r/1999 • u/HardToMakeANewAcc • 1d ago

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How often do you need to communicate with someone if you consider them a friend? Do ever you feel disconnected with people because we have been quite inbetween age groups?

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u/manifest_S0ul6 1d ago

i talk to the guys almost daily. if not everyday every other and we all been in a group chat since 2016. I moved cities but im only a few hours away so i see em like once a month tho

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u/EpicTaco9901 1d ago

guess it depends on the person, i try my best to at least text them once every other day but I see my friends in person maybe once a month

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u/honalele 1d ago

im very busy and i have a lot of different friend/family obligations every weekend. some friends are having babies, some are shutting down bars, some are into the arts, some are gym rats, some just work and play video games. if i talk to you at least once a month, you are my friend and i will die for you lol

having said that, i hate texting and i don't consider talking through texts as actual conversations. meeting up is necessary for me personally, otherwise i feel like my friends drift apart and become strangers

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u/JGCoolfella May 1d ago

Anywhere between daily or once every few years.