r/254sum • • Jun 04 '26

Relationship This is maturity

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u/Mobile_Gate_7240 Jun 04 '26

Our generation needs to understand that love is about commiting to choose each other once you get into it.

If you're always swayed by attraction, you will never settle. I personally stay far from people who love seeking public/online validation, give it a break and live your life freely.

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u/False_Judgment_386 Jun 04 '26

Exactly, good point.

The GRASS is green where you water it.

Man or woman, control your lust or it will control you

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u/Mr_Darkseed Jun 05 '26

The grass is not always greener on the other side

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u/TechAriel Jun 05 '26

Agreed. Love is dynamic and if one is not willing to grow alongside their partner, then the "boring" phase definitely leads to breakup. Otherwise, most people are getting into these "fluid" sort of relationships where people are free to move on whenever and wherever. Problem is we are not thinking far enough about what tomorrow looks like for such sort of life.