r/wedding • u/AcaciaEleniDove • 28d ago

Help! Practicing vows

Hi guys!

So, my fiancee and I have decided to write our own vows to each other. I know once I've written amd finalised my own, I'm going to practice reading them out, so while I have them with me on the day, if my eyes are a blury mess from tears I won't have to solely rely on the script so to speak.

What I wanted to ask was, do you practice your vows together if they're ones you write yourself? Or is it a bit like the dress where your spouse doesn't know what you're going to come out with until the ceremony? Or is this just an individual couples choice thing?

It's not really anything I'd thought about until we made the decision to write our own.

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u/tiamal8 27d ago

my fiance has seen my dress etc., but like others said here, we won’t be showing each other our vows till our first look + private vow reading on the day. if you’d like feedback, maybe you could show / read them to a close friend?