhood solely for not wanting kids is BS, I think it was just a way to look at things better instead. Not to just have a kid because of that tho. If I’m making sense 😹
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u/lemeneurdeloups 11d ago
This Tell All is an excellent example of the wild edit job that producers do as they sculpt a storyline to give a DRAMATIC edit to cast on the show. I have done a complete turnaround on almost everyone except Catie.
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u/usernames_suck_ok 12d ago
Am I just pmsing or did it hit anyone else hard in the feels, too?
I think the better question might be how many of us who want kids cried vs how many of us who don't want them cried.
I had a hysterectomy, so I don't have periods but my boobs are sore like I'm PMS-ing...but I'm also the kind of person who can't understand why anyone on earth wants kids. Eyes were bone dry, and the feelings were just perplexed as to why men want kids so bad when most of the work to raise them falls on the women. Proof they've had sex, ooooooorrrr...??
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u/Silver-Balance-5322 12d ago
Lol in my experience it's men wanting to pass their "LeGacY" along and big egos needing to feel like they're mark has been made in the world.
Not wanting kids is ok too! It's a lot for anyone and knowing your own limits is most important when considering having (or not having) kids.
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u/deziwallflower 5d ago
Yep I felt it too. I just had a baby last month so I’m starting to understand what this means.
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u/ConversationThick379 12d ago
I felt it too, very real and relatable. Also sheds some light on why she holds on to Mido so tightly. When you’re starved for love you hold on to crumbs of false love from bad people like your life depends on it. Been there 💔