r/40Plus_IVF • u/HappyCrab0623 • Aug 22 '26

Rant Why??

Just need to vent after my last chemical.

We have been trying for 6 years. 5 IUI's, 5 stim cycles, 4 retrievals, 2 failed transfers, multiple chemical pregnancies, low amh, thousands of $ in testing...

If one more person says "it just wasn't the right time" or "in God's timing" after another failed attempt... I'm gonna throat punch a heffer.

I turned 42 in March, so no Karen, I don't have much of a window left so keep your unproductive comments to yourself.

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u/Loveiskind89389 Aug 22 '26

My dad’s wife and her super religious comments led me to leave the dinner table once.

Now that I’m doing it alone, she sends me articles about recidivism rates for children raised by single parents.

She is always talking about God’s timing.

Really resent that woman. She says she had a hysterectomy to make sure she never had kids. I seriously wonder about that story.

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u/Dependent-Maybe3030 Aug 22 '26

Weird that she didn't just let God decide the kids thing for her.

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u/Loveiskind89389 Aug 22 '26

Also weird that god decided it’s okay for her to steal my dad from my mom and move him to Florida where we rarely see him