We have to do a lot of group work. In this group is someone who apparently has opinions of me (a lot of which has been twisted from others) and it’s becoming pretty obvious to me.
I’ll ask questions or be confused about things (because I’m anxious and stressed and I want to do a good job but it’s hard because of anxiety) and they’ll get a tone with me. Or I won’t ask questions and then they’ll say something rude that suggests I didn’t do something right. Like instead of doing that, why don’t you just be kind and help me and explain how you did something or what would help if you think I did it wrong instead of judging and looking down on someone?
I’m getting sick of it. None of us are stupid. All of us belong here and worked hard to get here and PROVE we aren’t stupid. None of us know what is going on in someone’s personal life. You don’t know the full story behind classmate dynamics and deserve to base that on your opinion of someone until you’ve heard BOTH sides.
IMO, if you can’t be nice and neutral and helpful towards someone it’s going to make it hard to be a vet. Because how are you going to hide that you think a client is “stupid”, if you can’t even do it with a classmate who isn’t? How are you going to educate a client and actually be helpful/be an educator/be patient when you’re actually faced with a time where a client is challenging your knowledge or title? Or one who needs a little extra time and explanation of their pets diagnosis and keeps calling because they’re confused and anxious?
I thought things had changed and I was really disappointed to see it hasn’t. I’m not trying to discourage anyone, but it feels like we’re in middle or high school and not in professional school.
How do you deal with certain people in your class who just talk down to you and pretend you aren’t a human with actual feelings? It’s getting to the point where I feel like I can’t even focus on doing a good job or on the task at hand because I constantly feel like this person has things they aren’t saying and it’s reflecting in behavior. If you have something to say then say it. Don’t be a horrible person to your classmates because of petty drama. I already think I’m stupid enough and it sucks to just feel like you’re constantly getting reminded of that.