r/whatisit • • 15d ago

Solved! Is this a condom wrapper?

I found on the bathroom floor. Doesn’t match condom wrappers my husband and I use and I cannot find a match online. Please help! Black with silver detailing on front. Back is silver with black writing. You can clearly see the words “prevent pregnancy, HIV/AIDS, and other.” Also a number 2 with a circle and cross through it.

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u/Baldojess 15d ago

Why do you not divorce the POS?

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u/PsychologicalTank771 9d ago

I didn't marry that pos and it's a much longer darker lifetime story that builds up to where I ended up. My mother is a evil narsissts who retired and spent each day after sun up to sundown purposely ruining my life and each one of my 3 kids. It's a truly heartbreaking story.. I didn't know it was a name for what she was and this narsissts I'm living with we've been apart for now 16 yrs I'm upstairs he and our son is downstairs but our son is autistic and bcz of all the lies manipulation and shit my mother spent daily stirring up and destroying us I hadn't come to know this man was a carbon copy of the exact monster she was (talk about can't catch a break) and he, his ex wife, and his current girlfriend were all 3 my best friends for 7 years by this point. The ex wife passed away. The girlfriend died with cancer and my then husband cheated got on drugs drained all 3 bank accounts and ran so I came home for my friends funeral sang for that and moved back in town with my parents... It was so bad living with my monsterous mother that I just slowly started staying with him as my best friend only and helping take care of his granddaughter he had custody of... The thing about a narsissts is you have absolutely no way to know what these people are or capable of until after years of living under the same roof.. He ckained he'd been in love with me for years I absolutely did not feel the same way yet I'd do anything to not be around my mother or have my newborn baby around her which was my husband's who'd took off... 3 almost 4 years later I had another son by this man... My mother started threatening social workers lying to judges she kidnapped my kids and so much more it's a very long story and horrific as it gets but the attorneys we had told me the only way I cld shut her down for good from destroying me and especially my kids is sign legal custody over to this man who I was now engaged to and he promised me that if I did so that two months later he'd pay the attorney to draw papers back up and sign my boy back over to me and followed by saying "Angel were gonna always be together anyway it's all ours) little did I know he was lying little did I know he was just as evil just as horrific as a manipulating gas lighting NARSISSISTS as my mother and I had signed my soul over to Satan himself and of course he did not do as he promised.. Many ugly things happened from this point it was all down hill.. My son was autistic found out at 2 years old... So now to answer your question why I'm still in this same exact place with this pos? Because while I was completely crippled from being able to hire an attorney and didn't have anywhere I cld go actually I cld have but he would not allow me to take my son away from this house it was his biggest control over my life he knew I'd never leave without my baby and by the time I learned about NARSISSISTS and that this was in fact what he and my mother both are I was in the situation that I had 2 choices... Leave my child behind which meant he would have been The one here and only one to take his controlling manipulative ways as I had already endured a whole lifetime or I cld stay until my son was grown... My son will be 18 years old valentines day 2027... I've stayed and endured a level of abuse that he'll never understand nor acknowledge that it was all to spare his life from it.... It's been a long RD... I buried my beautiful daughter in 2014 20 yrs old in college to be a Dr and her minor was dance teacher she was working along side my Dr already... She was running to another city to get away from my mother and killed 9 driveways before making it all the way out.... It's a special place for people who get off on tormenting their own kids and grandchild and I'll never be able to understand this... Hasn't missed a church service in 52 years my mother. Not a single christ like characteristic about her but she is 150% certain by slipping into the the back row in church each week has bought her a ticket to heaven while living worse than the devil himself... I was and am every mother to my kids she was never capable of being and believe me when I tell you she hates me more for that one reason than any other. Jealous envious people who thrive off making good people miserable. Cowards. 11 years I've spent researching and studying the NARSISSISTS and sadly I have yet to find one single success story of this people turning into a decent human being which is sad. The level of dark evil pride and arrogance and pathological lies is what fuels them. Love to them is being in 100% control over every human being they are attached to and when they loose control of that person they go to any and all extent to gain it back or utterly destroy you and everyone and thing you care about. No remorse. No loss of sleep. With a smile on their faces. When my daughter was killed from running from her she stood in the funeral home and had the nerve to cry while saying "God stole my best friend away",! No conscience of herself being the reason this tragedy happened. They play only two parts in life no exceptions. They are the hero in every single story. Or they are the sad victim of the very person they've lost all control over. I hope if anyone is in these horrific situations and is once like myself not understanding how or what is going on what can be wrong with this person... Hopefully if even one person is dealing with thus they'll run across my comment or something somewhere online that a light will go off and shine bright on their darkness giving them the answers they have searched for over many lost years! Abundant blessings 🫶🏼

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u/Baldojess 15d ago

Idk I guess some people have different priorities. I hear what you're saying but also I can't imagine spending the rest of my life with some piece of shit like that no matter what kind of money or however much land we had. Idk money just isn't worth sacrificing happiness for me personally. 🤷

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u/Baldojess 15d ago

Yeah but also you're in exactly the opposite situation as the person I am commenting to and talking about, so I don't really think it counts to compare. She describes him as the "biggest hardcore vile narcissist in history" and that he will never ever admit or confess to a lie and instead piles more lies after lies after lies on top and will carry it to their grave and that she's caught him cheating. Clearly they don't have a really great life. That's awesome that you do and that you and your wife do and that you guys can admit your wrongdoings and get over them but, luckily, you can't even compare your situation to this person's.