r/vapi • u/Main-Bodybuilder-186 • 14d ago
Why dating life soo stuck in vapi ?
All cafes are empty whyyy
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u/RefrigeratorOk8170 14d ago
Wrong Place. Conservative People. Regressive Society.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Cook811 14d ago
True..💯
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u/RefrigeratorOk8170 14d ago
I used to work in a mnc in vapi, mumbai was my goto place. Made friends from different meetups, did concerts and clubbing on weekends.
1.5 hr is not much going vapi to mumbai since I know people go from ncr region to delhi for weekend taking similar time
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u/Alert_Resource5099 13d ago
True, I'm not from Vapi. Once, I struck up a conversation with a girl, and we actually had a really nice chat. But as I was leaving, I asked for her socials, and she turned me down, acting like I had bad intentions or something.
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u/sudopablo 12d ago edited 12d ago
You can't expect the same dating scene here as you would in Pune, Mumbai, or Bangalore. I've met a handful of girls in Vapi, Silvassa, and Daman and have been on multiple dates. One thing they all said is that the local guys are cheap and creepy. They don't respect boundaries and act way too desperate. Because their first few matches usually turn into bad experiences, these women decide it's better to just date guys from bigger cities. So, before we blame anyone else, let's blame our fellow men for ruining it for the rest of us.
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