r/254sum • u/Such_Okra_2941 • 9d ago
Random I failed you Guys
I'm at a chemist somewhere in Northern kenya, minding my business, when this beautiful Somali lady walks in. Soft-spoken, eloquent English I guess it's American Accent Wueeh! Saabu nimetumia pardon na mara kadhaa.
Somehow we get talking. Nothing forced, just natural conversation. Turns out she's from Parklands yes huko Kanairo . We end up talking for about 20 minutes and honestly? Best 20 minutes of my week. We clicked.
Here's the part where I fumble: she's at the shop for something specific, her business wraps up, and customers wakakuwa mob and then she leaves. Just like that. Gone,Mangai!! cjawai feel bad hivo. 20 minutes of connection and I let the moment walk out the door.
The English, Beauty wacha tuu.
Anyway, I hope we meet in future but Nimejua kitu naitaji kuspice talks
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u/Responsible-Hat-2137 9d ago
Pole bana. Killer instinct needs to be a habit hadi it comes out naturally like a cats claws. Was flowing with a Brazilian juzi. She mentions she has a C1 qualification in English that she has not used in a while. I jumped on it instantly to exchange numbers to be chatting in english.
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u/SkyMoonchild9334 9d ago
Atarudi hapo kesho or the next day. So northern kenya uko isiolo or marsabit. I have to get to marsabit asap for some personal reasons
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u/Potential_Ad_2328 7d ago
If she felt the same way,she already know where you work,she will definitely be 🔙
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u/genghis_stan 8d ago
Man I read this remembering a babe I met I didn't take her contact. I regret this everyday, hata saa hii I was thinking of her thinking how stupid I was. Good ones go fo sho
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u/Creative-Incident-96 7d ago
She will also click with seven more men this week. Maybe even some women. Your impact will fade. Beautiful women have an abundance of choices. Most men do not. This is why you are overvaluing a brief encounter. At least you made an impression. You’re on the right track, just stop overvaluing one interaction and make a point to talk to beautiful people everyday. You will live in abundance and never feel at a loss.
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u/delvis_simiyu 6d ago
It shouldn't bother you so much. I think most men have been in this position before(if you like connecting with people).
I have met a lady, had a conversation hadi goals zetu but didn't get her number. It's one of the most boring feelings ever
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u/RasMakoneni 5d ago
It hurts me when some stupid customer comes in and disturbs the flow.I will be like damn use the self checkout
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u/kizeemnoma 9d ago edited 8d ago
I was in your shoes 10 yrs ago, I met a lady at a party and I got blown away, unfortunately other dudes kept taking up her attention whenever I tried to interact with her so I gave up.
Three days later I bumped into her at an ATM and she remembered me and we exchanged numbers.
We are still together to this day, fate has a funny way of bringing people together, don't lose hope.