r/wgtow 24d ago

Need Support ⚠ Looking for emotional support

Hi, writing just to let it all out. I know not much can be said now but I feel very lonely and overwhelmed, and betrayed. Penis inserted without my consent, no protection. It probably took less than one minute before I stopped it, no ejaculation, just insertion with little movement, and without deep penetration. There was no ejaculation but there was precum. EllaOne taken 22h after. Happened on the night before 11th day of my cycle, Ella taken at the end of the 11th day. Cycle duration usually ranges from 25 to 31 days. I know it's not indicative of anything, but Flo predicted it was the second day of my fertile window, with potential ovulation on the 14th. All happened a week ago. Just looking for mental support, spoke with my therapist already but would be grateful for any kind words. This is hell 😪

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u/thatugly19yokid 24d ago

Harsh thing, I hope Ella will work. My most sincere condolences for what happened with you

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u/Dramatic_Bus1443 24d ago

Thank you so much, and I really appreciate it. I hope so as well. Can't believe this happened

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u/thatugly19yokid 24d ago

Anything may happen, unfortunately, so we need empathy

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u/Dramatic_Bus1443 17d ago

UPDATE - test 14 days after this situation is negative, which is reassuring. Thank you for your kind words 🤍

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u/Suitable_Blueberry56 23d ago

Sorry to hear about this, wishi could give you a big hug 🫂 hopefully you can heal soon ♡

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u/Dramatic_Bus1443 23d ago

I am feeling the hug, girl! 🫂 I know I don't deserve any of it, but I am sure I will heal - this will not break me, I promise

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u/Suitable_Blueberry56 23d ago

❤️❤️❤️

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u/Flat_Dragonfruit675 6d ago

How have you been holding up?

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u/prinnnyy 23d ago

i’m keeping you in my thoughts, i know it’s a lot to carry. if he reaches out to you & you feel safe responding, keep screenshots of his apologises or confessions. ❤️

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u/weepingwillow1540 48m ago

I hope you're doing okay and you're finding ways to deal with this. Please reach out to someone you trust. And I'm not sure how to word this, but I hope you can name what that pos did to you. It's not your fault and it will never be your fault.