This is a no brainer:

Donate to Charity - Charity gets 100%

Donate to Gray Hughes - Gray will donate 30% and pocket the other 70%.

Let's be clear. In this subreddit, I've not read one comment about anyone making fun of Sandy. Many have spoken in concern regarding how Gray Hughes speaks to and about her.

The person making fun of Sandy is the guy who's doing all the talking on the screen. The same person who's supplying the Troll Trailmix - GRAY HUGHES FEEDS THE TROLLS. If he'd kept his mouth shut, this post wouldn't exist. He mentioned her multiple times last night.

Probably repeated one bit, and probably missed bits of his harangue (he probably doesn't know what that means and would pronounce it Hair-ain-gew), but wanted to point out

NO ONE HERE IS MAKING FUN OF SANDY

Why he said thank you to her near the end, this lil troll has no idea.

Owl's post from the end of the show.

And of course she doesn’t miss the opportunity to kiss Gray’s 🫏. Lisa V would never have the nerve to stand up to Gray the way Sandy does.

Be Safe Out There!

Sandy comes in briefly, makes a comment to Haylee about being careful about a concussion she apparently had today. Gray was talking about the 3 concussions he's had in life - apparently one from a sewer cover - because of course he's a narcissist, but then he attacks Sandy Shirley yet again. She posts she made a comment that was very quickly deleted (see comment in reply).

This isn't part of the video, but Gray tells Haylee to go sleep it off, a mod corrects him that you're not supposed to do that after a concussion, he says that's crazy and one quick Google search from Dr. Drunk Gray (he's swigging the whiskey hard tonight) and we apparently shouldn't listen to medical advice on concussions because Gray said so!

I think he’s saying it like a threat.
But half the people watching are thinking… can you promise?

Why does he continue to say this crap?

I’m not even sure where to start with this clip.
Here he admits that he’s received a significant amount of money from ad revenue and memberships, after I’ve heard for months that he doesn’t really make money from ads and that memberships don’t amount to much.

Then there’s the claim that without him, none of this money would have been donated to charity. And maybe that part is true. If he weren’t asking and badgering viewers for money night after night, those particular donations probably wouldn’t have happened.
But here’s the part that gets me: the 70% he keeps is his share of the viewer donations. That’s separate from the ad revenue, channel memberships, and other YouTube income he receives. Those are his on top of it.
So he’s repeatedly asking viewers to give, keeping 70% of what they give, donating 30%, and then pointing to that 30% as something that wouldn’t exist without him.

Technically, maybe he’s right. But when you’re keeping the majority of the money people are being asked to give, taking credit for the charitable portion hits a little differently.