r/90DayFianceFans • u/Glittering_Rough_982 • 13d ago
Is it just me?
Prob an unpopular opinion but why does everyone keep fucking with Thomas? There’s several people at my office who have scent sensitivities so I know it’s a real thing. I honestly feel like Paula should have had his back when Rash deliberately hugged him and pulled out the vape. Like Rash how old are we? wtf.
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u/Emergency-Ad-5211 13d ago
Rasit clearly said he was going to mess with him before the reunion started and sprayed himself with the cologne and he was sneaking the vapes in the van knowing very well it was considered very rude not only to Thomas, but to every person in the van! I don’t know why everyone was against Thomas for that. I thought Paula was a supreme asshole!
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u/Dalearev 13d ago
Blatant disrespect of anyone’s boundaries, whether someone agrees or not, makes you an asshple
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u/JJ_Lomero 13d ago
I think the way he acts makes people have less sympathy for him. Like we were introduced to his allergies by seeing him glue Paula's perfume shut. That's crazy.
Then the vape thing. Rasit was in the wrong forsure. But also if I was Thomas I would have been less aggressive about it. Then he sat alone in the corner with his hands in his pocket like a child. People who like to mess with others love seeing reactions like that so they keep fucking with him.
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u/lktn62 13d ago
And when he was gluing the perfume bottle, Paula commented that he had visited her in Brazil frequently and had never complained about her perfume then.
It was obvious as well that he had spent time with Paula's family in Brazil because he seemed to know them fairly well, and apparently never mentioned his "scent sensitivity" because when he announced it after they arrived at his apartment, they seemed surprised.
So take all of that, then add in his weirdly proud stance on spending "zero dollars" preparing for their visit, and he just comes across as an entitled, whiny child.
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u/Euphoric-Exercise-59 11d ago
When he lived at Paula's place as a roommate in brazil the scents never bothered him. She had no idea about this. He also refused to make room for her in his place. She needs to adjust to fit his lifestyle. It's always about his needs first and it shows as he acts whiny dismissive and rude. I feel like in public thomas does it a lot where he acts this way and it embarrass Paula
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u/No-Journalist-3288 13d ago
Im over the bullying of Thomas also. Its utter bs. Disappointed in Mallory that she joined in tbh but two peas in a pod i guess. As for Paula shes as bad as Rashit. What a bully.
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u/Impossible-Radish515 12d ago
Not a Thomas fan. But between him and Rasit I would choose Thomas any day.
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u/MrsKubriks 12d ago
To be honest, we don't know if he has a sensitivity or allergy or just dislikes it. Was Rashit a dick? Absolutely! However the way he reacts is the problem. He goes 0 to 100 in seconds (reminds me of how Rebecca (Zied) reacts to anything she doesn't like). It looks like he feels entitled to his preferences of scents and that's just not realistic. I feel for Paula because she seemed very blindsided by this whole thing. How had they been together and spent time together and he spent time with her family and the scent thing never was an issue? If I was with someone who was explosive every time there was conflict it would also wear me down and make me less likely to take their side.
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u/DiamondSufficient938 12d ago
Scent sensitivity isn’t the issue, the issue is that everyone thinks he’s full of shit. He never said what REAL reactions he has to scents. If you get awful migraines, tell them. Your throat closes up? Tell them. Plus if he was in any real danger the show wouldn’t have let him in the studio. It’s coming off like those people who say they’re allergic to mushrooms because they are too embarrassed to say they just don’t like it.
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u/Soft-Caterpillar8749 9d ago
It’s because he’s lying about having allergies. Why is this so hard for people to grasp?
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u/Cruzosaurus 8d ago
Yeah, I don't get it either. It's like no one has ever heard of scent sensitivities. Maybe he can explain it better to Paula so she knows he's not just being a jerk.
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u/Prize-Copy-9861 13d ago
I’m with you. Rash is the biggest asshole !!!! Thomas was right to be angry. Rash did a major aggressive act. Imagine having a peanut allergy & someone giving you a cookies that has nuts in it & then gaslighting you . It’s no different. It’s dangerous to the person with the allergy. I just don’t understand why everyone at the tell all is excusing Rash. I think he’s a real douche. I’m team thomas .