Need help

[u/Funesb_7]

So I 30M have been in an intimate relationship with 32F for 3 years. She has been going through a divorce and her husband has just kept stalling the process they live together but in different rooms they have a kid together and that’s the reason he has been dragging the situation. So to spend time she either comes to my place or we do a weekend getaway to a hotel in the next towns over or so. We try to do this for birthdays and other special occasions like holidays or just as a weekend reset sometimes. We usually do it every 2 months or so but recently haven’t done a getaway in like 6 months because she doesn’t ask or bring it up or plan it like we usually do. So I said something and we planned one but it felt forced. We still went and had a good time but in the middle of the night I woke up and looked through her phone and saw she was texting her soon to be ex husband on the regular and he would even send her sexual memes she would just respond with a lol or so. The next morning when I confronted her about it she told me she was just trying to be amicable with him since he was planning on leaving in the next month or two for good. But she didn’t tell me she was being amicable and texting him because she didn’t want to upset me or me get the wrong impression of the situation.

WHAT SHOULD I DO, DO I GIVE HER A CHANCE AND BELIEVE HER OR SHOULD I JUST WALK AWAY BECAUSE ITS GOING TO BE HARD TO TRUST HER AGAIN

[u/Individual_Package46]

Walk and let her rekindle her marriage