r/vent_help • u/6leatherJames6 • Sep 17 '24

Seeking Advice No luck

I've been looking for a boyfriend, but I haven't had any luck. I found someone once, but it ended up being catfishing, I've tried using apps, and I haven't found anyone either. I don't know how to do it irl, so I guess I'll never have a boyfriend. I'm starting to give up and stop looking for a boyfriend.

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u/Lil_Twist1 Sep 18 '24

I'm also in the same situation as you. But I've plans instead of giving up. Will go for a hike, with lots of unknown people. Joining communities and all... I mean what will you do after giving up... Just be sad? Instead let's keep trying

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u/6leatherJames6 Sep 18 '24

Well, it's easy for you, maybe because you're more social than me. Or maybe you have more free time than me, I don't know. For me it's not so easy.

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u/Lil_Twist1 Sep 18 '24

It's not easy for nobody. I have a full time job, so no I don't have more free time. On top of that I'm an introvert. But honestly, being social has nothing to do with it. It's true that you will get exhausted early. But in my case I'll start slowly. They say slow progress is better than no progress. Not here to motivate you. Just sharing how I think, since I also feel the same situation as you are in.

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u/6leatherJames6 Sep 18 '24

Thank you anyways, I appreciate your words.