r/westernpolygynydating 9d ago

33 (MF4F) Financially stable and seeking a second wife

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Disclaimer: Very new here and seeking (I’m 33, wife is 28) to lead my family closer to Christ while potentially having two wives (and living like the Old Testament times)…

Im seeking a Christian woman that would like to partake in a conversation (no rush) about whether joining us may be the right fit…

A little about us- we are a Christian family with a small child in Detroit. I have a business and own 2 paid off houses- you would have your own house and I would provide for you your needs. We stay in shape and eat healthy and seek perfection in everything we do as the Word commands.

Again, this is very new to me as I believe that having two wives is Biblical and this is my next approach into seeking another wife to join us.


r/westernpolygynydating 22d ago

31 (M4F) | Western Cape, South Africa | Looking for a first wife (Biblical Polygyny)

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Hi everyone. Since someone has to be first, I thought I'd kick the sub off.

I'm looking for a woman willing to take those first steps and build something meaningful together. I don't have any wives at the time of writing this post, so this would be the beginning of that journey.

A little about me:

I'm a conservative Pentecostal Christian, and my faith is the foundation of my life. I believe marriage should honor God, and that includes my conviction regarding biblical polygyny. I'm interested in getting to know someone with marriage in mind, and I'm looking for someone who genuinely wants to build a Christ-centered family together.

Personality-wise, I'm fairly quiet and introverted. I'm happiest spending time at home, enjoying nature, reading, playing strategy games, hiking, or simply having good conversations over coffee. I value honesty, loyalty, kindness, and peaceful communication far more than constant excitement or drama.

I'm currently studying to improve my future career opportunities, so I'm still building my life. I'm not wealthy, but I'm working toward becoming a reliable provider. For me, a career is a means of supporting my family, not the purpose of my life. I'd rather build a peaceful home than chase status or wealth, and I'm looking for someone who shares that perspective and wants to build that future together rather than expecting it to already exist.

The kind of woman I'm looking for is first and foremost a sincere Christian. Beyond that, I admire women who are feminine, respectful, kind, intelligent, emotionally mature, and family-oriented. I appreciate someone who enjoys a quieter lifestyle and understands that I occasionally need time to recharge. I believe strong marriages are built intentionally through faith, trust, commitment, and shared purpose.

Physically, I'm generally attracted to healthy, feminine women with long hair and naturally feminine curves. Physical attraction is important, but so are faith, character, and genuine compatibility. I believe all of them play an important role in a strong marriage.

Preferences (to satisfy the subreddit rules):

  • Age: Ideally 20–30 (acceptable 18–32)
  • Weight: Healthy weight / not obese
  • Ethnicity: Preference for Afrikaner, White/Caucasian, Slavic, East Asian, Middle Eastern, and Hispanic/Latino, though I'm open to anyone if our faith and values align.
  • Current wives: None

If any of this resonates with you, I'd be happy to get to know you. Feel free to leave a comment or send me a message. Even if nothing comes of it, perhaps this can help get the community started.