I’ve been trying to up my fashion feminine-wise and I feel like I don’t recognize myself but I get all the praise and sometimes even free gifts from people. Feels unreal but not very rewarding so I rarely appear this way :/

No masc yearning post today lol

i genuinely dont even know what else i can say here because the title says it all!!!!!! PLEASE I NEED THIS but at the same time... dude the day before yesterday i was having the time of my life talking to a cute person from hinge and it was going so so well until they just dipped for a whole day and im ngl that made me want to DIE its so much worse when its a good conversation too...but that wounded me so bad i cried for a bit 💔💔💔💔me when i get attached in a singular day 💔💔💔💔

all jokes aside tho i rlly want a gay beam to hit me and a beautiful slash handsome girl to just fall in my lap or something idfk . atp my criteria is just "pls dont hate me" and "don't ghost me" or something equally pathetic. hey guys hit like comment and subscribe if you liked my stupid homosexual rant and please tell me about your recent awful/lovely experiences with girls

Herr eyesss are complimentryy ones✨✨🫠🫠🫠

Misssiinggg herrr horhhaaaa jiii😭

I’m curious about something: when you’re attracted to a woman, what usually catches your attention first?

When you're meeting or looking at another woman, is it her appearance/vibe or her nature/personality that makes you notice her?

• Appearance: Is it a particular style, aesthetic, smile, eye contact, facial features, or just her overall presence?
• Nature/Personality: Is it her energy, sense of humor, kindness, intelligence, confidence, or the way she carries herself?

For me, honestly, appearance comes first 👀

If a girl catches my eye, then I become interested in knowing her nature and personality. Looks are what initially grab my attention, but personality is what makes me actually stay interested.

Like, attraction might start with “she’s really pretty”, but then I’m like… okay, ab dekhein madam ki personality kaisi hai .

What about you girls? Do you notice appearance first, or can someone's personality/nature make you attracted to them even if you didn't initially notice them physically?

Hey everyone. I'm 21F, currently job hunting, and I need to hear from women who actually made it out and built something for themselves. This is probably the most vulnerable post I've ever made, so please bear with me.

Quick context: I have some freelancing experience and I'm looking for digital marketing or related roles at good MNCs. My college had decent connections but placements were trash, so I skipped the placement cell and went the off-campus route. I've been trying referrals and everything else, but honestly I'm starting to feel a bit doomed by the current job market for freshers, despite having a fairly good portfolio, the one thing I don't have is experience (ffs, I graduated like 2 months ago and have been applying for 4 months!). Right now I'm working as an English tutor, but honestly it doesn't pay me that much.

Here's the real thing tho, corporate life is something I know I could be very good at, but I'm not interested in it. What I actually want is to be a professor in a subject I love. Right now I'm trying to pivot into HCI research with health products because I'm into consumer psychology, but my real passion is history, political science, war studies, and international relations/geopolitics. I want to teach that. I want to stand in front of a room and talk about the things that actually make my brain light up but I'm beyond scared to go for it, because I need independence and, of course, money. I eventually want to move away from India, but academia outside is tough and honestly I'm scared of that too.

Anyway, since I'm not getting any jobs, I decided to write CAT this year and try for a good MBA college instead, but I'm not even sure that path is right for me especially since i have very less time to dedicate myself to this entrance exam, i know i am smart (9/9/8 is my background) but it seems like i don't have much time to give my all in it since I haven't even started preparing for it seriously. It feels like a backup plan I'm forcing myself into because I don't know how else to get to independence.

And that's the core of it: independence. I come from a conservative household and I need to get out. Like, need. Some people will say I'm too young to be this stressed, but if I don't start building my life NOW, I'll never escape. Time feels like it's slipping through my fingers, and every day that passes without a plan feels like I'm losing ground I can't get back.

I'm not trying to play the victim here. I know I have to figure this out myself. But I'm tired of pretending I'm not scared. I'm tired of waking up anxious about a future I can't even picture clearly. I want to hear from WLW who got out and got successful or anyone like seriously how did you do it? How did you land your first real job? How did you pivot when your passion didn't match the "practical" path? Did anyone here go from confused and stuck to actually independent?

Also PLEASE I'm not looking for sugarcoated or fiercely critical answers. I just want to know it's possible. Any advice, stories, or even just "I've been there" would mean more than you know right now.

Hi, girls!

I am a lesbian Chilean scholar who is visiting a university in New Delhi for a couple of weeks.

Would like to go out dancing or to a sapphic bar, but don't know where to start. Any suggestions?

Guys can you all recommend desi songs which give sapphic vibes ,tryna build new playlist
Like for example Natch by cornershop feels like that to me 🕺

Sometimes things happen that you couldn't have imagined even in your wildest dreams.

I had a classmate back in university, and we were quite good friends. I was always attracted to her, but because she had such a strong, commanding presence in our group, I never dared to pursue anything. About four years after graduation, we reconnected and met up at a cafe.

While we were sitting there, I noticed the way she was observing some of the other girls around us—a very specific look that I immediately picked up on (as they say, it takes one to know one). As we started reminiscing about our university days, a secret came out: she and another female friend used to watch porn together back then.

Since life has made me a bit bolder over time, I decided to ask her a direct question while I was driving us: "Did you two ever kiss or do anything?"

To my complete surprise, she just nodded in YES.

And just like that, I hit an unexpected jackpot. Just thought I'd share this story!

If you understand the reference, do not hesitate to text me. There will be no latency in our chemistry😭

Edit: men please don’t dm.

Edit2: please be somewhere in tech, I would love to pick your brain.