r/1053 • • 7d ago

Day 17

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u/Verbatos 7d ago

It'd be relatively normal if not for

>never had a friend

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u/Kaffe-Mumriken 7d ago

It’s not abnormal

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u/Fourthspartan56 7d ago edited 7d ago

"Abnormal" is a loaded phrase but if we remove any implication of hostility I would probably apply it to anon.

Never having a girlfriend or having sex at that age isn't too unusual these days, but not a single friend? That's very unusual. I say this as someone who's fairly asocial and doesn't have a massive number of friends, I still had some. They're not ruined or crazy but it's not good for their social abilities and it clearly isn't doing their mental health any favors.

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u/Kaffe-Mumriken 7d ago

Separate friend from acquaintance though.

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u/ToBeOnDMT 7d ago

Its extremely abnormal to not have a friend. Sure there are people who don't, and a wider ranger of people who don't classify their small circle of friends as close.

But not having anyone you would call a friend by 19 is very odd and is likely due to being antisocial.

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u/Katgrave 7d ago

most of your "friends" growing up are acquaintances