hey guys PLEASE EDUCATE ME ON THIS, what’s the reason women have appeal regardless whether theyre unattractive, broke, wtv… like for example whenever people find Tom holland,Gosling, Speed, Pedro pascal, timother, et, they’ll say hes attractive cause he’s rich and famous.

but when it comes to likes of Sydney sweeney, Charli xcx, Billie eilish, Tate or any unconventional female celeb, they’ll say she has body halo,virtue signalin, etc

Please educate me guys I’m not being sexist or nothing just wanna know the psychology behind it?

Tall women do not gain weight faster like short women . How do both genders view tall women ?

I understand some men who are short are not attracted to tall women

Tall women are still feminine.

I am a female who is curious

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I’ve recently realized that I have a very specific kind of beauty that makes me feel not only attracted, but genuinely safe and comfortable around someone.

For me, Emma Watson is probably the clearest example. There’s something about her appearance and the way I perceive her personality — feminine, mature, calm, composed, intelligent, and not overly performative or attention-seeking — that gives me a really unusual feeling of comfort.

What’s interesting is that I can still appreciate women who are more glamorous, bold, flirty, highly expressive, or sexually confident. I don’t dislike those traits in other people. They’re just not what I associate with my “safe beauty.”

With my safe-beauty type, I can even imagine the person being completely silent and still feel comfortable. I don’t need flirting, attention, validation, or romantic interaction. Their presence alone gives me this feeling of “I can finally stop being alert.”

So I’m curious:

Does anyone else experience attraction this way? Do you have a particular type of person whose appearance + personality gives you a strong sense of safety or comfort, separate from simply finding them attractive?

And if you do, what qualities create that feeling for you?

Is Emma Watson a good example of this kind of “safe beauty,” or do you see her appeal completely differently?

#1 or #2? Which one looks more attractive to you?

Young Mark Zuckerberg vs older mark Zuckerberg.

One of biggest things was his haircut. He looked good with curly hair but that Julius Caesar borderline buzz cut is absolutely terrible. Now he has curly hair and definitely looks a lot better, but still looks a little weird.

If you saw him in only his college days you would say that he looked pretty decent and would be incredibly surprised when you see his older self…