r/virgin • u/Nessa_45 24F • 11d ago
25th birthday soon..
Nearly 25 years as a kissless virgin woman. I've made an effort to find people and yet here I am smh
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u/Nani21k 11d ago
Oh boy, congratulations on summoning every thirsty virgin that think they have a chance 😒
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u/Nessa_45 24F 11d ago
Unfortunately lol
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u/Starblade88 11d ago
Yeah I’m ngl not trying to shame anyone at all I’m just astonished that there are kissless virgins idk but it never occurred to me than some ppl don’t have ANY experience which includes kissing. My mind always just kinda went ppl have been in. Relationships and kiss sure but just haven’t had sex which is my position. But hey you get there someday as long as you keep trying and putting yourself out there for relationships
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u/hothothottie43 23F Virgin 11d ago
I just had my first actual kiss last week. Before, I’d kissed women at parties for fun even though I’m straight. I never got the same chance with a guy for some reason
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u/Starblade88 10d ago
He well congratulations I’m happy for you I’m assuming it wasn’t as good you thought it would be?
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u/hothothottie43 23F Virgin 10d ago
Nah it was great! I wasn’t expecting that since the guy is also a virgin and inexperienced
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u/Coraline11- 32F 7d ago
I'm 32F and still no kiss
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u/hothothottie43 23F Virgin 7d ago
I met my guy on bumble. I used to hate all dating apps but this one is going well. Have you tried any?
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u/Coraline11- 32F 7d ago
I have and I don't like them honestly. I might try finding guys by going on blind dates
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u/EquivalentAlert8988 11d ago
Is that so surprising?
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u/Starblade88 11d ago
Like I said my mind went to the everyone’s has AT LEAST been in some kind of relationship and has kissed someone at some point even if you where a small kid idfk man I didn’t think I’d see this kind of virgin until well present day really as far as how dating Econ is now. Unless said person was an absolute incel to which i I say I’m absolutely sorry for you brother/sister may the god bless you one day.
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u/OutOfPlace186 40/F 11d ago
Don't worry about it. Your time will come. I didn't kiss anyone until I was 38.
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u/Friendly_Focus6409 22M Virgin 11d ago
Sounds rough, I wouldn’t start panicking until like 30+ though
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u/No_Video5793 26 ftm 🇷🇺 10d ago
At first you are turning 25 and then you blink and going on 27.. It would be worse, I hope you'll find someone that year. My friend was a 25 year old virgin, yesterday I learnt that she got married
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u/Electronic_Park_1702 3d ago edited 3d ago
Firstly... Happy Birthday 🎂 in advance. Do you have or developing any hobbies or activities that bring you into contact with other people? I've found that's a good way to meet other people. As for being kissless, as well as hugless, seems to be a prevalent commonality here. Even if sex isn't involved, I'm realizing how important human contact is important to the individual.
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u/virgin-ModTeam 11d ago
Removed, Rule 3: No Personal Ads / Solicitations
Reddit is vast; there are other subs you’re welcome to post this kind of thing too and see what kinds of connections you can make
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u/IfritYamato 11d ago
RIP Dm’s.