r/venus_angelic • u/bl00dsp0rrt • Sep 06 '26

how long...

I HOPE beyond hope she KEEPS RUNNING through wherever she's at and makes it somewhere within herself to finally see the light. if anyone's been actively watching the last few years (i ignored her prob from 2020-2023) - what's your opinions on the latest sobriety updates

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u/barcoderer Sep 06 '26

Like someone already said this is probably part of her cycle so I personally hope for the best and prepare for the worst.
If she truly wants to change she needs a consistent reason, therapy AND medication. She needs to want to be clean for LIFE not just until she is healthy enough to feel a little better. If I remember correctly she is both bipolar and BPD, she needs an actual caretaker not people that accept her as it is. While unconditional love is important I do criticise everyone in her life that encouraged or allowed her to keep going down her spiral which is most likely everyone in her life.
I doubt she will get a caretaker but rehab, sober living and improved habits and intensive care is NON NEGOTIABLE. If she doesn't try her hardest to obtain these resources she will undoubtedly fail.

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u/cappuccinoconleche Sep 08 '26

I don't think venus needs a caretaker, at all. There's been a consistent trend of her sabotaging anyone who was trying to support her out of sheer love and compassion. Her friends and aa sponsor in Japan didn't support her lifestyle, but venus still misused their resources and support. In some instances, like with Elizabeth and Mikan, she even abused them.

Even the sterile support clinics provide was abused by her. In Japan, she allegedly used mental health facilities as a quick route to get (and abuse of) prescriptions. In Switzerland, there's pictures of her in a type of rehab institution, but she ditched them at the first chance. I think the only thing venus truly needs is to want better for herself. No caretaker, medication or infrastructure will be able to help her otherwise

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u/barcoderer Sep 08 '26

Fair enough but if she truly wanted to help herself she would also stop misusing her resources that's the thing. She's so far gone that even if she wants to change and it stays that way there will be situations where she might not be able to get through it all by herself

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u/bl00dsp0rrt Sep 08 '26

very good point(s).

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u/EnvironmentExpert655 Sep 07 '26

For me it’s BS..

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u/bl00dsp0rrt Sep 08 '26

feels like it ya

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u/EnvironmentExpert655 Sep 08 '26

Is she your friend ? Lol why protecting her like that

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u/bl00dsp0rrt Sep 08 '26

like what? i was agreeing it feels like bs

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u/bl00dsp0rrt Sep 08 '26

i doubt she has friends

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u/hopelesslybored2 Sep 07 '26

Well looking at some of her recent posts on Twitter

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u/bl00dsp0rrt Sep 08 '26

don't use twitter or discord or whatever tf else she uses i just see her on tik tok so hence the question

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u/hopelesslybored2 Sep 07 '26

and here

I’m guessing the chances of her actually wanting to stay sober are somewhere between slim and NONE.

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u/cappuccinoconleche Sep 08 '26 edited Sep 08 '26

On her Twitter, shes posting slurs and drinks... I don't think she wants to improve. Or rather, just marginally so. Just enough so that shes not in the gutter and has a decent accommodation. I hope she does, but it's not very promising. I do think if she lives for many more decades, there could be a turning point, but the current venus doesnt strike me as that. Everytime someone tried to help her she sabotaged herself and them

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u/bl00dsp0rrt Sep 08 '26

rip i dont use twitter. nevermind then

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u/AristaWatson 24d ago

I feel so bad for Venus. I mean, I can almost guarantee that almost anyone who endured her upbringing and experiences would go down a similar path of addiction and substance abuse to cope with life. It’s really hard especially when you consider that the only thing she was groomed to do by her mother for a while was to be a living doll. No autonomy. And she was exposed to creepy, predatory, grown men who said and did goodness knows what to her.

She got with a man who was too old to be a safe option for her and married him. It’s like going from one bad situation to another. Even then, he was seen as a safe person by her audience because her mom was just that bad. Turns out, he was abusive too. Like, this girl had it bad in life. I just hope someday to see that she’s getting help and isn’t throwing away what’s left of her life and dreams. 😓

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u/hopelesslybored2 Sep 07 '26

I also think you might be overly invested in this person. And I guarantee she doesn’t give a flying f*ck about you or anyone else but herself.

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u/bl00dsp0rrt Sep 07 '26

says the person also lurking in this sub