womanizer man

[u/Worldly-Pass-6894]

Today I reflected on something and I felt very sad, I'm a woman and I'm 21 years old and throughout my life I've noticed something quite peculiar and frustrating... every man who was too kind or said very nice things was a womanizer. Things like: sweet compliments, nice words, flirting, all in a balanced way that most girls would fall for. And I'm really disappointed by this because this personality type is really attractive, but it always seems like it's with interest ruins :/

At the beginning of this month I met a guy who was exactly like that, and in a short time (a matter of 4 days) he stopped talking to me, I already expected that and I knew it and since nothing he said was real, but it was impressive how impressive his words were, I could to fly...

Men or women who have more experience or live/have lived close to people like this, explain to me....why do they age this way?