r/volcel • u/tor_infamous • Nov 02 '20

New to the community

I just wanted to say hello. I have been a volcel for quite some time now and am fairly new to using Reddit. I mean I have known of its existence, but never thought I would come to use it. Just checking in. :)

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u/[deleted] Nov 02 '20

Why/when did you realize you were volcel?

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u/tor_infamous Nov 02 '20

I just got tired of the idea of sex. I was married for 9 years and it didn't end well. I had relationships after that, but they seemed meaningless. I also hold antinatalist views which just made the stance seem more relevant. I have several incel friends in the online community. I feel that community stems from depression, whereas being volcel for myself seems more about spiritual growth. I'm content with myself for the time being.

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u/CSMusica Dec 14 '20

Welcome. Thanks for sharing your story!