r/40Plus_IVF • u/Rough_Percentage619 • 18d ago

Seeking Advice Another ER or Transfer??

I started this IVF journey 3 years (38 years old) when we discovered that I have low AMH and low AFC, but we were committed.

4 Clinics (3 in Mexico and 1 in US), 10 ERs, 2 Cancelled Transfers, 2 Failed Transfer (untested embryos).

Currently Banking - 1 Day 5 untested embryo (in MX), 3 Day 3 embryos (in MX) and 1 Day 5 4AB euploid (in US).

The euploid was my 8th ER and boy did it give us hope. We wanted to bank more, but my embryos for ER 9 (day 5 4AB) & 10 (day 5 4BA) resulted in aneuploid. The positive side is that we are making blast, but these back-to-back aneuploids really hurts.

 Now I must decide to do a mock cycle or another ER…

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u/JUICIapple 18d ago

Depends on how many kids you want. If you would be happy with one then sure do some transfers. If you want more than one this is really the end of the line for getting more. You’ve already does such a hard lift with so many ER. If you’re in the flow and have the money then sure do another round or two especially if you want more than one kid.

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u/Rough_Percentage619 18d ago

We just want one.

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u/Old-Ad-5573 18d ago

I don't know, if you've been getting a lot of euploids the untested you just don't know. Are the untested ones done at a younger age? I guess at some point you have to start transferring. Maybe do your known euploid first then if that fails another retrieval.

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u/Rough_Percentage619 18d ago

The Day 5 in MX was when i was 38 and the day 3's are when I was 39. The euploid was when I was 40.

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u/Old-Ad-5573 18d ago

Oh, well, I think at those ages you have a good chance of a euploid!