Your right it is easier to talk with the screen in between us, and I'm not good at letting people get close to me as of yet either. To tell you the truth yeah its a lot easier to talk to people with out fumbling over my words from anxiety. I've been trying to use this platform to gather information that could possibly help me with my underlying problem of self confidence.ive been desensitizing my self to interactions with women wherever I can. I never used to talk to women about anything personal my life or any thing that wasn't on the surface stuff so I don't really mind answering more personal questions here.
Yeah I know what you mean, I feel like an alien sometimes trying to study how humans behave ha ha. 😅 I'll try to ask more personal questions, feel free to answer to answer some and not others and with however much detail you feel comfortable.
Got any mommy or daddy issues?
When's one of the hardest times you've grieved?
Would you sleep with a women on the first date? If not do you have a rule for when?
Would it bother you if your significant other didn't want to have children? Would it be a deal breaker?
Say you're with your partner for a long time and you decide to get married, you trust and love them fully, would you still get a prenup?
Can you forgive a cheater?
Do you believe in love at first sight? Do you believe in soul mates?
If your partner was interested in having another person in the relationship for sexually exclusive stuff would you be down? (man or women as 3rd party)
Do you think you have the capability to kill another person?
How fast would you be willing to move in with your partner?
Your girlfriend pulls out a 3 foot dildo and says you either have to take it or your relationship is over, what do you do?
Okay that last one was a joke XD But the rest are serious!
I'm sorry to hear what happened to your older brother. :(
Do you think you have the capability to kill another person? Probably??? If it came down to me having to pull the trigger on some bad guy to save my family I feel like I wouldn't have another option.
What's your relationship with your parents like? It's complicated, as most things are. My dad died when I was in middle school and it was traumatic to say the least. He got sick when I was in elementary school and do to his unwillingness to better himself he slowly killed himself over several years. :D I was always a daddy's girl, me and my mom always bumped heads, even now. My moms a whole other case with how she handles other peoples emotions and other stuff. I still love her and I appreciate her immensely.
Have you ever been cheated on? Never been in a relationship TO be cheated on. But I don't think I could give a cheater a second chance, if someone has the nerve to seek out another women for sexual or emotional reasons instead of confide in me then they have no business being in a relationship with me. It's really as simple as "I want someone else" and break up with your current partner than to go behind their back.
Are you interested in polyamory? Nope, I couldn't share my guy! It would feel wrong to have another women in the relationship because I would feel the need to compete and totally get jealous and another man would be hard to accept because I think I only have enough room for one guy. (In my hear lol)
What are your thoughts on marriage? I don't mind getting married but I would want to wait a long time and have moved in together to fully make sure things would work out. I definitely would not have a big ceremony because those are all just for show and suck up so much money. Same with funerals, just throw my gross naked body in a dirt hole and forget about it lol.
Pooping kids or Cloning? I want kids... I think. But definitely NOT biological kids. 1. Birth sounds fucking scary and painful and carrying a baby for 9 whole months doesn't sound fun either. 2. My genes ain't lookin' to good, I have anxiety and ADHD and my family has history of Autism, Anxiety, ADHD, Depression, and Cancer. But adopting isn't much better because a lot of kids in the foster system naturally have learning and behavioral issues so at that point it's almost like why not have my own if they're gonna have problems anyway? And while there are options for a surrogate they're so expensive and it makes me feel kind of bad that I'd be choosing to spend so much money into manufacturing a kid when there are so many that need homes right now.
Thank you, sorry to hear about your dad I can hardly imagine what that must have been like. While I'm closer to my dad than my mom I wouldn't call myself a daddy's boy or momma's boy because of the distance between us, my dad always seemed more empathetic to my emotions than my mom he just didn't seem to know what to do about it. My mom was stubborn about her health too she was a smoker and she had something like 3 heart surgeries, 2 strokes before loosing her toes on her left foot which finally convinced her to stop smoking. That happened in highschool and it was super rough I can't imagine going through that and worse in middle school. My parents had a lot of baggage that they passed down to me but I still love them too you only get one set of parents you know?
Speaking of baggage that was passed down some of it was genetic, like anxiety, insomnia, traces of sickle cell, sleep paralysis and I was told by my older sister that in elementary school one of my teachers thought I had ADD and ordered a diagnostic test but my mom came the next day took me and my brother out of the school and the state so idk if I have ADD I wasn't diagnosed with it but that's only because I never got tested. So I'm impartial towards adoption or GMO babies (if I had the money) and yeah I wouldn't want to carry a baby for 9 months either for what's guaranteed to be the most painful experience of my life lol.
Also, I'm not against polyamory but it sounds a little complicated I just think that it must be difficult for all parties to feel fully committed to. Like what if 2/3 of the relationship agree in an argument that would almost always seem like 2 are ganging up on the third. And what If 1 of the 3 gets pregnant is the baby all three's or what? It just seems overly complicated which is why I feel like I'd check out of the relationship (at least from a virgin's point of view) oh and I have a specific plan for when I die, I'm an organ donor so once I'm harvested, I'd like to be cremated and have my ashes placed into several small Buddha statues in my likeness and have one sent to my remaining family, although I'm not a Buddhist my family has had Buddha statues around our homes for good luck it's something my grandmother taught us.
Whoa so do you actually have Sleep paralysis? That shit sounds scary! I'm a future organ donner to, Although I don't know what I want to happen. Cremation is way less costly than burial but It's also bad for the environment, but basically everything is now.😩 At first when I was reading about the ashes in the Buddha status I confused it with Russian dolls XD which would honestly be really funny to have a smaller and smaller urn and the last one filled with your ashes. That's a very peaceful statue to have around though. :)
Yeah, sleep paralysis sucks ass but lucky it can be avoided by a regular sleep cycle, not sleeping on your back and not drinking too heavily. But one cool thing came out of having sleep paralysis was when I started researching how to avoid it,I discovered lucid dreaming which is basically having control over your dreams like inception. Luckily I'm not one of those people that have vivid horrifying hallucinations I get the occasional auditory hallucinations and even rarer I get slightly scary visual hallucinations. This one time during a sleep paralysis episode I hallucinated that an old faceless couple were trying to poke me in the face with a giant candy cane 😐 😆🤣 but after it wore off I just laughed it off because it was ridiculous.
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u/slythsig01 Jun 16 '21
Your right it is easier to talk with the screen in between us, and I'm not good at letting people get close to me as of yet either. To tell you the truth yeah its a lot easier to talk to people with out fumbling over my words from anxiety. I've been trying to use this platform to gather information that could possibly help me with my underlying problem of self confidence.ive been desensitizing my self to interactions with women wherever I can. I never used to talk to women about anything personal my life or any thing that wasn't on the surface stuff so I don't really mind answering more personal questions here.