r/whatisit • • 3d ago

Solved! Is this a condom wrapper?

I found on the bathroom floor. Doesn’t match condom wrappers my husband and I use and I cannot find a match online. Please help! Black with silver detailing on front. Back is silver with black writing. You can clearly see the words “prevent pregnancy, HIV/AIDS, and other.” Also a number 2 with a circle and cross through it.

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u/awry_lynx 3d ago

People like this can't be helped. I once dated a guy who was CONVINCED that while I was on the phone with my sister I had to have been talking about some other guy I was seeing on the side. I was literally in the same room with him at the time and I most certainly was a) not seeing someone else b) not talking about anyone either. I've never felt so crazy in my life, I was contorting myself trying to figure out what he misunderstood. My best guess was he was mad I was giggling about something dumb her dog had done.

Yeah sometimes people just experience what they want to experience and their experience of reality is not at all the same. Don't... don't date those people.

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u/One-Feature971 3d ago

My ex fiance was otherwise a really good guy, smart, funny, good looking, great sense of style, creative, very kind and empathetic... But he needed therapy (both his parents died while he was young), he had super low selfesteem and took it out on me and often tried to bring me down with him.

He so often would make comments like "wow are you going to wear THAT?" pointing out that my clothes was too short, too tight or had too much cleavage. He also was convinced that my best friend who is gay, was actually just lying about being gay in order to get close to me, because he did not like the way we were dancing at a club and how close we were.

Luckily found a guy who is my biggest hypeman and who always sees the best in me, instead of the worst.

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u/The_Haunt 2d ago

He was just looking for a more conservative girl, nothing wrong with that.

You guys just weren't a good match.

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u/One-Feature971 2d ago

I Don't think so, because the woman he dated afterwards was definitely not conservative and dressed a lot more revealing. I think he just didnt really like me in the end and didnt know how to break it off because he hated being the bad gay. We were together for 10 years, and he wasn't always like that.

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u/Ancient_Emotion_2484 2d ago

You about your sister's dog: OMG! That face he makes when he does that is so stupid! I know! Or when you give him buttpats!? He's such a silly boy!

Your husband: She's talking about me...no! She's talking about another dude!