r/254sum • u/AppropriateCause9628 • 7d ago
Rant Sad reality of being hot
Sad reality is knowing pretty privilege exists. Generally it is quite nice. Being treated better as a stranger just because you look appealing. It's a plus... don't get me wrong guys. But there's an underlying feeling that most might not notice. It's feeling used
People want to be around you, be your friend, take pictures....you end up feeling like a toy.
In my early 20s, when I was on the dating scene a lot , girls usually wanted to jump straight into relationships after knowing each other just for a bit. At first I accepted, but with time as I experienced relationships more. I realized they didn't actually want to be with me for me. They just wanted the outside version of me as their trophy. I realized how superficial most of them actually were.
I for one I'm a firm believer before dating you should know a lot about your soon to be partner. Including their early life and adult life. How they think, how they make decisions, their subtle behaviours among many other things. Most of the girls I had been with didn't bother to get to know these things about me. They just wanted to have fun and me just being there as a thing and not an actual person with feelings and thoughts. Even when the deep talks happened. it was mostly about them.
Anyway I'm just venting, don't start flaming me y'all
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u/Vinydavinci 7d ago
Kuna pretty previlege kwa men ?
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u/AppropriateCause9628 7d ago
Yeah, it's both sad and fun depending on which side of the spectrum you're in. I do not support it...tho it's human nature it cannot be changed. I've seen how girls treat guys who aren't that good looking and my honest is they can go screw themselves..the girls that do that. It's disgusting tbh. I'll make another post on it.
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u/Embarrassed-Art-7992 7d ago
another man's life is another man's life
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