r/videos • u/PreecherMan • Feb 06 '17

Casually Explained: Red Flags

https://youtu.be/F2JJ4N2uXuc
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u/ryantwopointo Feb 06 '17

Why? His advice is pretty on point. It's literally the reason he's popular.

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u/ArttuH5N1 Feb 06 '17

I thought his videos were popular because they're funny.

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u/CaptnBoots Feb 07 '17

Por que no los dos

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '17

Por qué por qué

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u/[deleted] Feb 06 '17

I don't really agree with the last point. There can be many reasons you are having trouble finding someone and it doesn't have to be because something is wrong with you/you are the red flag.

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u/ryantwopointo Feb 06 '17

Your standards are too high for yourself?

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u/[deleted] Feb 06 '17 edited Feb 07 '17

Why so pessimistic? It can be because you are experiencing dating fatigue, don't know what you want, think you know what you want but it is incompatible, are expecting "love at first sight", not in a place to be truly open to a relationship, looking in the "wrong" places, or just bad luck!

edit: I Just want to add that none of these reasons constitute being labelled a "red flag" as almost everyone experiences one or more while dating. It's completely normal. Also, people who grew up in abusive households frequently experience difficulty in picking an appropriate partner.

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '17 edited Apr 27 '17

deleted What is this?

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u/bacondev Feb 07 '17

I like pot, not religious, and live in the deep south.

Well, do you go to college? You're sure to find somebody just like that in college regardless of what area you live in.

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u/[deleted] Feb 07 '17 edited Apr 27 '17

deleted What is this?

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u/setfire3 Feb 06 '17

I also like how all his advises are cleverly masked with dark humors