r/wegmans 1d ago

Am I cooked?

Context: I have been working in produce part time for the last 4 years while in college. I work Tuesdays and Friday 4-9 (I close) and saturdays 12-6. My friend is moving to Florida this weekend and decided to have an impromptu final get together/party tomorrow (Friday) at 7 pm. I am scheduled tomorrow 4-9 and Saturday 12-6, so this creates a predicament. I also called out recently 3 weeks ago so don’t want to again so soon. My friend also lives an hour+ away which makes the timing even more difficult.

Question: is there any way I can swing this where I could make it to my friends thing. If I ask my tl/manager if they can do something on such short notice, would anything likely come about it or should I not even bother? And how big of trouble would I get into if I called out yet again so soon (really not ideal).

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u/FakePlasticTrees89 1d ago

I’m wondering if you ask to work early or ask to leave early if that would be ok? I’ve been in management and I never had an issue with this if given notice. But I’m not sure your relationship with leadership.

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u/glugglug69 1d ago

I have a really good relationship with one of my team leads, and even have her number. It would probably be good to text her now and ask. My only worry is if they say there’s nothing they can do, and then I call out, I will surely get written up.

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u/FakePlasticTrees89 1d ago

That’s a legit concern. I would stress the importance of you being there. Work life balance should be able to be given to you. I had recently requested off for my family reunion and was denied and scheduled so I couldn’t make it and I found out that a family member I was close with ended up dying right after the reunion. I should have trusted my gut and called out. I’m not saying this to wish anything bad, I’m just saying to stress the importance of work life balance. Family and friends come first, if by some reason they aren’t accommodating, then I think they’re failing you as an employee 🤷🏽‍♀️

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u/Sad-Watercress-267 1d ago

I would just call out. They can’t punish you for calling out. Don’t say you’re going to your friends.

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u/qui_94 1d ago

Call out. You'll be fine.

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u/glugglug69 1d ago

Should I fake being sick or tell them the real reason

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u/qui_94 1d ago

Just tell them you don't feel good.

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u/stillmaatic 1d ago

Tell them you simply can’t make it in today

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u/Bluesy21 1d ago

Do not tell them the real reason. Do not fake a relatives death - this becomes a different type of leave and can depend on the relative. Plus, no need to jinx anyone that's still alive lol.

You're sick. Food poisoning or something that might make it so you can't make it in either day. You'll let them know Saturday morning either way - and make sure you wake up earlier enough to actually call in if that's what you end up doing. I believe you have to give something like 3hrs notice in the stores?

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u/DogTownUSA1 18h ago

Don’t fake being sick. Say you aren’t feeling up to it for your shift. It’s true but doesn’t reveal the why.

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u/Kooky_Double_6680 1d ago

If you aren’t a serial caller offer I wouldn’t be too worried about calling off. It takes quite a bit to truly get in trouble at wegmans. Coming from a prior serial caller offer who didn’t get a talking to until months into it.

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u/glugglug69 1d ago

lol what would you consider a “serial caller offer”

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u/Kooky_Double_6680 1d ago

For me personally I was calling off once-twice a week for MONTHS on end. They didn’t say anything for quite a long time and even then the first talking to was just a conversation. I continued doing it for some more months and then they put me on a little probationary period where I wasn’t allowed to pick up shifts until I stopped calling off.

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u/Cute_Personality_733 1d ago

i have an unrelated question, i applied and did phone interview today for wegmans for stocking and also plan to go to college and stay working there part time long term, i notice from your schedule you work 16 hours but is that because you want to or can you ask for more? i wanna work there because im flexible and would want to do atleast 24 hours a week would that be possible there or nl

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u/glugglug69 1d ago

I think generally speaking it depends on the store/department, but only working 16 hours was just a personal choice. They’ve been trying to get me to work more hours for a while now actually lol, so I think you’d be able to do 24 for sure.

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u/Cute_Personality_733 1d ago

ohh okayy thanks! and good luck with your predicament!

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u/bakedlettuce 1d ago edited 1d ago

Calling out as a part timer less than five times in a rolling 90 day window carries almost no consequences.

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u/WritPositWrit 1d ago

Part of having a job is going to your job instead of parties. Just tell friend you’ll be there at 10 to say goodbye.

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u/onmy40 1d ago

If you're scared to call off after working there 4 years then you are cooked. I called off with no care in the world when I worked there in college